this seems rude to me, am i wrong?

[rose45]

if my b/f and i were walking down the street and some knock out came walking, i atleast know he would never turn around completely to look at her..driving--he seemed to slightly turn his head constantly to the point i couldnt take it and now the mirror thing happened..he says hes isnt going to walk around with blinders on..the thing is--he defended himself the last time i argued about turning his head BUT it actually slowed down a lot after that..he doesnt think he was wrong, but he somewhat stopped it. When at bars and of course other pretty girls are there and of course you are going to notice them(you cant stop it here) he makes it clear he is with me..holding my hand, or hand on my waist etc etc.

 

I am kind of hoping this is what it would be like this time..he told me when he got the text, he wrote it off thinking--she doesnt like it, im in a relationship, its just something i have to deal with..when i kept pressing it he said he was ignoring it then and now because he didnt want to get into it and he said what women is ok to look at etc etc and if it was a pretty girl, what the f*ck does it matter and that he notices everything but if it happens to be a girl then he is wrong?..and my point is--YES its wrong if its a girl and you are turning your head.

 

So the bottom line is--he doesnt think hes wrong at all, wont ever apologize for something like this and i think im right..we still had a good night together..kind of dropped it..but what do i do..wait and see what happens and if i catch him doing it--point it out???

[Trialbyfire]

rose, I went back to your previous threads and the impression I'm getting is that you don't trust your b/f one bit. This is why something this insignificant bothers you so much.

 

Do you honestly feel that you want to live with this type of jealousy and insecurity for the rest of your life?