Hi, this is my first post!

[Trialbyfire]

Well Said Trialbyfire. Amen, thank heavens there are sane and decent people like you left in this sad, mixed up world.

Thanks. While I'm no angel, I can't condone sociopathic behaviour.

 

It's kind of silly to bring in other cultures beliefs about infidelity into this thread because it's also culturally acceptable to stone or kill women who indulge in infidelity or wanton lust in other countries...

[Herzen]

Thanks. While I'm no angel, I can't condone sociopathic behaviour.

 

It's kind of silly to bring in other cultures beliefs about infidelity into this thread because it's also culturally acceptable to stone or kill women who indulge in infidelity or wanton lust in other countries...

 

Translation: No other views permitted.

 

A closed mind is such a comfort.

[Trialbyfire]

Translation: No other views permitted.

 

A closed mind is such a comfort.

We live in North America but if you want to bring in that type of discussion...I've got plenty of stones...

[mrmaximum]

I wouldnt disrespect my wife by asking a married women if she likes to be tied up.

I just try to do the right thing...

 

Not only are you disrespecting your wife, you're also disrespecting the married woman you are propositioning, and yourself really. There are some people who have the morality of an Arachnid. All you can do, is make sure you aren't lumped into that category.

[mrmaximum]

I think out Lizzie is a dude!! It's just me, but I really can't see a woman go to this much trouble in the attempt to pyss us off. I mean, if you look at "her" arguements, some of them are just ludicrous. The domesticated animals are made wild by society and to assume otherwise is 'so foolish it didn't deserve a response! C'MON!! It's like ping pong for 'her' whatever we dish out 'she' gives it back in a way that is sure to push our buttons. I agree with another poster here, I think 'she' was a former poster that was flamed badly and this is their way at revenge. I would assume a woman would just tell us to go kiss off, but a guy would think this is sort of funny. Anyway, Lizzie, or should I say Dwayne, Carl, James, whatever. You should watch yourself,, the Mods here are quite dilligent and your game can't last much longer. Cheers Shawn!!

[Trialbyfire]

I think out Lizzie is a dude!!

Hahahaha...that would be so funny. Maybe he's a transvestite, which accounts for the admiration of his own breasts.

 

:lmao:

[Tomcat33]

Translation: No other views permitted.

 

A closed mind is such a comfort.

 

Chya no kidding! LOL

 

Herzen: I see you interpret "sectarian", the universal language of the closed minded. :laugh:

[Lizzie60]

I think out Lizzie is a dude!! It's just me, but I really can't see a woman go to this much trouble in the attempt to pyss us off. I mean, if you look at "her" arguements, some of them are just ludicrous. The domesticated animals are made wild by society and to assume otherwise is 'so foolish it didn't deserve a response! C'MON!! It's like ping pong for 'her' whatever we dish out 'she' gives it back in a way that is sure to push our buttons. I agree with another poster here, I think 'she' was a former poster that was flamed badly and this is their way at revenge. I would assume a woman would just tell us to go kiss off, but a guy would think this is sort of funny. Anyway, Lizzie, or should I say Dwayne, Carl, James, whatever. You should watch yourself,, the Mods here are quite dilligent and your game can't last much longer. Cheers Shawn!!

 

You are too funny... I am not a dude... I am what I say I am... I challenge the mods... I've never been here before, ask them! I found this forum by accident, surfing...

 

I really don't see the big deal... really. This is my life and I am not one bit ashamed of it... I enjoy every single minute of it. You know nothing about me except for what I have already divulged... You will eventually get to know me better... just wait. For your information, I am single, almost 55, very young in body and spirit, 2 grown-up children, one who is very well established. I work full time, very good job, live alone, I own two houses, one that I rent out outside the city. I'm very well off, so far my life is perfect.

[Tomcat33]

After reading this whole thread it's obvious that people just can't accept happiness that does not come in the form of the status quo.

 

You know what Lizzie, be happy, it's your life.

[mrmaximum]

You are too funny... I am not a dude... I am what I say I am... I challenge the mods... I've never been here before, ask them! I found this forum by accident, surfing...

 

I really don't see the big deal... really. This is my life and I am not one bit ashamed of it... I enjoy every single minute of it. You know nothing about me except for what I have already divulged... You will eventually get to know me better... just wait. For your information, I am single, almost 55, very young in body and spirit, 2 grown-up children, one who is very well established. I work full time, very good job, live alone, I own two houses, one that I rent out outside the city. I'm very well off, so far my life is perfect.

 

Sure thing Shane!!

[Lizzie60]

After reading this whole thread it's obvious that people just can't accept happiness that does not come in the form of the status quo.

 

You know what Lizzie, be happy, it's your life.

 

And all this time I thought you hated me!!!!

[pureinheart]

Even if the OP is a fraud, this is still a mentality of some out there. I have seen woman conduct themselves in this manor....it is very sad due to all of the people that get hurt behind this type of behavior

[Trialbyfire]

Even if the OP is a fraud, this is still a mentality of some out there. I have seen woman conduct themselves in this manor....it is very sad due to all of the people that get hurt behind this type of behavior

This is why I keep bringing up sociopathic behaviour. If you don't care how many innocent people you hurt so you can get off your rocks, it smacks of something terribly broken inside the individual.

[pureinheart]

After reading this whole thread it's obvious that people just can't accept happiness that does not come in the form of the status quo.

 

You know what Lizzie, be happy, it's your life.

 

 

STATUS QUO????? How about morality and self respect....

[Tomcat33]

And all this time I thought you hated me!!!!

 

Nahhh I don't hate you, I may challenge your views and may not agree with your choices but that doesn't mean I have to hate you. It takes a LOT for me to hate someone, this does not inspire any sort of strong emotion in me.

 

I think it's amusing to see all the sermons posted over and over and over, like you would change your life to apease a bunch people you don't even know. you didn't come on here looking for advice, you know who you are and F the rest. I find that really ballsy actually. LOL

[Tomcat33]

STATUS QUO????? How about morality and self respect....

 

What about it? It's obviously not a concern for her, and us harping on what's wrong VS what's right is not going to change her mind so to each their own.

[pureinheart]

This is why I keep bringing up sociopathic behaviour. If you don't care how many innocent people you hurt so you can get off your rocks, it smacks of something terribly broken inside the individual.

 

Your right.....I remember looking up "sociopath" up on line and was shocked to see that I was working with many who fit that profile....thank God I do not work with that group of people any longer

 

Sociopaths are very scary....

[pureinheart]

What about it? It's obviously not a concern for her, and us harping on what's wrong VS what's right is not going to change her mind so to each their own.

 

Still, it's not good to condone this type of attitude....

[Trialbyfire]

Sociopaths are very scary....

Very much so. There's no reasoning with them, especially from any sense of community, moral obligation or more importantly what is law. Criminals tend to have this same mindset where they feel a sense of entitlement to goods that reside in others homes, shops, etc. It's like affirming the right to break into a jewellry shop because it's my life and this is what I want...

[Tomcat33]

Very much so. There's no reasoning with them, especially from any sense of community, moral obligation or more importantly what is law. Criminals tend to have this same mindset where they feel a sense of entitlement to goods that reside in others homes, shops, etc. It's like affirming the right to break into a jewellry shop because it's my life and this is what I want...

 

Oh C'MON are you really going to compare stealing jewelry to dating a MM? LOL wow you really do put these married guys on a pedestal by comparting them to jewels...

 

It's two concenting adults engaging in a relationship that benefits both in whatever way there is no stealing happening here because there is nothing taken without a will. The onis is on the cheater to have morality and give respect to ther person they chose to live their life with.

Let's say he was going for regular rub and tugs would you also call the massage chicks sociopaths? Aren't they out to destruct the sanctity of marraige and commitment and respect? What about strippers, if your man goes to strippers he might as well be getting a rub and tug or having an affair.

 

Mehhh, it's aaaaall so relative

 

Besides a woman like Lizzie doesn't even WANT to break the marriage up she is fine with him having a happy married life...so is she really doing the marriage so much harm? Really think about that.

[mrmaximum]

 

It's two concenting adults engaging in a relationship that benefits both in whatever way there is no stealing happening here because there is nothing taken without a will. The onis is on the cheater to have morality and give respect to ther person they chose to live their life with.

Let's say he was going for regular rub and tugs would you also call the massage chicks sociopaths? Aren't they out to destruct the sanctity of marraige and commitment and respect? What about strippers, if your man goes to strippers he might as well be getting a rub and tug or having an affair.

 

Mehhh, it's aaaaall so relative

 

Besides a woman like Lizzie doesn't even WANT to break the marriage up she is fine with him having a happy married life...so is she really doing the marriage so much harm? Really think about that.

 

That same exact thing is said by teenagers who choke themselves in the name of fun. Now you are begining to think like our Julius here. Yes this is a troll thread, but there are men and women who think like that. To say that it's not wrong until you get caught is irresponsible. I too just want people to be happy, but not at someone else's expense.

[Trialbyfire]

Oh C'MON are you really going to compare stealing jewelry to dating a MM? LOL wow you really do put these married guys on a pedestal by comparting them to jewels...

 

It's two concenting adults engaging in a relationship that benefits both in whatever way there is no stealing happening here because there is nothing taken without a will. The onis is on the cheater to have morality and give respect to ther person they chose to live their life with.

Let's say he was going for regular rub and tugs would you also call the massage chicks sociopaths? Aren't they out to destruct the sanctity of marraige and commitment and respect? What about strippers, if your man goes to strippers he might as well be getting a rub and tug or having an affair.

 

Mehhh, it's aaaaall so relative

 

Besides a woman like Lizzie doesn't even WANT to break the marriage up she is fine with him having a happy married life...so is she really doing the marriage so much harm? Really think about that.

TC, if you continue to condone this type of behaviour, it's only your attempt to win in this thread. The sad reality is that if the OP is real, you are doing her no good at all. She will find out pretty soon how sad and lonely life really is with no one to share her life with, when gravitational pull has taken it's full toll on her and no one is interested. The high of sexual affirmation will be gone with nothing to show for it except a path of destruction.

 

Karma is a bitch. She has a long memory...

[Tomcat33]

TC, if you continue to condone this type of behaviour, it's only your attempt to win in this thread. The sad reality is that if the OP is real, you are doing her no good at all. She will find out pretty soon how sad and lonely life really is with no one to share her life with, when gravitational pull has taken it's full toll on her and no one is interested. The high of sexual affirmation will be gone with nothing to show for it except a path of destruction.

 

Karma is a bitch. She has a long memory...

 

 

I don't need to win anything. Can I not state my opinion without being pegged as trying to do something other than that? Is that what you are trying to do? Win?

What's what's the prize? If there is an exotic trip involved in this debate because if there is I'll have to up the ante. LOL

 

I am stating MY opinion, Trial. Is that ok? Or can we only read you post for the 40th time in this thread about sociopaths and their patterns? C'mon post it one more time I don't think you posted anything about sociopaths on this page....

 

Why does the fact that my opinion differs from yours matter so much to you? Or have we all been abducted by alliens and you are the chosen leader and we have to follow your words?!?! You're getting too emotional to have a discussion. You have this "nosey neighbour" syndrome going on, you know what that is? it's where your house is falling apart but you have to fix the next door neighbour's life because you can't hold your own together.

 

Look I repect your views, I repect you have strong morals and you don't approve of As in any shape way or form. I GET IT. Now for variety can I interject some of my own views on THIS particular thread or do we have to only hear what you have to say? Because forgive me, no where on this site does it say "ONLY POSTS SUBMITTED BY TRIAL BY FIRE WILL BE CONSIDERED" If I missed the fineprint please redirect me.

 

Now, back to the topic at hand:

 

Don't you think that Lizzie being a woman of 55 and all can hit the brick wall herself when/if the time comes? if she is going to shrivel up like a prune and regret all her past actions an die alone, don't you think she needs to hit that point HERSELF? Or could it be that maybe you wish you could live your life like her, maybe not in the realm of an A, but more care free and with less hang-ups but your own fears stunt you from being who you would want to be?

 

You know I don't think this about trolls or As or what's right or wrong it's about liberating yourself from yourself. you're wound up so tight I 'don't even know how you breathe?

 

 

And just because I may be open to other points of views that may never form a part of MY own life does not mean I should be dodging Karma's bullets.(not sure if that Karma comment was intended for me or what...)

But thanks for the heads up

[mrmaximum]

Hahahaha...that would be so funny. Maybe he's a transvestite, which accounts for the admiration of his own breasts.

 

:lmao:

 

ROFLMAO :lmao: :lmao:

[Trialbyfire]

I don't need to win anything. Can I not state my opinion without being pegged as trying to do something other than that? Is that what you are trying to do? Win?

What's what's the prize? If there is an exotic trip involved in this debate because if there is I'll have to up the ante. LOL

 

I am stating MY opinion, Trial. Is that ok? Or can we only read you post for the 40th time in this thread about sociopaths and their patterns? C'mon post it one more time I don't think you posted anything about sociopaths on this page....

 

Why does the fact that my opinion differs from yours matter so much to you? Or have we all been abducted by alliens and you are the chosen leader and we have to follow your words?!?! You're getting too emotional to have a discussion. You have this "nosey neighbour" syndrome going on, you know what that is? it's where your house is falling apart but you have to fix the next door neighbours life because you can't hold your own together.

 

Look I repect your views, I repect you have strong morals and you don't approve of As in any shape way or form. I GET IT. Now for variety can I interject some of my own views on THIS particular thread or do we have to only hear what you have to say? Because forgive me, no where on this site does it say "ONLY POSTS SUBMITTED BY TRIAL BY FIRE WILL BE CONSIDERED" If I missed the fineprint please redirect me.

 

Now, back to the topic at hand:

 

Don't you think that Lizzie being a woman of 55 and all can hit the brick wall herself when/if the time comes? if she is going to shrivel up like a prune and regret all her past actions an die alone, don't you think she needs to hit that point HERSELF? Or could it be that maybe you wish you could live your life like her, maybe not in the realm of an A, but more care free and with less hang-ups but your own fears stunt you from being who you would want to be?

 

You know I don't think this about trolls or As or what's right or wrong it's about liberating yourself from yourself. you're wound up so tight I 'don't even know how you breathe?

 

 

And just because I may be open to other points of views that may never form a part of MY own life does not mean I should be dodging Karma's bullets.(not sure if that Karma comment was intended for me or what...)

But thanks for the heads up

My house is a very nice house. As a matter of fact it's looking far better than it's ever looked. I have no financial issues, regardless of my ongoing legal costs. I'm currently lightly dating a few men who are very nice. That I choose to remain uncommitted right now, is my personal choice. Best to go into something whole and I'm actually almost 100% there. It's an awesome feeling considering how long it's been since I last felt this good about life. Thanks for asking though.

 

Really TC, sociopathic behaviours are not something to condone...