8_months_and_1_week Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 My husband and I are having trouble, I am 8 months pregnant with one other child living in our home and he works 3 jobs one where he sets on his bottom for 5 days a week and 2 others were he does oil changes and changes tires, one is 1 time a week and the other is 2 times a week so really we have not a very great amount of time alone together. When we make love he ejaculates to quickly and he doesn't seem too interested in making love to me, can somebody help me understand whats going on and how can I make it better for him and myself? Is he cheating on his 1 hour lunches OR Is he just to tired for me Link to post Share on other sites
Zona76 Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 For a woman heavy with child it's normal for you to feel these insecurities. It doesn't matter that he does nothing but sit all day ...being there is stressful. He has 3 jobs to make things nice for his family. Chill Sweetie. Calm down and think of the good things you do have. Your worries may cause this marriage to break apart. Link to post Share on other sites
Jinxx Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 He works three jobs. The man is exhausted. Cut him a little slack on this. Link to post Share on other sites
Dante Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 Works 3 jobs? Ouch. When I worked 15 hours daily and came home... I wasn't really horny just tired. Second, if you're 8 months pregnant... that might explain something too about him not being too interested making love to you, sorry! He might think it hurts the baby etc. To get more staying power for the man, use a condom, do it more often and make sure he isn't stressed. We guys aren't just machines. But like Zona said, I think you're just worrying too much. Give it some time and enjoy your family. I'm sure it will get better in time! Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 you need to relax girl. Your husband is tired... he's got 3 jobs, he's stressed out... he is the provider for the family, second child on the way... geez... you're lucky he even gets an erection. If I were you, I would suggest a few things, maybe use a condom but I doubt he'll like this idea, maybe masturbate to get your orgasm first, he can help you a bit... I am not sure what to advise you, he is just exhausted and just need to get off but he probably has no strength for all the foreplay, etc... Have you talked to him...maybe choose a day when he's not too tired, let him know you have needs for at least once a week for quality sex. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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