amberwboone Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 My ex and I had a very bump road since we broke up! I found out that there was someone else and that someone is gone now. Recently he has been alot nicer than normal. He texted me and asked how I was. He hasn't asked me how I was for the past three months. Granted I did text him first about our daughter. Then he told me he was going to call tomorrow night. I asked him why and he said "for ****s and giggles is that ok". I told him that our daughter who is 2 is usually asleep bye the time he gets off work so prolly be useless to call unless he wanted to talk to me. He didn't respond back! I had asked him of there was a chance that our relationship could be again and he responded "I am not going to say no,but I am not going to say anything else.What is that suppose to mean. He is a very confusing person! I have moved on and do talk to other men and he does know this. He still gets jel. and makes negative comments about it. I dunno any advice! Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 My ex and I had a very bump road since we broke up! I found out that there was someone else and that someone is gone now. Recently he has been alot nicer than normal. He texted me and asked how I was. He hasn't asked me how I was for the past three months. Granted I did text him first about our daughter. Then he told me he was going to call tomorrow night. I asked him why and he said "for ****s and giggles is that ok". I told him that our daughter who is 2 is usually asleep bye the time he gets off work so prolly be useless to call unless he wanted to talk to me. He didn't respond back! I had asked him of there was a chance that our relationship could be again and he responded "I am not going to say no,but I am not going to say anything else.What is that suppose to mean. He is a very confusing person! I have moved on and do talk to other men and he does know this. He still gets jel. and makes negative comments about it. I dunno any advice! I don,t think he wants you back... but if I were you I wouldn't even think of taking him back... geezzz... He's being nice because now he's alone... You asked him if there was a chance to be together again.... he said he's not going to say no... he's keeping his option opened... IMO... He can't say more because he's probably trying to find someone else and if he can't, after a while, he'll be back with you...and cheating again. He gets jealous, are you sure or maybe you are imagining that he's getting jealous. He makes negative comments because he's probably worried for his daughter not for you... Sorry if I sound harsh but I think you're reading too much into this and you're seeing what you want to see. You're not being objective and I can understand why but you need to be very careful if you don't want to get hurt again. Link to post Share on other sites
hurting_in_nw Posted May 9, 2007 Share Posted May 9, 2007 Sounds to me like maybe he found out the grass wasn't greener on the other side, and is now wanting you to be his Plan B. I made it clear to my STBX not to even bother...once she made her choice it was her choice for the rest of her life. I won't be her Plan B, I have too much self-respect. If you've truly moved on, I say don't indulge him in the power trip he's attempting to pull on you. Link to post Share on other sites
InvisibleTouch Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 No he doesn't want you back. He sounds, from what you are saying, to be about 11 years old. Ask him to look up the word "empathy". Regardless of what he may or may not want tell him to sling his hook and you go and find someone who has the maturity to understand the responsibilities of being a partner and a father. Link to post Share on other sites
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