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Hi all,

 

Ive had my eye on a girl a year younger than me for sometime'me now. I found out that she had a boyfriend so I tried my best to forget about her.

 

The other night whilst hanging out with a huge group of friends including people she knew, I found out that she was cheated on twice and is now single.

 

Right there and then I wanted to make my move but decided to let things cool down and leave her alone for a while. Later that same night after I had quite alot to drink I ended telling nearly everyone I saw that I fancied this girl.

 

Thankfully she wasn't around when this was going on but now I'm back at school after Christmas I have a feeling her friends have told her what I said. She keeps looking over and smiling. I think maybe I should say sorry to her but if she doesn't know then that is gunna seem weird.

 

Ive never been much good talking to girls and I really like this one. I also respect her and don't wanna hurt her.

 

What should I do?

 

Thanx

Matt

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Just say hi, have a conversation about whatever. Don't go into relationships or how you may feel or anything like that yet. Just talk. See what happens. Take your time and relax.

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Besides, you have nothing to be sorry about. If you told someone you liked her it was the truth and not meant to hurt anyone. Don't even mention it unless she does first.

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  • 2 weeks later...

Thanks for all the help guys, really appreciate it.

However, the situation has somewhat err... changed!

 

Basiclly, the girl I liked is now seeing someone else and after I talked to her and told her exactly how I felt, we both agreed it would be best to stay friends.

 

Ive now found out that a girl 2 years younger than me has liked me for almost a year. She had wanted to tell me for ages but couldnt. She told my best mate and he has now told me.

 

The problem is, I have begun to get friendly with another girl only a year younger than me which happens to be good friends with the girl that likes me. OK.. with me so far?!

 

What im trying to say is

1. I just wanna be friends with the girl that likes me

2. Everyone has told me and I can see it for myself too that there is definately something good between me and the girl I like

3. If i ask out the girl I like then I know im gunna upset the girl who likes me

 

Im SOOOOO Confused

 

Please help

 

Thanx

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Ya know, you are already seeing someone, and that other girl needs to realize it. She's the one that sat around NOT telling you how she felt...so its her fault. Tell her that you are flattered by her feelings, and if you were available, you would take her up on the offer, but you've already started something here, and that when you become single again, you will call her.

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