bobb_b Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 ok, I had been going out with my girlfriend for a year now and things couldnt have been better, but the past couple weeks it just has seemed hard to get close to her. She brokeup with me last week. She said that she loves me and that i treat her perfectly and i did nothing wrong at all and she really seemed to mean it. She said she feels like I just treat her perfect and that she doesnt treat me as well and that its just not fair to me, like she cant seem to get over what going on and she wants to be close to me but she feels disconnected, at the beginning she always wanted to be with me and be close and we were just falling for eachother soo hard,but like i said the past couple weeks i could tell sumthing was wrong, she said maybe we can get back together but she just doest know when or if. I feel soo broken over the fact and everyday for the past week ive just thought about her all day every day and have cried myself to sleep. I wakeup everynight around 3 and cry some more and just pray and hope that this is just a bad dream. I cant eat right and i am just totally drained. I just dont know what exactly to do in this situation and its makes me feel sick. Please someone help, I love this girl soo much i feel like my heart has just been ripped out and i just want to give everything to her and be with her Link to post Share on other sites
peechy06 Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Sounds kind of complicated, but I definately know what you are going through. Me and my ex have been broken up for about a month now and he has been trying to get close but still seems very disconnected at the same time. Its almost like he doesn't know what he really wants and I think this is the same with your girlfriend. I definately think she loves you but you have been together for a year and its usually after this length of time (from my experience anyway) that you hit a speed bump. If I were you I would not contact her in anyway. She knows how great you are, and she will start realizing that and will start to miss you soon enough. Just give it some time and give her space. DO NOT CONTACT HER UNLESS SHE CONTACTS YOU. And when she does, take it slow and be careful. Don't let your emotions take over. Hopefully by this time she will treat you better and not take you for granted. Hope this helps! Link to post Share on other sites
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