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Just to be clear, I'm not looking for someone to fall in love with and I'm not looking for a serious relationship. I'm just wondering whether I should try to find a casual friend to hook up with for no-strings sex now and again. Where do you find people like that?

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Yeah, okay. I'll leave it for now. I was just a bit down this week and maybe more than a little desperate. Back to normal now.

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nittygritty

I'd say you have got to love yourself before you can be a good lover.

 

If you tell a girl you want a no strings attached sexual relationship your going to be loving yourself for awhile :laugh:.

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Star Gazer

Quinch, unlike Champagne's incredibly rude response, I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to find a lover...so long as you make your intentions VERY clear. There are women out there who enjoy sex and do not require a committed relationship to have it.

 

Anyway, the internet really isn't all that bad of a way to go. Try AdultFriendFinder. I'm serious. Two of my good guy friends admitted having found their FWB on there. If it does the trick, why not?

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Yeah, I think the internet is a pretty useful and powerful tool...

just use it wisely or you'll be played for a fool....

But in the right and capable hand.....

You can easily find a beautiful woman....

 

Try Plenty of Fish (its an honest and free site) Its not like those cashfriendfinders. but if you like paying, go ahead....or just put yourself out there on Facebook or something like that (its free too). I just happened to think that finding love should be free !! Careful what you wish for, you just might get it.

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Yeah, I think the internet is a pretty useful and powerful tool...

just use it wisely or you'll be played for a fool....

But in the right and capable hand.....

You can easily find a beautiful woman....

 

Try Plenty of Fish (its an honest and free site) Its not like those cashfriendfinders. but if you like paying, go ahead....or just put yourself out there on Facebook or something like that (its free too). I just happened to think that finding love should be free !! Careful what you wish for, you just might get it.

 

I just discovered plentyoffish I give it a thumbs up

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solo_flyer
How do you feel about anal sex?

 

Yes, it is easy for homosexual men to find NSA encounters.

 

Becoming gay will solve your problem immediately!

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Becoming gay will solve your problem immediately!

 

Thanks for the suggestion but there's only room for one cock in my bed (not that I'm boasting ;))

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Try the Internet or the phone chat lines (Lavalife)... be honest about what you're looking for... I'm sure you'll get tons of responses.

 

On the Internet...put a photo if you want more 'traffic' on your ad.

 

There are a lot of women out there who are just looking for a casual no-string sex relationship...or just one night stands...you'll be surprised.

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If you are sooo desperate you can also go to a 'massage parlour' or to an escort agency..they have nice girls who will be more than happy to please you... ;)

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Just to be clear, I'm not looking for someone to fall in love with and I'm not looking for a serious relationship. I'm just wondering whether I should try to find a casual friend to hook up with for no-strings sex now and again. Where do you find people like that?

 

Then hit the bars and nightclubs.

 

But if you are ever looking for a serious relationship with love involved, stay away from those places.

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doiask42much

I've heard of some people doing the Casual Encounters section of Craig's List. One friend of mine did this recently, actually. And he's not a looker by any means but managed to find a willing participant. It was actually rather odd, he said, because she didn't want to know ANYTHING about him at all and got off on the stranger thing.

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