...is he playing mind games??

[directx]

The fact that directx thinks that was the "lowest" post she ever read, as opposed to the original poster, says a lot.

 

 

Then this gem:

I can't get over the ignorance for making such a comparison. Maybe its your type of reaction and behavior that you just demonstrated that created a person like a VA Tech shooter.

 

Wow, you are so right directx! I am sure it was people who are on the correct side of morality who protest an outright cheaters actions that created the VA shooter.

 

I don't even know what to say..... ugh. I can't argue with a nutter.

Now I see what kind of person you are. You response and solution to someone or something you don't like is to 'protest'.

Why not try open dialogue and reasoning, instead of name calling and bashing? Both you and chaos have very hostile tendencies when you see someone doing something you don't like. I bet you could get violent as well.

People that insist/believe they are on the 'correct side of morality' are usually the most dangerous.

Instead of protesting and thrashing out, try reasoning and logic. You may be amazed at the results.

[chaos40]

I never said you should coddle her. Just answer her question or move on. She wasn't asking for judgement but people here like to make themselves feel better by piling on with holier-than-thou judgement.

 

Its nice to see at least you recognize people here are being undue harsh. Again, the harshness is not constructive, just spouted like mindlessly. Tell Squeak and Chaos they might be too 'harsh'. They'll resort to name calling because they apparently don't know how to reason otherwise.

Now I hurt their little feelings and I exposed them for what they are: hateful people taking out their frustrations in life on anyone they can like children. I am almost sorry I made them cry.

 

Your last sentence makes sense. "She needs to look within herself and see how she ended up where she is."

 

Why couldnt someone just tell her that without judging her like a criminal.

 

this is how you tell people the "might be too harsh"

I think that is the lowest post I have ever read. You are going to compare her to a tragedy that killed 32 students and destroyed families for the rest of their lives. What a cold, miserable, insensivite person you must be. I don't mean this as an insult, just a clear observation.

 

I believe it is YOU who started with the direct name calling. Maybe if you could pull your head out of your ass and re-read the thread you will see that. YOu can ramble with your nonsense all day long but as you can see you have about 4 different posters disagreeing with you now. Oh, and since we're on the bandwagon of jumping to conclusions on what people's real life behavior must be I'll take a moment to suggest that based on your posts you are a cheater with little or no morals.

[directx]

this is how you tell people the "might be too harsh"

I think that is the lowest post I have ever read. You are going to compare her to a tragedy that killed 32 students and destroyed families for the rest of their lives. What a cold, miserable, insensivite person you must be. I don't mean this as an insult, just a clear observation.

 

I believe it is YOU who started with the direct name calling. Maybe if you could pull your head out of your ass and re-read the thread you will see that. YOu can ramble with your nonsense all day long but as you can see you have about 4 different posters disagreeing with you now. Oh, and since we're on the bandwagon of jumping to conclusions on what people's real life behavior must be I'll take a moment to suggest that based on your posts you are a cheater with little or no morals.

 

There was no name calling when I called your post the lowest I ever read. I standby what I said 110%. I did not call you any names. You can't tell me you even slightly fathom how tragic the shooting was, and you used it a casual comparison. YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW LOW THIS IS.

 

I don't care if everyone disagreed with me. Its classic mob mentality.

It was a disgusting comparison and its amazing you cannot see the wrong in that.

 

Can you explain why you think its ok to use the VA shooting as a comparison? I bet you cannot.

[chaos40]

Hi Marie Evans!

Disregard all the judgement calls. At least you were brave and honest enough to post what happened.

I don't think he is that interested. I think the infatuation he had with you has dimmed, but yours has not.

Also, you are appearing too needy,due to your insecurity of your looks and attractivness. This you need to get under control.

Nobody is attracted to a super needy person (which is why in the movies people are always attracted to the non-needy characters.)

 

Sound like it moved too fast, and he was in lust and you were both in infatuation and lust.

He got his fill and wants to move on. I bet he found someone else and now you are cramping his style.

What can you do? Probably nothing, because he doesnt feel that way anymore. but for some reason I think if you ignored him and changed your image to being more attractive, he would be knocking on your door once again.

Just my opinion.

 

Since Direct seems to think she is the moral compass here at Loveshack I will now present my case against her.

 

Exhibit A:

Disregard all the judgment calls:

Basically, what this poster is saying is “I am the final authority on all matters related to morality and ethics and everyone else’s opinion here is just nonsense”

 

Exhibit B:

At least you were brave and honest enough to post what happened

This poster obviously has a very distorted view of what bravery and honesty really is since this is an anonymous message board and the OP is simply looking for advice on how to rekindle this immoral relationship and not coming clean About the wrongness of the affair itself.

 

Exhibit C:

What can you do? Probably nothing, because he doesnt feel that way anymore. but for some reason I think if you ignored him and changed your image to being more attractive, he would be knocking on your door once again.

Notice the good wholesome advice being given here by LoveShack’s very own moral compass. Notice how she skips past the parts about this man having a wife and the OP having a husband. Notice how she sees nothing wrong with this situation and even suggests ways the OP can rekindle this affair. This is basically a cookbook on how to continue an unhealthy relationship which could result in a tragedy yet she’s appalled by my simple analogy in an earlier post.

 

For all of these obvious contradictions and distorted viewpoints I have to call Bull****tery on your posts

 

The Prosecution rests

[directx]

Since Direct seems to think she is the moral compass here at Loveshack I will now present my case against her.

 

Exhibit A:

Disregard all the judgment calls:

Basically, what this poster is saying is “I am the final authority on all matters related to morality and ethics and everyone else’s opinion here is just nonsense”

 

Exhibit B:

At least you were brave and honest enough to post what happened

This poster obviously has a very distorted view of what bravery and honesty really is since this is an anonymous message board and the OP is simply looking for advice on how to rekindle this immoral relationship and not coming clean About the wrongness of the affair itself.

 

Exhibit C:

What can you do? Probably nothing, because he doesnt feel that way anymore. but for some reason I think if you ignored him and changed your image to being more attractive, he would be knocking on your door once again.

Notice the good wholesome advice being given here by LoveShack’s very own moral compass. Notice how she skips past the parts about this man having a wife and the OP having a husband. Notice how she sees nothing wrong with this situation and even suggests ways the OP can rekindle this affair. This is basically a cookbook on how to continue an unhealthy relationship which could result in a tragedy yet she’s appalled by my simple analogy in an earlier post.

 

For all of these obvious contradictions and distorted viewpoints I have to call Bull****tery on your posts

 

The Prosecution rests

 

Good job 'Prosecution'! Good job of dodgeing questions posed to you.

Can you answer this question?

 

Can you explain why you think its ok to use the VA shooting as a comparison? I bet you cannot.

 

With regards to Exhibit A:

Exhibit A:

Disregard all the judgment calls:

Basically, what this poster is saying is “I am the final authority on all matters related to morality and ethics and everyone else’s opinion here is just nonsense”

No, basically what I am saying is disregard the judgement calls because she came her to ask for help with her questions, NOT to be JUDGED.

Why can't you understand that?

 

With regards to Exhibit B:

Exhibit B:

At least you were brave and honest enough to post what happened

This poster obviously has a very distorted view of what bravery and honesty really is since this is an anonymous message board and the OP is simply looking for advice on how to rekindle this immoral relationship and not coming clean About the wrongness of the affair itself.

How can you not think it was an HONEST post? She didn't try to hide anything, proven by everyone's 'judgement' against her. Her actions may not be honest, but her POST honest.

Understand?

 

With regards to Exhibit C:

Exhibit C:

What can you do? Probably nothing, because he doesnt feel that way anymore. but for some reason I think if you ignored him and changed your image to being more attractive, he would be knocking on your door once again.

Notice the good wholesome advice being given here by LoveShack’s very own moral compass. Notice how she skips past the parts about this man having a wife and the OP having a husband. Notice how she sees nothing wrong with this situation and even suggests ways the OP can rekindle this affair. This is basically a cookbook on how to continue an unhealthy relationship which could result in a tragedy yet she’s appalled by my simple analogy in an earlier post.

Yes. I gave her advice. Thats why she posted. Did I miss the part where she said 'please judge me too'. Can you point that out to me?

 

Everyone here is quick to a knee-jerk reaction to kick this person they miss the POINT of the thread.

And why do you have to swear at practically every response? You really have aggression issues, which may be why you relate to a shooter.

So I'll ask this question again since you like to ignore it at your conveinence:

Can you explain why you think its ok to use the VA shooting as a comparison? I bet you cannot.

[nicki]

Um, the OP really should be posting in the "Other Woman" forum. She will have more sympathy from other dysfunctional people who care about her furthering her own dysfunction, thereby desensitizing everyone who posts there about their serious flaws in thinking and character.

 

That's what happens with child molesters, you know. They get an online forum where there dysfunction now has "support." They are among "friends." Their problem isn't so bad...hey, it's "normal" to these guys. So the molester takes the next step and does more than just talk about his attraction to children. All within the support of people who "care."

 

Psychologists talk about this phenomenon all the time. Why do you think porn addiction has exploded? Sexual addiction? There is now a sick support for this kind of behavior, and immediate online support at that.

 

Good old fashioned peer disapproval can be a great wake up call. I think everyone here cares very much that she changes her behavior.

 

It goes against common sense to post advice on helping someone make horrible choices that will not only hurt others, but themselves.

 

I wouldn't give my best friend advice on how to cheat on her husband. I would express my swift disapproval to shock her out of her behavior...and then I would help her once SHE saw her own dysfunction.

 

I'm sure the OP wants to do the right thing. But until she says that, then how can any healthy person offer her any advice other than "What you are doing is wrong."

[chaos40]

There was no name calling when I called your post the lowest I ever read. I standby what I said 110%. I did not call you any names. You can't tell me you even slightly fathom how tragic the shooting was, and you used it a casual comparison. YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW LOW THIS IS.

 

I don't care if everyone disagreed with me. Its classic mob mentality.

It was a disgusting comparison and its amazing you cannot see the wrong in that.

 

Can you explain why you think its ok to use the VA shooting as a comparison? I bet you cannot.

 

Kinda like if the VA Tech shooter knocked on my door after the shootings asking for refuge Id want to punch him in the face and hold him down for the police rather than offer him a drink of water and a warm bed to sleep in.

Explain where I compared the severity of what she has done to what the va shooter did. This is an analogy meant to show how I do not welcome wrongdoers with open arms. No where did I say that what she is currently doing is AS bad as what the VA shooter did. However, little miss righteousness, I’ll tell you this, the emotions that can be produced as a result of this deviant behavior can result in tragedy. Or was the Amie Fisher story just my imagination? Wake your brain up and re-read the post. Also, think of the long term consequences of indirectly telling someone it’s OK to carry on an affair.

Oh, and by the way, when several people disagree with you it may be a sign the you are actually wrong and NOT just a “Mob mentality”

[chaos40]

We are now up to 7 people who disagree with your unrealistic advice.. you may want to bow out now before you make yourself look like more of an ass

 

By the Way.. excellent post Nicki

[squeak]

Directx won't drop this because HE PROBABLY TRIED TO HAVE AN AFFAIR AND WAS REJECTED.

 

Isn't that why you identified with her, and are trying to argue everyone down?

 

The fact that you think I've been hurt and that is why I respond like this is so wrong. Your moral compass is so off you can't even recgonize why people are responding this way. Save your false sentiments for people you can fool.

 

And yes, affairs kill people emotionally, so go on, keep talking about how outraged you are about the comparison, in an effort to appear like a normal human, and send all your love to the original poster.

 

If you want sympathy or understanding, go somewhere with your own kind.

 

And stop harping on the VA comment, you are trying to prove how righteous you are as a red herring to how over the top your intiial response was to marie evans. "HI MARIE EVANS, CONGRATULATIONS ON BEING SO BRAVE AND HONEST". You think shifting the blame after all osters on this board expressed some form of moral indignation at her non existent conscience in this situation will make you feel better. So you keep on and on about an analogy, A METAPHOR, in an effort to keep the guilt of your own actions away, and shift the argument. You are not even challenging, you sound really dumb.

 

All Because your a wanna be cheater.

 

That's why you hate my posts, I was pointing out how she was rejected by him , and that hurt you, didn't it? Go away, your kind is not wanted around here.

 

Go lurk with the slime. By the way, follow your own example of not resorting to childish name calling, scrawl back, you'll see it was you that dropped the first labels .."this is the LOWEST poster blah blah blah" , just stop already. You are contradicting everything you say.

[chaos40]

being stubborn and stupid is a deadly combination

[squeak]

Chaos-is this dude ever going to stop?

What is he trying to get out of this?

Great post Nicki, and everyone else .

 

He must be trying to get a reaction out of everyone, how many more times do you think he will bring up your fitting ANALOGY ?

 

Should we keep responding to this nutter?

[directx]

being stubborn and stupid is a deadly combination

Now why did you have to insult? something bothering you? You can't use logic and reason and articulate your thoughts, so you have to resort to insults.

Small, little men do that. (but that might be true, who knows).

 

And squeak, whats with the slanderous conclusions?

All you people know how to do is brutally insult, rock throw, and name call when someone has a different opinion.

Look back at your posts. Are you proud of them? Much anger is apparent.

I'm sorry if you are all dejected, rejected, cheated on, etc. but don't take it out on the TC or myself. Its unfounded.

So full of hate and violence...

[chaos40]

Now why did you have to insult? something bothering you? You can't use logic and reason and articulate your thoughts, so you have to resort to insults.

Small, little men do that. (but that might be true, who knows).

 

And squeak, whats with the slanderous conclusions?

All you people know how to do is brutally insult, rock throw, and name call when someone has a different opinion.

Look back at your posts. Are you proud of them? Much anger is apparent.

I'm sorry if you are all dejected, rejected, cheated on, etc. but don't take it out on the TC or myself. Its unfounded.

So full of hate and violence...

 

funny you should comment about insults since you were the first to start with the cold, misreable and insensitve remarks. I guess your just too dumb to see that you are making yourself look like more of a moron with each post. I suggest you go back and read your post "Much stupidity is apparent in them".

 

Notice how I did not mention any names, but instinctively this poster knew exactly who I was talking about and was even dumb enough to quote me. How do you reason with a person that is as illogical as you are?

[directx]

funny you should comment about insults since you were the first to start with the cold, misreable and insensitve remarks. I guess your just too dumb to see that you are making yourself look like more of a moron with each post. I suggest you go back and read your post "Much stupidity is apparent in them".

 

Again, you read what you want to read. WHen I said the 'cold, miserable, and insensitive' remarks, they werent personal insults. You chose to take them that way. Hate to break it to you, but it was.

I didnt use name calling or profanity (as you choose to).

 

Besides, didn't you 'rest your case'?

[chaos40]

Again, you read what you want to read. WHen I said the 'cold, miserable, and insensitive' remarks, they werent personal insults. You chose to take them that way. Hate to break it to you, but it was.

I didnt use name calling or profanity (as you choose to).

 

Besides, didn't you 'rest your case'?

 

of course 'cold, miserable, and insensitive' are not insults.. where the hell would I have gotten that idea. Maybe b/c you told me they were not ... Ok, we'll play by your own rules

 

this is not an insult, but I think you are a total moron with no common sense ..don't take that personal. ok?

[directx]

of course 'cold, miserable, and insensitive' are not insults.. where the hell would I have gotten that idea. Maybe b/c you told me they were not ... Ok, we'll play by your own rules

 

this is not an insult, but I think you are a total moron with no common sense ..don't take that personal. ok?

 

Well, considering the source, why would I take that personal. But see, what you did is name calling. Do you not know 'moron' is name calling?

Did I say 'I think you are a cold'. Or 'I think you are a miserable'.

That doesnt make sense.

 

Maybe what is challenging you is not the posts but maybe its with the English language and communication? I don't know, Im just guessing.

[squeak]

Directx: You never answered my question.

Didn't you once post that you are married and were receiving mixed signals from a prospect who was also married?

 

No wonder you want to argue everyone down. It doesn't change who you are.

 

Chaos-just don't bother, he is enjoying the role of seeing you and me respond to his every prompt.

 

We won't see eye to eye, and it is just going to go down from here, he'll get worse and throw a few more insults, but whatever, this is just an internet board in cyberspace, ultimately he has to live with himself.

[chaos40]

Well, considering the source, why would I take that personal. But see, what you did is name calling. Do you not know 'moron' is name calling?

Did I say 'I think you are a cold'. Or 'I think you are a miserable'.

That doesnt make sense.

 

Maybe what is challenging you is not the posts but maybe its with the English language and communication? I don't know, Im just guessing.

 

Listen up everyone... calling someone cold, miserable and insensitive is NOT name calling or offensive..That’s right! You heard it right here from our very own genius who has the best command of the English language of anyone on Loveshack… So, here’s what I suggest. Each and every one of us should immediately walk into our employer’s office and say I think you are cold, miserable and insensitive and smile. Then, in about 2 hours, we can reconvene on this board and tally up the totals as to who still has a job.

You are obviously stuck on stupid and your attempts to redeem yourself only make you look increasingly dumb

[directx]

Listen up everyone... calling someone cold, miserable and insensitive is NOT name calling or offensive..That’s right! You heard it right here from our very own genius who has the best command of the English language of anyone on Loveshack… So, here’s what I suggest. Each and every one of us should immediately walk into our employer’s office and say I think you are cold, miserable and insensitive and smile. Then, in about 2 hours, we can reconvene on this board and tally up the totals as to who still has a job.

You are obviously stuck on stupid and your attempts to redeem yourself only make you look increasingly dumb

 

Why would someone go into their employers office and tell them that for no reason. If my boss thought the VA shooting was trivial enough to compare to normal people, yes, I would call him that and I have said worse to my employers in the past and have kept my job.

You may work in fear and walk the line, but Im not scared of doing that and there is no reason a good worker should be.

What kind of relationship do you have with your boss? Do you just keep your head down and jump when they say jump?

My integrity is not for sale.

[chaos40]

Why would someone go into their employers office and tell them that for no reason. If my boss thought the VA shooting was trivial enough to compare to normal people, yes, I would call him that and I have said worse to my employers in the past and have kept my job.

You may work in fear and walk the line, but Im not scared of doing that and there is no reason a good worker should be.

What kind of relationship do you have with your boss? Do you just keep your head down and jump when they say jump?

My integrity is not for sale.

 

 

And the dumbest response to an analogy goes to DirectX. Completely office topic and asymmetrical at best. Congratulations, you have just earned yourself the dumbass of the month award. Please, give yourself a round of applause... you deserve it!

[sunshinegirl]

This thread has gotten ridiculous, and, as you'll notice, the OP is long gone.

 

I was willing to give directx the benefit of the doubt until I looked this up:

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t97246/

 

After reading that thread I really do have to wonder what on earth is wrong with you, directx???

 

What are you speaking of when you say your integrity isn't for sale?

[chaos40]

This thread has gotten ridiculous, and, as you'll notice, the OP is long gone.

 

I was willing to give directx the benefit of the doubt until I looked this up:

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t97246/

 

After reading that thread I really do have to wonder what on earth is wrong with you, directx???

 

What are you speaking of when you say your integrity isn't for sale?

 

Oh, I called TROLL on this loser about 2 pages back.

 

His integrity is not for sale but his stupidity sure is flooding the market

[squeak]

Oh you bad person, you!

 

And squeak, whats with the slanderous conclusions?

Facts speak for themselves, see below!

 

 

In this post : http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t95970/

Direct x:

 

Yes, I can't understand her. That was the purpose of this post. She is friend and I care about her and worry about her. There are

other things going on with both of us that just don't need to be mentioned right now. You are very hostile in every one of your posts and are reading into things that aren't there.

I'm not angry or snapping back, but honestly, you sound as if you have been hurt in the past or are holding on to some anger from the past.

Did some man really hurt you, by cheating? Are you really lonely? Seriously, you ok?

 

Consternation said:

Direct - you are full of sh** .... we both know it. But carry on in your denial, if it makes you feel better. Over and out.

 

Directx replied:

Consternation,

WHAT are you talking about? Denial about what?

Tell us, what happened to you to think everyone is the same. It sounds as if you are relating personal life experiences in your responses.

So seriously, what happened?

Now fast forward to this post where he now has a living arrangement with a married woman, and he is cheating on his wife and family too:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t97246/:

Directx Sept 12 2006

We now live in a totally seperate world it seems! The living area is ours. If someone walked in,they would think us two lived together (which we do sorta).

We make small meals so when we go home we still eat regular dinners at our homes.

 

So far so good!

[littlepiggy1]

Wow, so directx is a cheater, too. Goodbye moral highground!

[lorr]

After reading Direct X's post, I had to laugh about the part where he cleans the car and prepares the passenger seat so that he captures the OW's odour for a sniff.

 

It just goes to show the kind of perverts that lurk on these forums....