learning2luv Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 :sick:Well lets try it here. I wrote a post in dating, not much of a response. Looking for some kind words of advice. Ive been dating a girl for about 2 years. The last year from far away. She asked to move, I was afraid. Now I am not afraid to move, but she is scared. I feel like I waited too long, I was naive to what was happening (the relationship falling apart). We are trying to work it out, I just don't know what to do. I really feel like she is the one. I don't want to give up. I would do everything for her. I feel like we've grown apart because of the distance, not because of us. Does taking a step backwards in a relationship ever work? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
baden Posted June 6, 2007 Share Posted June 6, 2007 It is tough to say if taking a step backwards works, but I do know that taking steps forward without the other person doing the same will not. Not sure what I would do in this situation, but I am leaning towards explaining the situation one time with her and your fears from the past. Tell her you understand her fear because you went through it yourself and when/if she is ready to let you know. I would probably not contact her after that and see if she comes around. If she doesn't then move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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