sungrl Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Just want an opinion of if i am overanalyzing. I was at my b/f's mother's house. While we were eating and my b/f was in the other room--his mother said to my b.f--you left your shirt in my car--in the back seat. Now--my b/f has his own car--and rarely uses his mom's. Also--his mom uses her car every day to take care of her grandson. So he really does not use it. She then said when did you use it? I saw in the back. And i think she saw it in the back because she keeps the babysit for the grandson there or maybe just some stuff for the baby. My b.f just looked at his mom when she said this and didnt really say anything and just kind of shook his head like i dunno. This made me think--did he use his mom's car to be in the back seat with some girl. And did he take his mom's car to be safe because his car is very noticable(take my word for it) I let it go because what can i really ask him---but is this weird and suspicious? Let it go?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author sungrl Posted June 4, 2007 Author Share Posted June 4, 2007 anyone have any thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
zoidberg Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 You don't have enough to say anything to him, I think, but you should trust your intuition enough to be extra observant. Watch for evidence of deception, on his part. Who he might be calling, meeting, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sungrl Posted June 4, 2007 Author Share Posted June 4, 2007 i see him only a few days out of the week..but it seems easy to get away with cheating if you live 40 minutes away. He doesnt get many calls but a person can always forward certain calls to another number if they wanted to. I dont know what to think. I didnt want to say anything to him like when did you leave a shirt in her car so i didnt but i kind of want/wanted to. Link to post Share on other sites
behappy999 Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Say something. Tell him it wasn't the fact that he left the T-Shirt in the car, but the way he reacted when his mom asked him about it... that he just seemed weird. You would think, if he wasn't hiding anything, that he would have been quick to explain... because having a shirt in the back of your mom's car just seems strange. IF you don't say anything you will just have that nagging doubt! And be a nervous wreck everytime he goes out or whatever. IF he's not hiding anything he will be quick to explain/reassure (not get defensive) and that will ease your mind and save you from all the anxiety. Link to post Share on other sites
LakesideDream Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Sungrl, frankly, if that's the extent of your trust for your BF you need to move on. Obviously he isn't the one for you. I've found my kids shirts, underwear, socks, in my Exploder, they borrow it to move stuff sometimes, occasionally to go to the river with friends. My daughter has borrowed it to bring her laundry over to my house to wash (she has a Miada). There are thousands of legit reasons for a mans shirt to be in his Moms car... forgetting it after stripping naked to have sex with random women isn't high on the list. Get a grip! Link to post Share on other sites
dbtmarley Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 I would not worry about the shirt. I would be worried if his mother asked why hadn't he made her bed after sleeping in it. ewwwww. Link to post Share on other sites
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