ladyviola Posted May 2, 2007 Share Posted May 2, 2007 ive been seeing someone in my work for a few months now, in the beginning it was exciting because of the hidden glances, smiles and flirting etc. then we became more serious and of course people found out, so we came clean, which is fine. except of course we had to act more professional so we decided to cool it during work hours. except now, we have amazing weekends, but during the week, its like we get into this serious work mode and dont even act like normal colleagues, but all distant like strangers really. we do this to avoid people judging us, but it is becoming confusing and difficult to cope with. so now we have great weekends, mondays we start to drift, by weds we are really distant, and then come friday we are all happy again. its like one big rollercoaster! does anyone else have this kinda relationship and if so, any advice on how to make this better? i hate the constant ups and downs. somehow we dont seem to find the middle grounds... Link to post Share on other sites
JCD Posted May 4, 2007 Share Posted May 4, 2007 Who cares what others think. Just do your thing. In my work, it's normal to see couples kissing, hugging, etc. Also breaking up and going with different S/O's. Link to post Share on other sites
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