will folk Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 My ex-girlfriend and I started dating about eight months ago. I was blown away by her looks when I first saw her. She is the best looking girl I have ever dated. We got each others numbers and started to talk everyday. I had never had so much in common with a girl. It took about two weeks before we decided to start dating. She made the happiest I have ever been in my life. I have never had a whole lot of girlfriends, but this felt different (better) than any relationship or friendship I had ever experienced.All of a sudden about two and half to three weeks later she broke up with me because she said she wanted to go back to a guy she said she thought she was in love with. I had never been so hurt in my life. I know people think you can't fall in love with somebody that fast, but I really did fall in love with this girl. I told her that I loved her and that I just wanted her to be happy. So, we remained friends. I didn't call her for about two months because I wanted her to cause problems or interfere in her relationship. However, I did text her some, just to show her I was thinking about her. I dated another girl for about a month during this time to try to move on, but i just couldn't. This girl broke up with me because she figured out I was still in love with my ex-girlfriend. I didn't think I would feel bad about it but I did. I talked to my ex-girlfriend right after she broke up with me and I asked her for her number again (girlfriend deleted it) and we started talking again. She said she dumped her boyfriend because he was controlling and he stressed her out alot. The next weekend we decided to start dating again. It went well for about two weeks and then she started to get more distant with me. I figured I probably went to fast for her by telling her i loved her. We talked alot and we never had any fights, but she broke up with me again about two months later. I was so hurt. No one has ever made me as happy as she has. Now, we have become really close and I have told her things I have never told anyone about me. She found out I was a virgin, so I figured that was a lot of pressure for her because she said she wasn't ready to fall in love and that she has never taken anybody's virginity. I told her that didn't matter because I loved her without having sex with her and that I would wait until she felt comfortable. So, I thought I put to much pressure on her unknowingly and that was the reason for the breakup. About a week later she said that she didn't breakup with me as much for that reason, but because she thought she was gay. I told her I would always love her and if she needed anything don't hesitate to ask me for help. We have kept talking and she actually got upset when I tried to move on and date another girl but, it didn't work I still felt even more in love with her after everything. She thought I didn't want to be her friend anymore when she found out I had a new girlfriend and she got really upset with me. This was really confusing. She found out I dumped this girl and started calling me again ( a lot more). Since then, we have remained the best of friends. She started to talk about the guy she broke with me for originally. She said she was wondering about wether she was gay because she said she wanted to get married in the future, but this kind of hurt me because it came across like she wanted to marry him. However, since then she has started to talk to me everyday and started to call me all of these pet names ( ex.good lookin, babe). She has wanted to see me more and, wants me to tutor her this summer. She has even started to hint at sexual things between us. I am very happy about this but confused. It is almost as if we are talking again because she wants to hang out with me alot more. I still love her with all of my heart and i would marry her today if she wanted to but, I want to know if I need to just wait for her and also if these hints are an indication of her wanting a relationship again as opposed to just a friendship. She is my best friend but I need to move on to get over her if she doesn't want a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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