Gunny376 Posted May 10, 2007 Share Posted May 10, 2007 I've read a lot about sex over the course of my life ~ but what I've learned most was from GF's, that "after-play" was as just as important as foreplay. (Too many men don't appreciate that their woman has just shared something and given them something that they don't just give to anyone) One of the biggies? Was from my last LTR GF, when I was wanting to get frisky in a hurry? She told me? "It doesn't come that easy ~ you've got to work for it!" Thing is? I loved working for it! And I appreciated it more! Not to mention enjoyed it more! Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted May 10, 2007 Share Posted May 10, 2007 Many women tend to reject any intimacy at all. Some can't do anything right in some marriages. Link to post Share on other sites
hardcase Posted May 10, 2007 Share Posted May 10, 2007 That accounts for a lot cheating, but every affair is a different situation. If they are cheating for sex then it is immoral and they need to either work on the sex life or leave the relationship. Sometimes, though, people actually fall in love with someone else, but are reluctant to leave thier relationship and it gets tricky and not so straight forward. Cheating is immoral regardless...it doesn't matter whether they fall in love with the OM/OW or not. And many people who cheat only think they are in love because it is new and exciting....then if they end up leaving their marriage for said person...alot of times they find out they get bored with that person too and find someone else to "love". Those types of people have no business getting married. Link to post Share on other sites
mammax3 Posted May 10, 2007 Share Posted May 10, 2007 Cheating is immoral regardless...it doesn't matter whether they fall in love with the OM/OW or not. And many people who cheat only think they are in love because it is new and exciting....then if they end up leaving their marriage for said person...alot of times they find out they get bored with that person too and find someone else to "love". Those types of people have no business getting married. How could you know if you or your SO is going to be one of 'those types'? I didn't think my WS was, or ever would be. So men and sex - the only time it gets better is *after* the marriage is over when another woman tells the man how to do it? Since often it does become stick poking in the marriage? And I do think that the leaver seems to have it easier since it was their decision, and they have had time to process and rationalize and get as hard of an exterior as they need to tell their BS that they're leaving. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted May 10, 2007 Share Posted May 10, 2007 I am only calling it how I see it. Open up your eyelids next time and tell us what you see. Link to post Share on other sites
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