EO_Playaz Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 I am a guy and I met this girl because she was my friend's friend. She seems really nice and I want to be friends with her except that Every time we talk on the phone or chat online it becomes very silent and I find it very hard to talk. I really want to be friends with her can anyone help me? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 I also find it tough speaking to certain females on the phone, particularly if I want to become friends or ask them out on a date. Being that you like this female, but have trouble talking to her, I suggest that before you talk to her you think about and possibly write out what you want to talk about. I would consider if you and she have any interests in common. That is always good to talk about. You can always ask her how her weekend has been, what she did over the weekend and what she likes doing in her spare time.You can also talk about any movies you just saw. I suggest asking her questions without getting too personal. I have found that females like to talk about themselves, but will become very quiet if questions get too personal. You can always ask your friend for more info about the girl you are trying to befriend. I recently read Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus by John Gray. I recommend any of the John Gray books as they give you an excellent perspective on what females like. This last item was told to me by a female. She said that girls sense if a guy does not have self-confidence. I don't know if this applies to you, but if it does, I suggest that you work on self confidence. The more you talk to females, the easier it will get. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
SydneyHeart Posted May 6, 2007 Share Posted May 6, 2007 You don't make it clear why you are so anxious to befriend this girl? If you are determined, then make yourself up a cheat sheet - ideas of things to talk about for those dead air times. Stuff from news, stuff about mutual activities you enjoy, mutual friends (not gossip though!), and a bunch of questions to ask - have you seen this movie? Play any sports? Whats your fave CD this week? etc etc If you put in all that effort and ask questions and you get flat, one word answers, then she is either really socially challenged, or straight up not interested in talking to you. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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