Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 More like THEIR borrowing. If their needs were met, they wouldn't need YOU. It's some kind of exchange... he borrows me when he needs it and I borrow him at the same time for my 'pleasure'... so we each find our pleasure. Link to post Share on other sites
mrmaximum Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 TBF, I think your observations may give Lizzie a hot flash. At her age she may not be able to handle so much truth at one time. Careful, you may make her ice cream melt :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
JustBecause Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Let's all listen to our Inner Power now!!!!!! Amen!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 It's some kind of exchange... he borrows me when he needs it and I borrow him at the same time for my 'pleasure'... so we each find our pleasure. What you said it just plain sad. And what are you going to do when he no longer needs you for that and wants something else? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 Same with you. Different opinion in threads are what's most valuable about LS. The idea is to be honest with self, listen to all the different opinions provided, then absorb the healthy advice to reroute unhealthy behavioural patterns. lizzie, I wish there was a way to repair your emotional and moral barometer. The only way to do that is to admit that your lifestyle is damaging to yourself and to others. Look hard at your sad inner child, the one that's curled up in pain deep within you. Give it healthy sustenance to allow it to develop into a healthy adult. If you keep feeding it with scraps and crumbs, it will soon die from emotional abuse and negligence. for your thoughts... but to be honest with you (and I'm not saying this to be arrogant, it's really what I feel) I am happier now than I've ever been. I love my space and every minute of my single life... I love my life...it's never boring... I see different faces and personalities on a regular basis, I see them only under their best 'behaviour'... it's all good. I can't complain. I work (very good well paid job), have 2 houses, a car, no debts (except for the mortgages), I am a shopholic, I buy what I want when I want, I have no money issues. I have no one to 'take care of'... my house is always spotless, no one to account for... I go and I come as I please... What more can I want! I think I am at a stage in my life where a lot (and I mean a lot of men and women) would like to be. I've heard many times (from married men and women)... 'If I ever find myself single, I want to remain single...just like you" (mind you they don't know everything about my 'sex life') they know I am happy. I couldn't ask for more right now... really! Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 It's some kind of exchange... he borrows me when he needs it and I borrow him at the same time for my 'pleasure'... so we each find our pleasure. IMO opinion, it's more like Lizzie is being used, but hey, she likes it so no problem right? We all know she doesn't care who gets hurt, so the way I see it, Lizzie is living out her life long dream. I'd like to think that most people on this earth are not like Lizzie. I do have faith in humanity. The Lizzies of the world will continue to do what they want, but thankfully most of us do care about each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 What you said it just plain sad. And what are you going to do when he no longer needs you for that and wants something else? What else would he wants? There is no commitment, this is very clear. Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Same with you. Different opinion in threads are what's most valuable about LS. The idea is to be honest with self, listen to all the different opinions provided, then absorb the healthy advice to reroute unhealthy behavioural patterns. lizzie, I wish there was a way to repair your emotional and moral barometer. The only way to do that is to admit that your lifestyle is damaging to yourself and to others. Look hard at your sad inner child, the one that's curled up in pain deep within you. Give it healthy sustenance to allow it to develop into a healthy adult. If you keep feeding it with scraps and crumbs, it will soon die from emotional abuse and negligence. Actually, you are a much better person that I am. I'm not trying to help Lizzie at all. I think she is a lost cause. You can't help someone who doesn't think they need help. I do find her interesting and I also find a pattern with her posts. It's like an experiment in nature. There has to be the Lizzies so that hopefully someone can read this and see how destructive her lifestyle is. I think someone on this thread said that maybe someone else who lives like Lizzie will read this and be helped. But as far as Lizzie goes, she is just a source of entertainment for me. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 What else would he wants? There is no commitment, this is very clear. I have no idea what he wants. There was one I read before where the guy went straight from a PA to an EA and stuck there. No pleasure for the lady. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 for your thoughts... but to be honest with you (and I'm not saying this to be arrogant, it's really what I feel) I am happier now than I've ever been. I love my space and every minute of my single life... I love my life...it's never boring... I see different faces and personalities on a regular basis, I see them only under their best 'behaviour'... it's all good. I can't complain. I work (very good well paid job), have 2 houses, a car, no debts (except for the mortgages), I am a shopholic, I buy what I want when I want, I have no money issues. I have no one to 'take care of'... my house is always spotless, no one to account for... I go and I come as I please... What more can I want! I think I am at a stage in my life where a lot (and I mean a lot of men and women) would like to be. I've heard many times (from married men and women)... 'If I ever find myself single, I want to remain single...just like you" (mind you they don't know everything about my 'sex life') they know I am happy. I couldn't ask for more right now... really! At what cost to you and everyone else? Btw, I have no debt either and have assets with no mortgage. My house is spotless with no one to account for..I go and come as I please. I'm around 25 years younger than you, so my body is in great shape from exercise, an attractive face and have a very bright future ahead of me, with my own consulting business. I'm currently lightly dating a couple of decent individuals who are fully aware of each other and are single, as well. I have an amazing family and some very good friends. This was all gained honourably, without hurting or damaging others. It is possible to be happy without it being at someone elses' expense. I honestly can't fathom how you can victimize so many families and have no remorse, unless you have a child's mentality or are a sociopath of some form. Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 I have no idea what he wants. There was one I read before where the guy went straight from a PA to an EA and stuck there. No pleasure for the lady. Don't worry about anyone wanting more from Lizzie. She is clear with them that she is only good at one thing. Most guys don't get attached to cold heartless women. There is nothing emotional to get attached to. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 I think she is a lost cause. You can't help someone who doesn't think they need help. I do find her interesting and I also find a pattern with her posts. It's like an experiment in nature. There has to be the Lizzies so that hopefully someone can read this and see how destructive her lifestyle is. I think someone on this thread said that maybe someone else who lives like Lizzie will read this and be helped. You're probably right hn. I hope someone else will be helped by this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 At what cost to you and everyone else? Btw, I have no debt either and have assets with no mortgage. My house is spotless with no one to account for..I go and come as I please. I'm around 25 years younger than you, so my body is in great shape from exercise, an attractive face and have a very bright future ahead of me, with my own consulting business. I'm currently lightly dating a couple of decent individuals who are fully aware of each other and are single, as well. I have an amazing family and some very good friends. This was all gained honourably, without hurting or damaging others. It is possible to be happy without it being at someone elses' expense. I honestly can't fathom how you can victimize so many families and have no remorse, unless you have a child's mentality or are a sociopath of some form. TBF, Lizzie is not like you or me. I know it's hard to understand because we have grown up to believe that we should be caring and respectful of our fellow human beings. That lesson was lost on Lizzie and there is nothing we can do about it. Your ability to continue to try and help this woman is proof that you care. She just doesn't get it. I have a lunch meeting to go to. I'd love to stay and chat, but it's time to go. Have a great day! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 I have no idea what he wants. There was one I read before where the guy went straight from a PA to an EA and stuck there. No pleasure for the lady. a PA and a EA means. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 TBF, Lizzie is not like you or me. I know it's hard to understand because we have grown up to believe that we should be caring and respectful of our fellow human beings. That lesson was lost on Lizzie and there is nothing we can do about it. Your ability to continue to try and help this woman is proof that you care. She just doesn't get it. I have a lunch meeting to go to. I'd love to stay and chat, but it's time to go. Have a great day! So true. Okay, good luck at your meeting. Back atcha'!! Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 PA means physical affair and EA means emotional affair. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 At what cost to you and everyone else? Btw, I have no debt either and have assets with no mortgage. My house is spotless with no one to account for..I go and come as I please. I'm around 25 years younger than you, so my body is in great shape from exercise, an attractive face and have a very bright future ahead of me, with my own consulting business. I'm currently lightly dating a couple of decent individuals who are fully aware of each other and are single, as well. I have an amazing family and some very good friends. This was all gained honourably, without hurting or damaging others. It is possible to be happy without it being at someone elses' expense. I honestly can't fathom how you can victimize so many families and have no remorse, unless you have a child's mentality or are a sociopath of some form. I am honestly glad that everything's good for you. You might be 25 years younger but I have a body of about your age... I am very proud of my 'assets', that's why I can still date 23 yr old. I look and feel good for my age, absolutely no problem there. To each our own. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Author Share Posted May 9, 2007 PA means physical affair and EA means emotional affair. In this case, he would be out the door.... I have ended many affairs because I was getting tired of them for different reasons. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 I am honestly glad that everything's good for you. You might be 25 years younger but I have a body of about your age... I am very proud of my 'assets', that's why I can still date 23 yr old. I look and feel good for my age, absolutely no problem there. To each our own. No, people's happiness should never be at the expense of others. If your happiness is derived off the backs of others, it's not true happiness. It's a fantasy that will eventually destroy you. Too bad you simply don't care about the damage you leave in your wake. As for your body, I highly doubt it... Link to post Share on other sites
mrmaximum Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 No, people's happiness should never be at the expense of others. If your happiness is derived off the backs of others, it's not true happiness. It's a fantasy that will eventually destroy you. Too bad you simply don't care about the damage you leave in your wake. As for your body, I highly doubt it... There MAY be a slight chance that Shane is built this way HOWEVER, being the age that she says she is, she's due for a very sharp decline. At the end of the day, you can't out-20 a 20 year old, (or 30, heck even 40 for that matter) Very rare to see a 50 year old that looks 1/2 her age without EXTENSIVE 'work'. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 There MAY be a slight chance that Shane is built this way HOWEVER, being the age that she says she is, she's due for a very sharp decline. At the end of the day, you can't out-20 a 20 year old, (or 30, heck even 40 for that matter) Very rare to see a 50 year old that looks 1/2 her age without EXTENSIVE 'work'. Ah, cosmetic surgery, of course. It still leaves scars and tends towards, facially that is, to make people look like they're riding in a vehicle at speeds where the g-force is pulling too hard. A question to ask is "why are your eyes situated on the side of your head?". Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Ah, cosmetic surgery, of course. It still leaves scars and tends towards, facially that is, to make people look like they're riding in a vehicle at speeds where the g-force is pulling too hard. A question to ask is "why are your eyes situated on the side of your head?". I would guess that men find Lizzie attractive for what she will do and not what she looks like. Having sex with many men may very well make her think that she is attractive and the MM may actually tell her what she wants to hear. But in the end they only want one thing and she is very happy and willing to give it. I think that some men can overlook ugliness inside and out when they can get an easy lay. The simple fact that she thinks she is attractive because younger guys will screw her, is the writing on the wall. Younger guys aren't that hard to get into bed. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Younger guys aren't that hard to get into bed. No doubt there's a testosterone level, need to reproduce, scientific theory about this. Oh, which reminds me of something another poster wrote in another thread about "drink until they're cute". That quote made me die laughing so I thought I would share it with you, to lighten this thread up a bit. :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 No doubt there's a testosterone level, need to reproduce, scientific theory about this. Oh, which reminds me of something another poster wrote in another thread about "drink until they're cute". That quote made me die laughing so I thought I would share it with you, to lighten this thread up a bit. :lmao: I wonder how many drinks it takes to drink Lizzie to a 10. Link to post Share on other sites
Jinxx Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 As for your body, I highly doubt it... Why do you doubt it? Link to post Share on other sites
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