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[Flutter]

I will try to make this short as short as possible. I met the guy eight months. Talk about feeling like a princess. He said he had never felt like this with anyone before and I felt the same. I really feel he meant it. I got flowersevery 4 weeks, when he was out of town, he would call. He wanted to spend every night together and I was the one that even said are you sure. About 6 weeks ago he started to pull away. Not call like he used to when out of town, not as attentive. He would say he would do things and then he would not. I do admit that during this time, I now know that I did the wrong thing. I kept asking him what was wrong and trying to get to act like he used to. One Thursday, we had a disagreement, mainly over him being distant. He did not call me Friday until 10:00 p.m. and had been at a bar. He asked if I wanted to come over and I said no because I was tired and it was late. I was surprised that he even called and when I asked him why he called, he said, because “Maybe because I care). He said that we would do something Saturday night and that he would call me by noon on Saturday to make plans. By 5:00 p.m. he had not called. I went over and acted like nothing was wrong. He said he did not say we would do anything on Saturday and did not say that he would call. I just could not take it anymore at this point. I told him that I still loved him and if things could be like they were, that I would be the happiest girl in the world, but I can’t go on like this. I left him a letter that basically said the same thing and I pointed out the things that I just could not take anymore. I do believe with all my heart that he really did truly love me. He even wanted to talk marriage early on, but I was not ready. Way too soon for me.

 

Questions for you guys:

 

1. Was he doing this because he wanted to break up and did not have the guts and it was easier to make me mad enough to do it?

 

2. Do you think that it even bothers him that I left?

 

3. Do you think that he will think about what he lost and ever contact me again?

 

4. If I get asked out, would this make it better or worse if he would see me or find out?

 

Any other wisdom would really help.

 

Thanks in advance, Flutter

[Flutter]

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[Flutter]

Does no one have an opinion on this?

[Poboy]

1. he went all in and then pulled back . maybe he got bored and all the initial attraction started to go away ... do you know why so ? maybe he didnt get something he was looking for . did you speak to him why he is acting like this. oh and he was at a bar ... so drunk ... so he might be right when he says he doesnt remember.

 

2,3. if it bothers him , he will come back . if he doesnt , you know then.

 

4. have you broken up with him ? seems like you just left a letter and he hasnt contacted you after that. looks like you want to move on with dating other people . if thats so , you better talk things over with him before continuing with your life and clear up things .

[Flutter]

Thanks Poboy. I appreciate your thoughts.

 

Flutter