Odd situation with time apart

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So, this guy and I met three years ago. We dated for a little while and he actually took my virginity. Then after we had been having sex for about three weeks, he up and disapeared. He just never showed up one day and i couldnt get ahold of him for the life of me. Three weeks later i finally got a sign from him. He was depressed and had a mental breakdown, feeling better but not seeing anyone still. I was younger and naive and it tore me apart. Then about a month and a half after his disapearance, ive of course started onto other men. I tell him about this because it wasnt fair for him to expect me to wait. We break up and make plans to exchange stuff. I bring along a good friend of mine for backup. He and I meet, she shows and then we have a conversation for about half an hour. My friend and him are going the same way and I the opposite. That was the first time they had met. Two or three months later they are good friends and I hang out with the three of them. I find out they are dating, get drunk and wind up having a terrible threesome with them.

After that he hit some more rocky times, and would call me for support. Soon afterwards however he began to feel better, and stop calling. Of course I am still completely in love with him at the time.