thoughtsofhim Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and we've been doing long distance for almost a year now. I pretty much stopped drinking and partying when he moved because I have really bad judgement when I'm drunk and I like having someone(anyone) there. I was scared I would end up getting myself in trouble. So I stopped everything because he means a lot to me and I didn't want to lose him over something stupid. Well recently my girlfriends and I have started going out every weekend... and I have been enjoying it. =] When I stopped going out with them our closeness faded and now I feel like I have my friends back. Well friday night I did something really dumb... I was drunk (i know that is not even an excuse) and I kissed someone else. I told him what happened the next day and his response was "I don't want to talk about it". Which seems really odd to me? He always told me if anything happened we would just be over no questions asked but he says he's not going to leave me. My problem is... I know I hurt him badly, but he has done this(kissed someone) in the past before and I forgave him. I know he will eventually forgive me but he says his feelings have changed. I have noticed them changing for awhile now(before the kiss) and he's even said it to me before. Whenever we would discuss our relationship he seemed annoyed or gave me attitude about everything. And now he has completely stopped telling me he loves me. I feel like... If he doesn't even love me anymore because of this, then why not just leave me? If his feelings were already changing and now he's just going to be an ******* to me all the time, why stay? Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 If his feelings were already changing and now he's just going to be an ******* to me all the time, why stay? Ask yourself this question. If he's just going to be an ass to you, then why do you stay? Link to post Share on other sites
IrishCarBomb Posted May 16, 2007 Share Posted May 16, 2007 99.9% of the time, LDRs don't work. End this relationship and stop wasting your time with this dude. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted May 16, 2007 Share Posted May 16, 2007 I feel like... If he doesn't even love me anymore because of this, then why not just leave me? If his feelings were already changing and now he's just going to be an ******* to me all the time, why stay? Why are you waiting for him to break up? Think about why you decided to party again, knowing full well you do things... Link to post Share on other sites
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