i need advice

[deanna42382]

Hi well I had met this guy at a club almost three weeks ago. He tried to kiss me and I turned my head so he couldnt. Every since then he has called me. He makes remarks that he liked that I didnt kiss him. Well one night after the club I went with him to one of his friends house well we ended up staying the night over there, slept in the same bed but didnt do anything but kiss. He had respect for me because I told him that i didnt want to start something i couldnt finish. He hasnt really tried to encourage me to sleep with him. Well it ended up happening on friday I dont know if i should of made him wait longer. I have stayed a whole weekend with him and we didnt have sex. But now that we have I want to know how he feels about me, but I need to find out and I dont know exactly how to ask or bring it up to him.I am just hopeing that me having sex or staying the night with him put any effect on a chance to actually have a chance at a relationship.Well i need some advice on what i should do.

[Tony T]

It's too soon for him to know how he feels about you. Any feelings he might have right now would involve a lot of lust.

 

I can never understand how people can think others can develop feelings so quickly. Give the guy some time, for Pete's sake. Just because he had sex with you doesn't mean his has all these pent up feelings for you. You JUST had sex.

 

Once you have seen him for a month or two and he doesn't offer to tell you how he feels, then you should ask. Right now, if you make such an inquiry he will feel pressured and that won't be good.

 

Don't worry about his feelings right now. If there are going to be any, they are developing. Some guys take a very long time, others less. But if you think you can bribe a guy into having feelings for you by giving him your body, you are way wrong.

 

A man who REALLY has feelings for you will hold off for a very long time without sex if you insist.

 

Right now, you need to be thinking of ways to continue being a challenge to him and keeping him interested since you've alread introduced him to the booty!