mrmaximum Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 When you call people sad and pathetic, you are contributing to the bitterness. Or is it only OK when you do it? In essence, proving TBF and Trimmer's theory (Post#392) correct Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 I don't have any problems with self control... I am not into anger management counselling.. she is... so it might be a good idea to stay away from what cause the bitterness and anger... no? And, what in the world are you talking about with anger management? I don't think she has any anger problems. Just because she says how she feels, doesn't make her angry. It makes her an honest person with an opinion that she has decided to share. But, since it doesn't work with your thought process, you have made the diagnosis that she has an anger management problem. Once again, the world according to Lizzie. Get a clue Lizzie, there are other people in this world and as much as you don't care about them, they probably don't care much about you or what you think. Link to post Share on other sites
mrmaximum Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 You guys are a riot, you know that? Getting upset that people call you names because of the fact that you see nothing wrong with what your doing. Did you expect a hug, encouragement? You must know that isn't going to happen, and if you don't.....grow up. This is the reason that people usually don't TELL anyone that they cheat, remember that? You know as well as I do that even in this day and age that in some cases y'all would be killed so get off YOUR high horses. You where the ones that bought the SUV's, what are you complaining about the mileage now? Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 In essence, proving TBF and Trimmer's theory (Post#392) correct Certainly a possibility, but who really knows for sure if what Lizzie is telling us is the whole truth or even close to reality? Even if she is telling us the truth, it's only her view of the truth. We don't really know Lizzie and she has avoided answering the questions that have been asked of her. But, I agree with you, most people are not able to disregard others so easily. So, maybe TBF and Trimmer are on to something. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 Practice what you preach Lizzie. Everyone should be able to what ever they want. If TBF wants to post here, who are you to question it? not questioning it... I just find it strange that when someone has a problem with anger, let's say because of cheating in general, that /heshe would keep posting in a forum that is making him/her even more angry for nothing really. Is this an anger marathon? Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 not questioning it... I just find it strange that when someone has a problem with anger, let's say because of cheating in general, that /heshe would keep posting in a forum that is making him/her even more angry for nothing really. Is this an anger marathon? Who are you to say she has a problem with anger? Just because you don't like what she has to say, doesn't make her angry. And yes, you are questioning it. Ge over yourself Lizzie, you have no control over anyone. Just like you don't care about how your actions could effect others, no one cares what you think. And BTW, you are not in control of how a BW is going to act when she finds out what you have been doing with her husband. In some states a BW can actually sue an OW and win and you would have no control over that either. You may not think that having sex with MM is a big deal, but lots of people do and you will be as successful convincing them that you didn't do anything wrong as you have been convincing some people here. I can only hope that any BW that finds out about you realizes how insignificant you really are. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 Who are you to say she has a problem with anger? Just because you don't like what she has to say, doesn't make her angry. And yes, you are questioning it. Ge over yourself Lizzie, you have no control over anyone. Just like you don't care about how your actions could effect others, no one cares what you think. And BTW, you are not in control of how a BW is going to act when she finds out what you have been doing with her husband. In some states a BW can actually sue an OW and win and you would have no control over that either. You may not think that having sex with MM is a big deal, but lots of people do and you will be as successful convincing them that you didn't do anything wrong as you have been convincing some people here. I can only hope that any BW that finds out about you realizes how insignificant you really are. need to get a grip my dear... I didn't make that up... just check in the Rants and Confessions Forum... she wrote about it herself: under Is my IC insane? For your information I live in Canada so there is no suing here over that type of thing... it would be ridiculous anyway... we're not stupid. And I was also caught once by a wife... (about 4 yrs ago) and she was actually very nice to me... in fact, she was trying to get closer to me after... but I told her I didn't want her to call anymore... (she kind of wanted to be my friend or something, weird). Link to post Share on other sites
Herzen Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 You guys are a riot, you know that? Getting upset that people call you names because of the fact that you see nothing wrong with what your doing. Did you expect a hug, encouragement? You must know that isn't going to happen, and if you don't.....grow up. This is the reason that people usually don't TELL anyone that they cheat, remember that? You know as well as I do that even in this day and age that in some cases y'all would be killed so get off YOUR high horses. You where the ones that bought the SUV's, what are you complaining about the mileage now? Dude, I'm not "doing" anything. I'm not married and I've been happily dating a single woman for years. I just don't like cyber-bullying, and that's what's happening on this Thread. There are some Torquemada's, here, whom I find scary and annoying. Also, I detest all the upstanding citizens, here, who insult or psychologize rather than debate and discuss. (If I read one more pop reference to "sociopath.") For whatever reason, Lizzy has struck a collective nerve, and the angry, hysterical outcry is almost as odious as her behavior. Relax. Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Hey Lizzie and Herzen, I like to know why you both think people are so angry when we disagree with you and voice our opinion. Would it help if I put some:cool: in every post? Or is calling us angry and telling us to get a grip your only defense? Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Hey look Lizzie, you're almost there. Only a few thousand more views and you beat the top viewed thread. Congratulations! Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 I'm sure that you would think that as you've never been an OW and have no idea what it's like... OW don't want to replace anyone...they want to take their own place beside the man that they love, as his only partner... You have no idea what I would be thinking if I was an OW. Of course I would want to be his only partner. Makes no sense to date him for the heck of it. Talk about a waste of time. At least a waste of my time. But whatever floats the boat. Replacement was probably the wrong word because you can't replace a person, BUT in a sense someone would still want her out of the way. How can you steal something that no one owns? Maybe it's the WS that wants to see how long he can sneak around behind his W's back... I'm going with both but it would depend on the person and what they are seeking. BTW that was a figure of speech. Haven't you ever heard the phrase "you stole my H or bf?" Link to post Share on other sites
JustBecause Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 You have no idea what I would be thinking if I was an OW. Of course I would want to be his only partner. Makes no sense to date him for the heck of it. Talk about a waste of time. At least a waste of my time. But whatever floats the boat. Replacement was probably the wrong word because you can't replace a person, BUT in a sense someone would still want her out of the way. I'm going with both but it would depend on the person and what they are seeking. BTW that was a figure of speech. Haven't you ever heard the phrase "you stole my H or bf?" Or in my case, Just Borrowed him for a little while:lmao: Had to!! Carry on. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 need to get a grip my dear... I didn't make that up... just check in the Rants and Confessions Forum... she wrote about it herself: under Is my IC insane? For your information I live in Canada so there is no suing here over that type of thing... it would be ridiculous anyway... we're not stupid. And I was also caught once by a wife... (about 4 yrs ago) and she was actually very nice to me... in fact, she was trying to get closer to me after... but I told her I didn't want her to call anymore... (she kind of wanted to be my friend or something, weird). This thread is hilarious. That I had an issue with being angry with my ex for lying and cheating has now been transposed to you? Guess again. You are not the center of my universe lizzie, no matter how you wish yourself to be. Again, Trimmer's theories apply. Btw, were you ever molested or raped as a child, by your cheating father? Sometimes those kinds of issues are repressed and can cause extreme sexuality when a person hits middle age. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Or in my case, Just Borrowed him for a little while:lmao: Had to!! Carry on. Now there's something to be proud about. Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 This thread is hilarious. That I had an issue with being angry with my ex for lying and cheating has now been transposed to you? Guess again. You are not the center of my universe lizzie, no matter how you wish yourself to be. Again, Trimmer's theories apply. Btw, were you ever molested or raped as a child, by your cheating father? Sometimes those kinds of issues are repressed and can cause extreme sexuality when a person hits middle age. TBF, I think your observations may give Lizzie a hot flash. At her age she may not be able to handle so much truth at one time. Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Now there's something to be proud about. It takes all kinds! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 TBF, I think your observations may give Lizzie a hot flash. At her age she may not be able to handle so much truth at one time. Do you think she's still going through it or is she too old to still be menopausal? I've definitely noticed a pattern in her posting. Every time anything hits close to home, as in the childhood references, she attempts to sidebar it by attacking something else. lizzie, you need to get help for your underlying issues, instead of running around masking the pain with self-pleasuring. Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Do you think she's still going through it or is she too old to still be menopausal? I've definitely noticed a pattern in her posting. Every time anything hits close to home, as in the childhood references, she attempts to sidebar it by attacking something else. lizzie, you need to get help for your underlying issues, instead of running around masking the pain with self-pleasuring. Yeah, no one here has the right tell her their opinion about her situation, but she is qualified to call us all angry. TBF, once again you are trying to help and that deed will get you Lizziebashed. Because she is the only one that has the right to have an opinion here. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 Hey look Lizzie, you're almost there. Only a few thousand more views and you beat the top viewed thread. Congratulations! Do I get some sort of prizes? LOL Thanks to all of you guys!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 Or in my case, Just Borrowed him for a little while:lmao: Had to!! Carry on. Just borrowed him for a little while.... LOL every now and then... This is exactly my case, I don't steal I borrow... Well said ... I like that! Link to post Share on other sites
JustBecause Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Do I get some sort of prizes? LOL Thanks to all of you guys!!! Hey Lizzie60, Just adding a post to boost your total. Way to go!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 This thread is hilarious. That I had an issue with being angry with my ex for lying and cheating has now been transposed to you? Guess again. You are not the center of my universe lizzie, no matter how you wish yourself to be. Again, Trimmer's theories apply. Btw, were you ever molested or raped as a child, by your cheating father? Sometimes those kinds of issues are repressed and can cause extreme sexuality when a person hits middle age. Never been sexually molested my anyone when I was younger... I only remember having a small 'slap' behind the head by my father. Never been raped either... I don't see the big deal in trying to find something wrong with my childhood... we all had something 'wrong' with our childhood... but I don't think, in my case, it has anything to do with my sexual past. If it was my father, then so be it, I still don,t see the big deal... What is it that whenever a woman has more than one lover, she must be something wrong with her... geeeezzz... you need to get over this.... Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Just borrowed him for a little while.... LOL every now and then... This is exactly my case, I don't steal I borrow... Well said ... I like that! More like THEIR borrowing. If their needs were met, they wouldn't need YOU. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Yeah, no one here has the right tell her their opinion about her situation, but she is qualified to call us all angry. TBF, once again you are trying to help and that deed will get you Lizziebashed. Because she is the only one that has the right to have an opinion here. Same with you. Different opinion in threads are what's most valuable about LS. The idea is to be honest with self, listen to all the different opinions provided, then absorb the healthy advice to reroute unhealthy behavioural patterns. lizzie, I wish there was a way to repair your emotional and moral barometer. The only way to do that is to admit that your lifestyle is damaging to yourself and to others. Look hard at your sad inner child, the one that's curled up in pain deep within you. Give it healthy sustenance to allow it to develop into a healthy adult. If you keep feeding it with scraps and crumbs, it will soon die from emotional abuse and negligence. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 Hey Lizzie60, Just adding a post to boost your total. Way to go!!! Hahahaha...love you! Link to post Share on other sites
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