LovesJim55 Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 Hi everyone, I am new here but I have been reading and most of you give great advice. Anyway, I am 20 years old as is my boyfriend, Jim. We first started going out a year and a half ago after being friends for a few months. During that time of friendship, everything was great. He was super sweet to me and we never fought. When we finally got together, it was like he suddenly did this whole shift. He would make comments about his ex girlfriend and how much he liked her butt. Then he would talk about his female friends he graduated from HS with and how it was awesome they were 105 lbs yet had D cup boobs, even say they had the perfect bodies. Meanwhile, here is the girlfriend. I recieved not one compliment from him and though it made me upset I kept quiet because hey I wasn't experienced in relationships and friends told me he was jsut being a guy. About 6 months later I completely snapped and told him that I was leaving if he didn't get his act together and stop talking about other females. For the most part he did. However, a year later I find myself no longer the person I was. I used to be this happy, fun loving, confident woman now I am self conscious and depressed. I find that the comments made towards me that were negative have had such an impact on me that they are lasting until this day. Jim has tried very hard to make it up to me but I still find myself feeling hate towards, well, myself. I am so confused as to what to do to heal. Link to post Share on other sites
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