joel Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 hey girls are u more likely to date and be with a guy if he has pierced ears-earrings/studs. does it matter in left or right. i got mine in the right(heck i didn't now about that being gay-thought ppl were BSing me). ifa guy doesn't have pierced ears would it matter and how much. if a guy has earrings is he neccessary called a bad boy image. while the guy who doesn't have it would be less what ohter ways can a so called kinda of geekie guy look make into a bad boy look. no piercings or tats. styles, dress, ...etc i'm wonderin what do girls or even guys think of guys with earrings or pierced ears, be it in the left ear or right ear or both. whats ur opinion. some ppl say its like a bad boy image. is it realli. if ur a guy and you have pierced ears-why did u do it? how come? did your parents allow it. i know mine didn;t i got harassed about it constanly everyday to get it taken out. ok i have had 2 piercings in my right ear, that was 5 years ago. back than i didn't now the saying right is gay and left straight. who even made that crap up? does the right/left piericng ear thing a factor now. i didn;t even now about that kind of thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 I will preface by saying, I don't like bad boys, I like good boys Having said that, I do find something sexy about an eyebrow piercing on the right guy... No other male piercings do it for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Diamonds&Rust Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 As far as I know, the right ear = gay thing is still extremely valid. Sadly, you're gay now. Link to post Share on other sites
Chamari Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 On some guys, a single earing can be hot. On other guys it just looks stupid. Depends entirely on the person. I've never heard the right is gay saying but just picturing an earing on a guy I'd automatically see it on the left. Right just seems kind of weird. If it's that common, why not just let the piercings on the right heal up and get the left pierced? Link to post Share on other sites
My Fair Katie Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 Personally I don't like my man to be wearing nicer jewelry than I wear. I don't really have a preference, I've dated pierced and tattoo'ed guys. I didn't find them to be "bad boys" though, piercings and tattoos are so prolific, even geeks have them. They key is to have confidence, and it doesn't come from piercings. I don't want men to look either too froofy or too lazy. Wear clothes that fit and get a haircut that suits you. That's all there is to it. That said, I tend to love geeks. Speak to me in binary baby, oh yeah! Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted May 26, 2007 Share Posted May 26, 2007 Maybe in the eighties, it was considered rebellious to have an earring, but the problem is the true bad boys start a trend, then the wannabes follow suit and it loses it's appeal. You look around now, and see guys who have multiple piercings in every orifice that can be pierced and even surface piercings now, not to mention the high guage earrings and earlobe stretching. The true bad boys will always push the limits, and eventually the nerds will follow in an attempt to be like them. At some point it either has to come to an end or a full circle where nerds are so rare, it will be the ultimate in 'cool' to be a nerd. It's far sexier to just be who you are instead of being that guy who tries so hard to be cool, that it's just pathetic. Link to post Share on other sites
crazy_grl Posted May 26, 2007 Share Posted May 26, 2007 I haven't seen a guy with one ear pierced since like the mid, maybe late 90's. Well, I do remember seeing one guy recently, but he's about 40-50 something and probably was one of the bad boys in the 80's who hasn't let it go. If you got the ear pierced to be a 'bad boy' that was a big mistake. Either take it out or get the other ear pierced too. No matter which ear it is, it doesn't mea you're gay, because most gay guys probably have the fashion sense to know that one earring is out of style. Sorry to be blunt, but IMO, you might as well be growing out a rats tail. But aside from that, why do you want to look like a bad boy anyway? Geeky can be hot too. You just have to accept who you are and have confidence in yourself. Don't try to be something you aren't, because people spot you as a phony. Having confidence is a lot sexier than being a bad boy. Link to post Share on other sites
Walk Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 I don't find piercings attractive at all. Especially ears (for guys). Sounds like you're trying really hard to build a specific image of someone you don't really feel you are on the inside. What happens when you catch a girl who only likes "bad boys" and you can't back up the image? You can't be a bad boy. Sorry to be blunt about it. But you lack the confidence to have that title, or that image. Without the confidence, you're just another "nice guy" who gets ignored a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 why not start smoking? thats the best vehicle for you to be percieved as a bad boy. no reason to permanently defile your body. Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 why not start smoking? thats the best vehicle for you to be percieved as a bad boy. no reason to permanently defile your body. Smoking will do just exactly that from the inside out except it will be prolonged suffering, and it will be so exciting to guess what disease you will end up with! Link to post Share on other sites
Prise Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 Smoking will do just exactly that from the inside out except it will be prolonged suffering, and it will be so exciting to guess what disease you will end up with! The physical price paid will be well worth it, especially if the cigarette is fired up with the sound of a DuPont lighter with the ubiquitous brass chime! No offense to the Dunhill crowd, of course. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 well JOEL for the small investment of US $5 (CAN $7) for a pack of smokes you can instantly drop the nice guy look. no one says you have to inhale. trust me it'll work. a nice black leather jacket will also help Link to post Share on other sites
justagirliegirl Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 If a guy is really attractive, he could wear a bone through his nose and the girls would still flock to him. Link to post Share on other sites
Prise Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 If a guy is really attractive, he could wear a bone through his nose and the girls would still flock to him. Hahahaha...too true! In the end, one's natural physical attributes is the engine that drives the flocking. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 Try too hard and you will fail. Doesnt matter if you pick up smoking, get tats, or pierce your entire face. If it isnt in you naturally to do such things, you're not kidding anyone but yourself. I used to have a coworker who tried that fake-inhale cigarette thing...what a waste of stokes. He couldnt bare the thought of buying his own so he'd ask other people for it. So the point is if you try too hard to be someone you're not people can and will see through you. Link to post Share on other sites
katiebour Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 My ex b/f had multiple tats/earrings- I found them attractive, but he would have been just as attractive w/o any of it. He certainly did cultivate a "bad boy" image and it was part of his charm. My current b/f has 1 tat and piercings ALL over (wink wink). The very classy tat did really turn me on when I first saw it- and since it's in the middle of his back he had to take his shirt off to show me. Talk about turning up the heat! Plus it gave him a chance to show off the nipple piercings. But for all that my current b/f isn't really a "bad boy." He's more of a classy Goth, and his decorations are simply items that make him feel more attractive. He'd be attractive with or without, as well. I wouldn't suggest getting a permanent body decoration just to catch girls. Get one, if you want it, because it makes you feel good about yourself. If it gives you more confidence, then it's going to be something you'll be proud of having and not feel stupid about getting ten years down the line. I paid $400 for my large and beautiful tattoo- 18 hours under the needle in about 4 sessions. But because it is an intricate, gorgeous, wonderfully executed original, I will always be proud to have it and show it off. It makes me feel exotic and attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
justagirliegirl Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 Seriously what really matters are the basics. Be clean. Make sure your hair, body, nails, etc are clean. Wear antiperspirant deodorant please! No eye boogers! Brush your teeth and make sure you don't have bad breath. Go to the dentist and get your teeth cleaned regularly. If you have nasty narly teeth, get them fixed! Once again don't stink! Stink is a major turnoff and the girl will not tell you. She just won't see you anymore. Hair, I don't know how many times I have seen what would be an attractive guy completely ruined by a horrible hair cut. It looked like his mother put a bowl on his head and cut around it. Don't go out looking like your mom cuts your hair! Go to a nice salon and get a modern stylish cut. Facial hair. Either have it or don't but if you do keep it neat. Clothes, it really doesn't matter what style you have, just don't look like your mother dresses you. Find some stylish modern clothes that fit you and keep them clean. If you don't know what to buy ask one of the trendy cute people they hire in those stores to help pick out some things that look good and go together. Those are the basics for anyone. Link to post Share on other sites
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