shinegirl Posted January 11, 2003 Share Posted January 11, 2003 how do you go from being friends with benefits to just friends again? i am still attracted to my friend, and suspect she is still attracted to me. i was the one who started to have the emotional attachment and it caused huge fights and now we're barely speaking. in anger she has said to me more than once that i manipulated her into bed and fails to take her share of the responsibility for our complicated situation. i was honest with her all along that i liked her as more than a friend, so it's not like i mislead her. main problem is that we are also roomates, that is how we met. i am at a loss as how to heal our situation. any advice is appreciated:) Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 11, 2003 Share Posted January 11, 2003 Your only alternative is to sit down with her and have a nice, detailed talk about the situation. Go into detail about your feelings and let her know the direction you think the friendship should go now. Nothing beats effective communication. If after you have a very nice, non-combative talk she still cops an attitude, then she's not your friend and you haven't lost anything. Link to post Share on other sites
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