sumdude Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 When you're with someone with a temper like that ... sometimes it best to think of it like the weather. Sometimes there are sunny days ... then a storm rolls through.. the less you react to him the quicker the storm passes. Just let it pass and watch it happen as an observer.. I know this may not help you with your decision but you have to just accept the way he is and that change is hard and slow for anyone.. Link to post Share on other sites
brokenhearted29 Posted July 15, 2007 Share Posted July 15, 2007 I'm sorry anna to hear that. But i agree with sumdude. It seems that this is the way he is. He has a bad temper and he likes to take it out on you. I guess just walk away from him when he starts blowing off. That way you are not getting frustrated with his attitude. My husband use to do that when i use to talk about something and he didnt want anything to do with it. Once he started yelling at me he knew i would back off. Keep your head up! U will make it through this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author anna13 Posted July 16, 2007 Author Share Posted July 16, 2007 that was awfull just typed something out and ran out of time andloveshack signed me out and i couldt post it!! ... that is sooooostuuuppppiiiidddd!!!! well , thank you sumdude and bh 29 ... i am starting to realize what you guys are saying myself. this is the way he is so it is either i accept it or i dont . i have to say lately i have been leaning to dont. i have been thinking about divorse alot. he has been nice to me but i feel that he has a wall there where i am not allowed in . i dont feel like i am getting alot of attention ,. none actually . we dont have sex too often he says he is tired all the time. i know he works alot but still . he has been really great with the teenager and the toddler .and I am happy about that but our relationship isnt what i want . i know i am giving it all but i feel like he is not . i want to say more but the fear of loveshack signing me out makes me want to end it at that. ... i will be back again later. I havent made any decesions yet . but i am thinking about how i am going to raise this teenager of mine alone and my toddlers feelings. so much stress. anyway thanks for reading my thread LV friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Author anna13 Posted July 21, 2007 Author Share Posted July 21, 2007 well, my husband seems to be calm as hec ..almost sedated if you ask me . but i am always on edge now wondering , when and what will make him snap . i swear i feel so confused , in one view I can see our future together being good .. on the other hand , I can see me being happier in a different situation. I am tired of feeling like my house is teetering on eggshells. it sucks and is no way to live. my teenager is turning 17 next week , and his attitude just went up another knotch so i am really at maximum stress levels . not sure what to do at this point other then to go day by day and hope that nothing goes terribly wrong . my toddler is starting school soon ..kindergarden , i am really happy about that .. it is just too bad i have to have this dark sinking feeling in me all the time . it isnt depression , since ihave been through that before. it is more of a ... anxious feeling a negative anxious that is really a poison to my life at this point. Link to post Share on other sites
Author anna13 Posted July 23, 2007 Author Share Posted July 23, 2007 well things are getting better with my husband . I really want to stay married , but it is up and down . he has been great since yesterday . crazy isnt it . I just dont understand . he was mad at me earlier and then he was all nice . i just dont understand him anymore. he gave me alot of attention yesterday . and then it differs by day . Link to post Share on other sites
Author anna13 Posted August 4, 2007 Author Share Posted August 4, 2007 so far so good . we are moving soon soon and looks like we can start new. thanks to everbodys help on here. dont take this wrong but I hope i dont have to come back here Link to post Share on other sites
brokenhearted29 Posted August 26, 2007 Share Posted August 26, 2007 Hi Anna! I'm glad to hear things are going well for you guys. Keep me posted. Take care. Link to post Share on other sites
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