hrtbroken99 Posted May 30, 2007 Share Posted May 30, 2007 Anyone here ever fear of never finding that one person who will unconditionally love them back forever, to marry...to have children?... lately I have been thinking of this a lot. I am in my mid twenties and I am sure I have been feeling a lot of this because 6 months ago my bf broke up with me (the man who once did talk to me about marriage, kids, etc)....and now I wonder...what if...just what if..I never ever meet anyone who can commit to me?....how will I live my life alone?...will I be the lady in the restaurant eating by herself?...coming home to work to an empty house...not attending certain parties or get together where you need a date only.....anyone else ever feel this way...? Link to post Share on other sites
Quinch Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 Yup, I'm there too. I'm not actively looking for anyone either. If somebody does come along and we hit it off then we'll see what happens next, but sometimes I tink I might be better off as I am. Can come and go as I please and not answer to anyone. Not desperate to have kids anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Zona76 Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 Thats a difficult question for a woman to be honest enough to answer clearly. She wants to be honest to herself and ends up being the deceiver. Do we get this from those Disney movies. The Prince Charming that is so perfect a match? I think I always believed in my Prince and for a while I stoped looking. I settled. I married because I was scared of being alone. I went into something that ended up dull and unexciting and I stayed because there was nothing else for me. It wasn't so bad. But I was missing so much. But I found him. Yes he was there in another country and it was just as the story book promised. We met on the Internet and knew this was what we'd always been seeking. We divorced our spouses to whom we both were equally separated and proceeded our journey to meet and ohhhhhhhhhh the magic.... Do I believe in fairy tales? Yes I do! Do I believe this I have now is only a dream or a fantasy? Sorry Honey, but just don't wake me yet. Not for at least a hundred years or so. Link to post Share on other sites
Quinch Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 "Tink I'm better off"??? Sorry, should be "think" obviously:o Link to post Share on other sites
MELLOW808 Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 I'm a guy in my mid-twenties too. I have been thinking about that also. My past relationships have been the same cycles. They all dug me quite a lot, then boom!, they didn't. So, I've been thinking the things you wrote down too. Maybe I'm looking too hard? Trying too hard? Being too nice? Link to post Share on other sites
Leahh Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 this completely hits home for me. I pray someone will love me just a little bit, I just want to be married.... I'm scared I won't find the one and my life will be useless, despite any and all other accomplishments. Link to post Share on other sites
FleshNBones Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Do I worry about being the guy that eats alone in a restaurant? I can't because I already am that guy. I think I went through all of the stages of grief. Link to post Share on other sites
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