Why do women get so upset at their men who watch porn???

[Carbine]

I know you're going through a difficult time with this.

The hard time was over when we split up 7 months ago. This is the result of everything.

 

I didn't mean to joke. She has to look presentable. Would you watch "The Bachelor" or "24" if the main guy was exceedingly overweight. This is trivial because what one guy my find attractive, the other guy may not, which brings up the question; how do you know if he finds her irresistibly attractivewhen he looks at it? Is he saying it? If not, why are you so certain you can read his mind?

 

Honestly, I have never watched an episode of The Bachelor in my life. I don't even know what the hell 24 IS. I rarely, rarely watch tv and if I do it's because it offers mindless entertainment during moments of severe boredom. Porn is used for a different purpose and fulfills a different type of need. Fair enough, individual preferences count for something but I also believe that there's a certain stereotype that men prefer. I'm no mind reader but simple observation tells me which porn actresses he finds the most attractive - he pays more attention to the screen, he jerks off more furiously, the sex is more intense, he orgasms better....etc.

 

That's the problem with some women. They're too self-conscious. I think, I think, I think, I think!! Don't be a prisoner of your own mind. We sometimes let our thoughts consume reality. We let pessimistic thoughts screw up our good intuition. Don't let negative thoughts jail you from enjoying life and relationships.

 

Hyperpen, my thoughts are logical and they occur for a good reason. I LIKE being able to think at a fairly deep level. What's more, I'd rather than be a prisoner of my own mind than a prisoner of his, and therefore a prisoner of his desires, beliefs, values and choices.

[Hyperpen12000]

Hyperpen, my thoughts are logical and they occur for a good reason. I LIKE being able to think at a fairly deep level. What's more, I'd rather than be a prisoner of my own mind than a prisoner of his, and therefore a prisoner of his desires, beliefs, values and choices.

 

yeah, you keep thinking that, just like my ex......

[McFadden]

I know the guys will say they don't mind but I really wonder how many would put up with their woman watching porn daily with lots of well hung guys in it? ... a bunch of naked guy photos on her computer etc. and ordering a replica of some porn guy's schlong to pleasure herself with while she watching the porn?

 

That is a such a good point. If some of the pro porn men can't say they would be 100% comfortable with all that then thier argument has no validity and they should go light themselves on fire.