insanelyjelous Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 Hi guys I'm not really looking for answers or advice as I already know I deserve much more/better then what I have right now, I just really need to vent and I have no one I can talk to. My so called fiance is off out tonight, without me yet again! he thinks that I have stupid tattooed across my forhead, I have no issue with him going out but I actually know that he is going to see 1 specific girl and thats it. She is a dancer and he's a DJ and that's how they met, but he seems to have taken a distinct shine to her as he has plastered pictures of her from one the gigs he was DJing at on his myspace page with comments such as "WoW". As if that wasn't enough he then had the audacity to put comments on her page such as he's in love and that he's gonna marry her. I know he thinks its just harmless flirting and maybe it is to him but he's killing me. I then found out earlier this week that this girl would be working at a particular club today and I waited to see wether my fiance would decide he was going too and yes you got it in one yesterday he came home and told me in passing that he was going to this club too with one of his friends, I asked him why we couldn't go together and I got the usual bull**** that he wouldn't enjoy himself and he'd feel like big brother was watching, damn f@*$ing right he wouldn't enjoy himself because there would be no chance of talking to the little dancing hottie (she is very pretty!) I then explained my philospy of if your not doing anything wrong then you wouldn't care if i was watching or not, I have a good mind to get all dressed up and go down there looking hot as hell and dance with every man in the place (and I might). I haven't mentioned this girl to him as yet as I've been biding my time and trying not to go into insecure jelous fiancee overdrive but he has gone to far now acting like a groupie and following this chick around.... Rant over Link to post Share on other sites
Je Ne Regrette Rien Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 How annoying! You have every right to be angry. . Does he know you have had a look at his myspace page? Turn the tables on him. Treat him with some of his own medicine. Go out and have a great time elsewhere and then have a rethink about whether this is the sort of behaviour you want from your significant other for the rest of your life. If you're not worth spending a night with because of some dancer that he has the hots for, you're not going to be worth all of the hard work that marriage takes. Could it be that he has cold feet about being engaged? Link to post Share on other sites
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