elizabeth66 Posted May 19, 2007 Share Posted May 19, 2007 please help, im new t ll this im sic to eath of been cheaed and lied to, i ve been dating somone 4 months he lives far away from m and we only meet up once a fortnightor once a week if im lucky as he works away all wek i differnt town doing double glzing we met on a datin site and at last i thought i had found a decent man id fllen madly in love with him, and i know they say love i blind, ell i think itmust be i believed everythig he told me, i lent him my life savings, a he has debt etc needed new car i myself am now broke i have 3 kidsand no car and strugglig ys i might b a fool, i thought it was love, anyway he is paing me back a sal amout each week, or wh i ca see him im lucky if i get one txt a day from him, he is always busy and shattered so he says anyway i ou he was still on teh dating site we mt on an hd recetly paid fornother 3 month subscripton so i googled his name an the ursername he had on the dating site i found out he is on 14 sex sites even some escort sites 10 dating stes etc i got a freind of mine to send him amessage on the site we met on, he replied and was very crude, wantig to sendhe apic of his manhood etc and meet a couple of weeks ago h was woring away as usual and he told my freind who waspretending t be interested in him that he is free for a drink as heis in the tow for 3 weeks he aways tells me he works 14 hrs a day and is so shattered he fll asleep by 8pm he was on this dating site at 2am! s my frein can poove! He i such a liar and acheat i dnt knowht t do he has changd his email addys ad neer comes on msn says he s to tired i really feel in love he des not know that i know i have no confronted him how can i? As i need my money back h owes me a lot of money, now im sufffering cos put a man b4 my kids i feel fool i have back £2000 so far still another19k to go so how cn i let on to him i know as he may do a runner i need my cash back he lies constanly he was so convincing too adviceplease i was so upset now im very angry and want revenge in big way wht can i do? Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted May 19, 2007 Share Posted May 19, 2007 I can't believe you lent your life savings (£20K?????) to someone you hardly know. I would say go to the police, but I think they will probably be harsh on you because he is paying back a small amount each month, and you voluntarily GAVE him the money. Sorry to say, but really WHAT were you thinking??? He is a rat. And you fell for every trick in the book. I am sorry I am not being more sympathetic but its very difficult in light of the circumstances. Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted May 19, 2007 Share Posted May 19, 2007 I'm sorry, I tried to read your post but got a migraine a few paragraphs in. You're from England you say? Where "English" comes from? gawsh. Link to post Share on other sites
LakesideDream Posted May 20, 2007 Share Posted May 20, 2007 Ditto, I haven't a clue. Must be a generational thing. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted May 20, 2007 Share Posted May 20, 2007 You're from England you say? Where "English" comes from? Means nothing these days! Link to post Share on other sites
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