Back_In_Black_89 Posted May 14, 2007 Share Posted May 14, 2007 Ok......Heres is the deal, you ever heard the old expression once a cheater always a cheater.....Well I believe that this is true with all of my heart....I have not had a serious girlfriend (EVER) that I haven't cheated on. I am dating a girl right now that I love with all of my heart, But I have already cheated on her with a handfull of girls......I catch myself soing it sometimes without paying any attention to it at all.....I do have to say that cheating is as addictive as anything else....I have plans in the morning to go to a girls house (and well ya know).....When you cheat you hurt all kinds of people without even meaning too....about 50 percent of the girls that I have cheated on my girlfriends with were the girlfriends of some of my closest friends....I mean some of my friends found out and some still don't know......But if you look at you really good friends are far more important than any piece of anything....I mean they were there before during and will be there after all of your relationships....So I guess the message I am trying to get across is this.....If you are thinking about cheating on your significant other and find yourself in a difficult situation (don't do it)......Because I am sure the first time that I done it, I was saying this was the only time...not true, You will get hooked when you see how easy it is to get away with it and nobody ever know.....Well I mean what if they do find, how many people will you heart.....If you love the girl or guy you are with keep them and stay faithful, if you are tempted by cheating, just think which is more important? Your partner or a quick lay or whatever.... I mean when I get off of here I will probably go to bed, wake up, forget all about this forum and go get layed by someone other than my girlfriend......I am not trying to be hypacritical, but I know ho easy it is to cheat a few times and get away with it and I know how it feels....I love it everyday people, and I am not lying when I say that.....I do it and probably always will sadly....It's not worth it, the next time you go to cheat or are tempted just think about this message you read.....I mean even if it don't do any good at least remember this quote...love is everything, dont miss your chance on that one person that you know deep down inside, you..'re meant to be with, dont let your friends talk you out of it, because, it isnt their life, its yours and you know what you want, you know what you need, wether it be a boy or a girl, whatever your into, love is love, no matter what....I love that quote even if I don't live by it, it is so true.....So if you got this far into this, thank you for the time and hopefully I got something threw to you guys... Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted May 14, 2007 Share Posted May 14, 2007 .....If you are thinking about cheating on your significant other and find yourself in a difficult situation (don't do it)......Because I am sure the first time that I done it, I was saying this was the only time...not true, You will get hooked when you see how easy it is to get away with it and nobody ever know..... So you're saying, don't do it... but you say YOU can't stop... come on, give your head a shake... Just do what you're preaching!!!... it's never too late, if you want it, you do it...simple. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted May 14, 2007 Share Posted May 14, 2007 And your point in posting this is... Link to post Share on other sites
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted May 14, 2007 Share Posted May 14, 2007 ....I have plans in the morning to go to a girls house (and well ya know)..... Here is where you have a problem. If you are in a committed relationship, you don't make plans to go over to a girls' house. Unless she's your grandma or a lesbian or something. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted May 14, 2007 Share Posted May 14, 2007 If you are truly want to stop cheating, then you will get some help to try and do so. Basically it just comes across as you bragging and are proud of what you do. I don't see anything to be proud of when it comes to that. Link to post Share on other sites
hardcase Posted May 14, 2007 Share Posted May 14, 2007 When you cheat you hurt all kinds of people without even meaning too....about 50 percent of the girls that I have cheated on my girlfriends with were the girlfriends of some of my closest friends You're lucky they didn't stomp a mudhole in you. Or did they? So I guess the message I am trying to get across is this.....If you are thinking about cheating on your significant other and find yourself in a difficult situation (don't do it)......Because I am sure the first time that I done it, I was saying this was the only time...not true, You will get hooked when you see how easy it is to get away with it and nobody ever know.....Well I mean what if they do find, how many people will you heart My wife didn't think I'd find out about her cheating when we were engaged...I found out from an ex-friend of hers that she pissed off and she spilled the beans 6 years, marriage, and 2 kids later. Not only was I robbed of the choice of deciding whether to call off the wedding or not, now two children may end up being hurt over this if I divorce her. And yes...it was long ago...but I had absolutely NO clue and when I found out, it opened up my eyes realizing she probably was messing around when she went out with her friends. Too many things just hit me after this bit of information slapped the overly trusting fool out of me. .....If you love the girl or guy you are with keep them and stay faithful, if you are tempted by cheating, just think which is more important? If you are tempted by it and there is a possibility you might...maybe that person shouldn't be in a committed relationship. I have never cheated and had the opportunity to, but there was no temptation...Its easy to turn down an advance when you truly do not want it. Your partner or a quick lay or whatever.... I mean when I get off of here I will probably go to bed, wake up, forget all about this forum and go get layed by someone other than my girlfriend Then you are in no way qualified to give the advice you just gave. I started to have an inkling of respect for you, but you just blew it. Do your gf a huge favor. Dump her so she can find a real man. ......I am not trying to be hypacritical, but I know ho easy it is to cheat a few times and get away with it Its only easy for weak, selfish, and downright despicable people. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted May 14, 2007 Share Posted May 14, 2007 about 50 percent of the girls that I have cheated on my girlfriends with were the girlfriends of some of my closest friends And what makes you think that you haven't been cheated on too??? Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted May 14, 2007 Share Posted May 14, 2007 This post was very very hard to read.. From someone whom has cheated and lost, reads this, and gets very annoyed. I made the decision to cheat one time, and got caught. Lost the woman I love, and half a year later, still hard on myself for screwing up, and dying to have her back in my life. I would KILL for a second chance just to show her that i wouldnt entertain that choice again. But you, who doesnt even realize how LUCKY u were to receive a second chance by your girlfriend, is just abusing her graciousness, and forgiveness... This pisses me off actually.. But thats life I suppose.. I KNOW i'd never make that choice ever again, and my ex is with someone else, and scared to come back to me.. and then there's you.. who gets that second chance, and just $hits all over it. No wonder people dont sympathize with cheaters whom are actually making changes in their lives, and are actually sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
EYECANDY000 Posted May 26, 2007 Share Posted May 26, 2007 huh? PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH, OR DONT PREACH AT ALL! Link to post Share on other sites
LulaMae Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 This is really bad....have you considered the health risks inherent in your behavior? Just a serious thought. Vivrantflo----I like your perspective and would love your opinion on my thread (Found Fiance's Sex Photos). Trying to figure out if my fiance is a changed man -- please see link below. Thanks! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t120360/ Link to post Share on other sites
LakesideDream Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 Back, Reading your post makes me sad, for you, and for the women in your life. I did that sort of thing when I was in High School, that was 40 years ago, and bro, I'm still paying for it. The ultimate price is knowing the "one", and not being able to give them your love. Shut it down, turn your self into a gentleman, there is always time. Don't waste your life in a pursuit of meaningless encounters. Link to post Share on other sites
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