str_Ay Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 Hey guys. I had sent out a forum a few weeks ago stating my confusion of the man I like being in Maine and me in Florida. So we decided to see how things will go (04/23). So since then we've been talkin to each other more and more, on and off the phone. He leaves me little cute messages statin, "I miss you," "Wish you were here," etc. Just like any other woman, I love hearing that. But getting to the point. Last night surprised me a lil bit. We had our usual conversations whether it be about personal life, politics, his son, whatever came up we never get bored about it. Towards the end of the conversation, I started to get REALLY sleepy. To the point where I began to babble and accidently loose track of what I was even saying. We were apparently talkin bout what we would do when we see each other and I dumbly blurted out "Coolant system." He laughed and told me I should just go to bed. I felt guilty but we both knew I wouldn't be able to keep up. And I believe we ended as so: Me: Alright Sweetie. I guess I'll ttyl then Him: Ok, I'll call you tomorrow Me: Sounds good, have a Goodnight AND OUT OF THE BLUE HE BLURTED, LOUD AND CLEAR (and I knew I heard it right even when I was very sleepy) Him: You too, "I LOVE YOU", bye. I hung up not wanting to question it right away. I was too tired to even think much bout it at the time and I'm not even sure if he even realized he said it?? I woke up this morning and once I was fully awake...the last part of the conversation really gave me a "smack in the face." I did wonder, 'Did he REALLY say that?' I'm 95% sure that I didn't hear wrong. And if he did really say it, did he mean to? Or was it a reaction cus we're both so caught up with each other? I kno we both really like each other. But...was it just an honest mistake? Should I confront him about it? Or just let it go and see if it happens again? Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted April 30, 2007 Share Posted April 30, 2007 Yeah, definitely confront him.... that won't make him uncomfortable or insecure at all. or, you could ignore it and see if he says it agian. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveIsAnInsanity Posted May 10, 2007 Share Posted May 10, 2007 Wait for him to say it again. Don't confront him just wait... Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
BohemeRose Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 Just wait to see if he says it again, he may have just assumed you didn't hear him because you were so tired. The first time my boyfriend told me he loved me we were on the phone...he said it, and then I was silent for a good 2 minutes before asking, "Wait...what??" then he said it again and I said it back....after another minute of silence....hahah, scared the bejeesus out of him. Anyway, if he does say it again, honestly think about your feelings for him. If you feel the same way, share it, if not then...well, yeah. heh Link to post Share on other sites
Author str_Ay Posted May 17, 2007 Author Share Posted May 17, 2007 thanks for the input u guys. i havent heard him say it again since, but, then again, we have opposite workin hrs. me in the day, him at night. so most of the time i end up almost fallin alseep on him by accident. so if he has said it again, i totally missed it. and if that keeps happenin, im gonna eventually feel like a goof for probabaly makin him feel like a goof :/ but we're doin jus fine w/o the lil "ILY" phrase. i kno im not ready to say it just yet. june 9th is when we see each other and hopefully then i'll be really able to tell how much more i care bout him ^_^ Link to post Share on other sites
Cioriel Posted June 18, 2007 Share Posted June 18, 2007 Anyway, if he does say it again, honestly think about your feelings for him. If you feel the same way, share it, if not then...well, yeah. heh hahah- that actually made me laugh out loud at work. I agree, though, that you should wait to see if he says it again. You really should look at your own feelings in the meantime and think about whether you want to and are ready to say it to him. I'm really guessing that you didn't hear wrong - most people don't just imagine their partner saying that for the first time, so I guess I think if you discover that you love him too you could always say it sometime even if he hasn't for awhile. Good luck and let us know if he says it again or if you say it Link to post Share on other sites
Author str_Ay Posted July 12, 2007 Author Share Posted July 12, 2007 nope havent heard it since but we are still together and doing well im actually flyin out to see him in 2 weeks! yay and we decided we would talk more in depth of wat we wanna do on serious terms we're both not bull****ters we like to get straight to the point ::except for in bed:: ::haha:: but we jus dont have time to waste on pointless mind games so wish me luck when i go see him and i'll keep ya'll posted on whether we're the perfect match with one on one time or a total flunk ::which i hope not cus ive come to learn to care bout him very much:: thanks guys vero.t Link to post Share on other sites
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