Mercedes Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 Me and my boyfriend has been in a relationship for a while now and for some reason i believe he is cheating on me. You know what they say the other one only accuse the other one when they are doing wrong but honestly i'm not doing anything. I'm being faithful, i'm in love with him and I don't think he feel the same way. Just a couple of weeks ago I seen texts messages in his phone from 2 different women saying stuff like "I'm Horny" and "I miss you". I confront him about and he says they were before your time i met one at a night club and never seen her since so i was like whatever and ever since then he would keep his phone close to him so just a couple of days ago i looked in his phone again and seen more text messages from a different name she was saying stuff like "I love you deeply and I miss you" i confront him again he tells me that he's not cheating on me and he try to assure me that he is not. Just today i was with his 4year daughter and i was going to take her to the movies bcuz i promised and never did it bit she tells me she already went to the movies and i asked her who did she go with and she me daddy and the same person who had text him a couple of days ago i don't if i should believe her and just leave him alone she's a child she don't know any better but she is not stupid. I don't know what to do because im reallt im love with please some one help me Link to post Share on other sites
zilverenvlinder Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 I would not take that. Tell him it's over. He might come crawling back. Just please, for god's sake, tell him it's over. He can't keep dragging you around like this. I know you love him, but you don't deserve to do this to yourself. You need someone who will love and respect you. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss_Bee Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Hon, he's definitley cheating on you. You have proof and then some. I'm sorry that you've had to go through this. The pig is definitley not setting a good example for his little girl either. Tell him to stop confusing his poor little girl by bringing so many women around and tell him it's over. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Oh he is soo cheating on you.. and the little girl basically told you too. I just got out of a relationship kinda like that. My ex planned a trip to Miami with this other woman while we were dating and lied to me and told me it was a work trip... So, I dumped his ass and now im moving on. Don't stay with a guy that is constanly looking like he has to cover his tracks. He sounds like he is cheating to me. My ex did have a little girl she was about 3 yrs old. I wonder how many women he actually had over his house while we were dating. I feel sorry for the horrible example both of these guys are setting for there children. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 I would not take that. Tell him it's over. He might come crawling back. Just please, for god's sake, tell him it's over. He can't keep dragging you around like this. I know you love him, but you don't deserve to do this to yourself. You need someone who will love and respect you. you should take this advice for yourself ... about Kairin and your bf. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 I can't believe this.... YOu still aren't sure if he's cheating... come on... give your head a shake...he is cheating. What more do you need, to catch him with her? It's funny that most women would never believe a 10 year old telling stuff like that but they believe their husband. weird. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 She is 4... Not really old enough to know too much and she outed that he went out with another girl. Now, when I was dating my ex... He stopped bring me around his kid around the last month of us dating. I kinda picked up on that. Link to post Share on other sites
Krytellan Posted May 10, 2007 Share Posted May 10, 2007 I agree with everyone else. But PLEASE, for Pete's sake... USE PUNCTUATION Link to post Share on other sites
Miss_Bee Posted May 10, 2007 Share Posted May 10, 2007 I can't believe this.... YOu still aren't sure if he's cheating... come on... give your head a shake...he is cheating. What more do you need, to catch him with her? It's funny that most women would never believe a 10 year old telling stuff like that but they believe their husband. weird. She's probably denying it because she doesn't want to believe it. Alot of people do this, when they suspect their partner of cheating. She probably just needed someone else's opinion so it would be concrete in her head. Link to post Share on other sites
monmon Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 Anyone, man or woman, who hangs on to their phone as if its the most important thing in the world has something to hide. Link to post Share on other sites
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