AlohaLove Posted January 11, 2003 Share Posted January 11, 2003 I have been confusing these days. The reason why is my Best friend who is my ex-boyfriend. We become friend almost 2 years... And, we only went out 4days... He is the one who ask me to go out and that time I still couldn't forget about my ex-boyfriend so I didn't go out with him. Howeverm a month, I decided to go out with him caz, I wanted to forget about my ex-boyfriend. The way I treat him was sooo worse. when We had argument, I always told him that my ex-boyfriend was better than him...And I was talking about my ex-boyfriend all the time even though I knew that he likes me. Well, so our relationship was just like friend as before. but, he told me also that He like me but he don't love me. Lately he broke one girl up and he told me that he loved her so much. I don't understand how is he thinking of me. Now we are best friend each other so we do talk almost everyday. However, we don't go out together. I ask him that why he doesn't go out with me. He said, He does go clubing, drinking, play game, and whatever he does is I don't. So he doesn't go out. But, U know? I think that really doesn't make sence for me. The weird thing is chiristmas time he gave jewllry, which is so expensive. So he does give me present as well. We just don't go out. I feel like he just keep me as his property only. I don't understand why he can say that we are bestfriend. Actually we do talk something secret and we do have aregument too but...isn't it enough?!! I don't know whether He is just playing with me or not too. well, We never ever have a sex however. Maybe I like him but I don't want to recognize...I want him to come back too. That the truth. How Do people think about this stiuation? ummm....help me out please!! Sorry for my poor writing... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 11, 2003 Share Posted January 11, 2003 As mean and nasty as you were to him when you first started going out...telling him that your ex was much better than him...and you wonder why he doesn't want to go out with you??? This guy is no fool. I'm shocked he even wants to be your friend. It will take him a very long time to forget the harsh words you had with him when you were dating. Remember, in all the days of your life mean words spoken to another person cannot be soon forgotten. They will always come back to haunt you. Don't expect this guy to warm up to you anytime soon, except as a friend. And if you become mean to him as a friend, you'll never see him again. He's not stupid and he's not going to subject himself to more of the kind of hurt you gave him in the beginning. Link to post Share on other sites
luckyforyou Posted January 17, 2003 Share Posted January 17, 2003 sounds like you are totally confused about what you really want from this guy. do you think that you could see yourself waking up beside him for the rest of your life>if the answer is no then move on and find the one that you could picture yourself with each and every morning! good luck i hope it works out for you! Link to post Share on other sites
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