Why do women get so upset at their men who watch porn???

[IpAncA]

Well, do you mean lusting after a tangible, real person, or lusting after an actor/actress in a porno movie (meaning, the person that was created by the movie industry)?

 

Both.

 

Now this has been confirmed from some guys I've talked to and I even asked this on a couple of boards and yes they said it's hard not to lust. Almost impossible so there must be truth in there somewhere.

 

Not saying I have a problem but I was just throwing it out there for the OP because I didn't see it mentioned. Just something I've heard women who have a problem with it say.

 

That's all.

[polywog]

Both.

 

Now this has been confirmed from some guys I've talked to and I even asked this on a couple of boards and yes they said it's hard not to lust. Almost impossible so there must be truth in there somewhere.

 

Not saying I have a problem but I was just throwing it out there for the OP because I didn't see it mentioned. Just something I've heard women who have a problem with it say.

 

That's all.

 

 

Understood! Did not mean to sound all pissy, or make you defend yourself... Mea Culpa... Especially as I love and respect your posts!

 

But.... lusting after a real person in your life vs. lusting afer an only-seen-in-film- porno star??? Now here is fodder for discussion!

[IpAncA]

Especially as I love and respect your posts!

 

But.... lusting after a real person in your life vs. lusting afer an only-seen-in-film- porno star??? Now here is fodder for discussion!

 

Woo Hoo!

 

Hahaha this has been discussed many times and the answer I got from some men on here was that's it's okay because they don't have access to them in real life. Guess it's a fake lust.

[polywog]

Woo Hoo!

 

Hahaha this has been discussed many times and the answer I got from some men on here was that's it's okay because they don't have access to them in real life. Guess it's a fake lust.

 

Well, It is a fake lust! I mean, what about (I'm getting all gender-specific here, oh well) women who watch soap operas and lust after the guy stars? Or read romance novels and lust after whatever heroes are in those? Women don't have access to those fantasy men in real life, yet I have no doubt they fuel fantasies (romantic and sexual). I'm not so sure it's any different than female porno stars are to men. Which brings me to....

 

I'm deliberately throwing gasoline into the fire here, because I'd love to hear/read what people think... Don't you all think that a secret fantasy life is part of the spice of life, whether it's porno or romance novels? I think it helps to keep us as intact individuals, which spices our relationships with our lovers. What do you think of this?

[IpAncA]

I'm deliberately throwing gasoline into the fire here, because I'd love to hear/read what people think... Don't you all think that a secret fantasy life is part of the spice of life, whether it's porno or romance novels? I think it helps to keep us as intact individuals, which spices our relationships with our lovers. What do you think of this?

 

The problem I have with that is when you get too involved, some people tend to prefer that to real life which can create problems.

 

I myself, don't do a secret fantasy life. Fantasies are a wondering thing to let someone have things go perfect. In real life their not. I don't want to confuse the two and start hoping that the fantasy comes true or believe that it can when it can't. Hope that makes sense.

 

Sure there are some things I would create in my mind to do, BUT usually I can act those out in real life.

 

Now I feel like I've gone off what you were talking about.

[Shan2k]

Like I was saying, "Porn is Fantasy". Fake girls with super human sexual powers. Even the men. Those men and women have several takes to do one scene. It's just entertainment for those who don't take it beyond that. But how can you go beyond???? Try contacting the girl on the porn? Cheat on your GF/husband because someone you saw on the streets reminds you of your favorite porn star? That would be taking it too far!! For those guys who are completely obsessed, you need help.

 

 

For those guys on here (the guys who are sane) and your bf/husbands at home who say it's just fantasy and entertainment. You should really consider that and get over your insecurities.

[Lizzie60]

But how can you go beyond????

Try contacting the girl on the porn? No, unlikely....

 

Cheat on your GF/husband because someone you saw on the streets reminds you of your favorite porn star? Maybe....

 

I will add:

 

but he can want his partner to do stuff he saw in the movie and if she doesn't want to... he might try to get it outside... Very likely...

 

I see that from some of my MMs.

[IpAncA]

Cheat on your GF/husband because someone you saw on the streets reminds you of your favorite porn star? Maybe....

 

I will add:

 

but he can want his partner to do stuff he saw in the movie and if she doesn't want to... he might try to get it outside... Very likely...

 

I see that from some of my MMs.

 

That IMO is taking it way too far.

 

Should keep fantasy where it belongs, in the mind and stop trying to incorporate it into their daily life because problems could and seem to arise.

 

Now if their SO doesn't mind and is all for it, then both people are happy. But the guy shouldn't expect his SO to do whatever it is he wants her/them to do. Should be a plus and not something to get all worked up about.

 

Whatever happen to it being a fantasy? Guess not.

 

Now I can see why when porn is involved for some, the relationship tends to suffer if not end.

 

For those guys who are completely obsessed, you need help.

 

I agree.

[Shan2k]

But how can you go beyond????

Try contacting the girl on the porn? No, unlikely....

 

Cheat on your GF/husband because someone you saw on the streets reminds you of your favorite porn star? Maybe....

 

I will add:

 

but he can want his partner to do stuff he saw in the movie and if she doesn't want to... he might try to get it outside... Very likely...

 

I see that from some of my MMs.

 

Same with romance for women... Going to the Bahamas, Jamaica, Hawaii, candle light dinners, rose paddles, Massages, being spontaneous. If you're not getting at least one or none of these things you've seen in entertainment or read in novels, you'll be looking somewhere else too.

 

 

Romance is a two-way street. Spicing up your sex life is not dirty when it comes to someone you love.

 

Gosh, make your guy fantasize about you!! Make him feel like he has something unique, someone every man wish they had!

[Lizzie60]

Spicing up your sex life is not dirty when it comes to someone you love.

 

it's not dirty even with someone you're not in love with.

[Shan2k]

Spicing up your sex life is not dirty when it comes to someone you love.

 

it's not dirty even with someone you're not in love with.

 

 

Hey, Whatever!

[rtHawk]

THIS.....

 

You need to find strength within yourself and know you're a beautiful person.

THAT CERTAINLY DOESN'T FULFILL MEN'S FANTASIES DOES IT???

 

A lot of men in relationships don't watch porn to be attracted to other women. It's the fantasy of it. Women aren't the only ones in the porn (unless you're watching an all lesbian one).(THE GUYS IN PORN ARE JUST PLAIN OL UNATTRACTIVE--FOR A REASON--- TAKE THE FOCUS OFF OF THEM AND NOT TO GIVE THE MALE VIEWERS SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT) Believe it or not, a lot of men love the submissiveness and the overwhelming satisfaction women receive in the pornography.(THE REALITY OF PORN IS THAT THEY DON'T GET OVERWHELMING SATISFACTION--THEY GET PAID TO ACT LIKE THEY DO FOR THEIR EVER-CAPTIVE AND EASILY FOOLED AUDIENCE--FOR THE $$$$$$$$)

In reality, it's not like that. Sex is work and a guy has to consider his woman's needs or it won't workout in the long run. It's a lot of pressure on men. (EXACTLY--IT TAKES EFFORT TO LOVE, CHERISH, RESPECT, ADORE AND PLEASURE YOUR SO; ) SO PORN IS THE EASY ROUTE OUT OF IT--YET, I WOULD NEVER TAKE THAT ROUTE..EVER WITH MY SO)

 

 

Some men can't always get sex on a regular base from their women so it's an outlet. Yes, we are visual creatures.

 

I'm highly attracted to my woman but sometimes she's not in the mood and I need something to relieve that neglect. (NEGLECT???? OR JUST NORMAL STRESS, TIREDNESS, BUSY SCHEDULE????)

I don't want to sound like a pervert but that's the reason a lot of guys watch porn. Without porn, a lot of sexual fantasy and positions would not be thought of.(THE ANCIENT KAMA SUTRA WAS CREATED AND DESCRIBED WITHOUT ANY PREVIOUS DVDS -MAGS ETC) When I first had sex with a woman, she thought I was experience. So in some ways it's beneficial.

 

Maybe you should try dressing up in something sexy to make your man want you more. Role play.... Fulfill some of his sexual fantasies.( MANY OF US DO---IT STILL ISN'T ENOUGH?) IS IT????

 

 

Women in porn are sex goddess! No complaints, forever horny, submissive, always exceedingly satisfied, and sexy.

 

EXACTLY!!! THEY DO NOT MIRROR REAL LIVE LOVING, CARING , ADORING, FLAWED, IMPERFECT WOMEN--AND THEY GET PAID TO ACT THAT WAY.

 

 

.PLUS THIS....

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*shrug* I may look 'fine' but I don't look like the ideal woman that both women and men put up on a pedestal.

Having this rubbed in my face would just do my head in.

 

 

Well the original question was about my feelings regarding his porn use. And the porn HE used featured models, not amateurs.

But he's seen you already. Its not an insult. There is something about sex where NEW is exciting. And its not possible to find someone NEW all the time. Its just insane, unless you want someone obsessive about you.

I dont care if you have Angelina Jolie for a wife. A normal guy is still going to look around.

 

What, isn't it enough that he has me, someone he chose to be with?? I'm not like a car, I'm not an object. Why can't men realise that?

Is not with you anymore? If he is still with you, then he has chose to be with you. Sex is DIFFERENT for men than women. Its different for each person! You have to accept that fact. Just because he is not seeing it as you do does NOT make it a bad person.

 

I'm not making assumptions, I got the truth out of him after he tried to dodge giving me a direct answer for ages. Yes, his ideal female is tall, blonde, stunning and has a great body. Strangely enough his porn collection mostly features actresses who posess these traits. I have none of these features.

Which is why he is looking at them. Its NEW and DIFFERENT. If you did have those features, he would probably be looking at something else you dont have. If he starts saying 'Gee. I wish you had a big a heart shaped butt.' or something, then it wrong.

 

HE HAS SEEN YOU ALREADY, NEW AND DIFFERENT....

 

SO THAT MAKES EVERY WOMAN/S.O. BORING, NEVER EXCITING ENOUGH TO KEEP HIS INTEREST IN HER NUDITY, SEXUALITY AND SENSUALITY-FEMINITY--HER NEWNESS IS OLD AND NO LONGER OF INTRIGUE.

 

AN ANCIENT SAYING;

A MAN IS NOT A GOOD LOVER BECAUSE HE MAKES LOVE TO A NEW WOMAN EVERYNIGHT BUT ONE WHO CAN MAKE LOVE WITH THE SAME WOMAN EVERYNIGHT...

 

AND MAYBE THEY DON'T SAY THAT THEY WISH SHE HAD A HEART SHAPED BUTT BECAUSE IF THEY DID THEY KNOW THEY WOULDN'T GET ANY AT ALL AGAIN!!!!!

 

 

JUST OUT OF HONEST CURIOUSITY; ALTHOUGH MOST OF YOU WOULD PROBABLE SAY IT WOULDN'T BOTHER YOU ( IMO--B ECAUSE YOU HAVEN'T ACTUALLY BEEN EXPOSED TO WHAT I DESCRIBE BELOW--TO REALLY UNDERSTAND THE IDEA OR THE FEELINGS)

 

BUT IF YOU KNEW YOUR GF/SO/WIFE WAS GETTING AROUSED, AND MASTURBATING REGULARLY TO PORN WITH MOSTLY MEN IN IT---GUYS WHO ARE UNREALISTICALLY BUILT--THEY HAVE ENORMOUS CHESTS/PECS; WASHBOARD ABS, MASSIVE MUSCULAR LEGS, TIGHT ASSES, CHISLED CHINS, SEXY HANDS, AND THICK-ALL ROUND HUGELY HUNG AND EVER LASTING ERECTIONS AND ALL-AMERICAN GOOD LOOKS...

 

YOU KNEW SHE WAS GETTING OFF TO THEM ON A REGULAR BASIS, SOMETIMES SHE WOULD BEFORE WORK, OR WHILE YOU WERE AT WORK BEFORE YOU GOT HOME, OR BEFORE SHE WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU....

 

IN ALL HONESTY, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL??? TRUTH? HAVE YOU EVER REALLY EXPERIENCED IT?? HAVE YOU EVER REALLY SEEN REALLY HOT GUYS IN PORN THAT DIDN'T EVEN ONCE MAKE YOU THINK ABOUT YOUR OWN SELF AND YOUR SEXUALITY?

 

WOULD YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR S.O.'S CONCERNS AND DISCOMFORT WITH YOUR PORN WATCHING????

 

WOULD IT MATTER TO YOU IF SHE DID FEEL BAD ABOUT IT?

 

BY THE WAY-I DON'T KNOW ANY WOMAN WHO FANTASIZES ABOUT ANY ROMANCE NOVELS, SOAP OPERAS ETC, INCLUDING MYSELF...THOSE THINGS ARE FOOLISH-GARBAGE FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE NOTHING BETTER IN THEIR LIVES.

[doiask42much]

I used to work for Hustler and was exposed to a lot of porn because of my job, but it was when I was a young thing and I thought I was hot s***. None of those porn chicks had anything on me. Fast forward to nine years later. Not nearly as cute as I was. Our sex life isn't nearly what it was either. Can't help but wonder if he'd rather be with someone else or if I suck in the sack now. (I tend to think I do but I can't really muster any enthusiasm these days, for various reasons.) I am not BOTHERED by the porn per se, but it does make me somewhat insecure as it's literally ALL OVER THE FLOOR in his room. Scads of DVDs all over the floor. We do watch it during sex sometimes, but I assume lots of it goes on when I'm not there as well. Another thing, last time we watched it, I noticed that several of the girls were obviously drugged out of their skulls and a couple had tears in their eyes. One in particular was being slapped in the face and choked and trying very hard not to cry. This haunted me and was not the least bit arousing. I wonder what happened to this girl (she looked like a friend of mine, also freaky) and how she got to this point and what became of her after. I wonder how many of these women go on to kill themselves or drug themselves to death slowly. Kind of off on a tangent, I know. I'm not talking about the known porn actresses who are on contract and market themselves the way they choose but the randoms that get picked up off the street and make a flick or two because they are so hard up for cash. The whole thing was very depressing and I wonder how anyone can find this sexy. Someone must because they keep making stuff like this, as I've seen it more than a handful of times. The one comforting thing is he buys all Asian porn, supposedly because their bodies most resemble mine so they are surrogates in a sense. Heh. (Yes, I asked him what was up with this and did he have an Asian fetish and that was the answer he gave me. Maybe a lie, but a good one.)

[Shan2k]

THIS.....

 

 

 

EXACTLY!!! THEY DO NOT MIRROR REAL LIVE LOVING, CARING , ADORING, FLAWED, IMPERFECT WOMEN--AND THEY GET PAID TO ACT THAT WAY.

 

 

.PLUS THIS....

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HE HAS SEEN YOU ALREADY, NEW AND DIFFERENT....

 

SO THAT MAKES EVERY WOMAN/S.O. BORING, NEVER EXCITING ENOUGH TO KEEP HIS INTEREST IN HER NUDITY, SEXUALITY AND SENSUALITY-FEMINITY--HER NEWNESS IS OLD AND NO LONGER OF INTRIGUE.

 

AN ANCIENT SAYING;

A MAN IS NOT A GOOD LOVER BECAUSE HE MAKES LOVE TO A NEW WOMAN EVERYNIGHT BUT ONE WHO CAN MAKE LOVE WITH THE SAME WOMAN EVERYNIGHT...

 

AND MAYBE THEY DON'T SAY THAT THEY WISH SHE HAD A HEART SHAPED BUTT BECAUSE IF THEY DID THEY KNOW THEY WOULDN'T GET ANY AT ALL AGAIN!!!!!

 

 

JUST OUT OF HONEST CURIOUSITY; ALTHOUGH MOST OF YOU WOULD PROBABLE SAY IT WOULDN'T BOTHER YOU ( IMO--B ECAUSE YOU HAVEN'T ACTUALLY BEEN EXPOSED TO WHAT I DESCRIBE BELOW--TO REALLY UNDERSTAND THE IDEA OR THE FEELINGS)

 

BUT IF YOU KNEW YOUR GF/SO/WIFE WAS GETTING AROUSED, AND MASTURBATING REGULARLY TO PORN WITH MOSTLY MEN IN IT---GUYS WHO ARE UNREALISTICALLY BUILT--THEY HAVE ENORMOUS CHESTS/PECS; WASHBOARD ABS, MASSIVE MUSCULAR LEGS, TIGHT ASSES, CHISLED CHINS, SEXY HANDS, AND THICK-ALL ROUND HUGELY HUNG AND EVER LASTING ERECTIONS AND ALL-AMERICAN GOOD LOOKS...

 

YOU KNEW SHE WAS GETTING OFF TO THEM ON A REGULAR BASIS, SOMETIMES SHE WOULD BEFORE WORK, OR WHILE YOU WERE AT WORK BEFORE YOU GOT HOME, OR BEFORE SHE WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU....

 

IN ALL HONESTY, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL??? TRUTH? HAVE YOU EVER REALLY EXPERIENCED IT?? HAVE YOU EVER REALLY SEEN REALLY HOT GUYS IN PORN THAT DIDN'T EVEN ONCE MAKE YOU THINK ABOUT YOUR OWN SELF AND YOUR SEXUALITY?

 

WOULD YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR S.O.'S CONCERNS AND DISCOMFORT WITH YOUR PORN WATCHING????

 

WOULD IT MATTER TO YOU IF SHE DID FEEL BAD ABOUT IT?

 

BY THE WAY-I DON'T KNOW ANY WOMAN WHO FANTASIZES ABOUT ANY ROMANCE NOVELS, SOAP OPERAS ETC, INCLUDING MYSELF...THOSE THINGS ARE FOOLISH-GARBAGE FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE NOTHING BETTER IN THEIR LIVES.

 

 

 

 

Man she is mad! I don't even want to read it! I haven't! LOL! The SCORN is ON!!!!

[doiask42much]

Shan2k, What is the point of asking for women's opinions and not reading them? She just wants to know if you would honestly not be offended if your girl was rubbing one out on a regular basis to guys who are way hotter than you and more well endowed. I think it's a legitimate question. Men aren't the only ones who fantasize and masturbate.

[Shan2k]

Wow, you're just a ball of insecurity!! I posted this on another thread...

 

 

Originally Posted by Shan2k

When I watch porn, I imagine my girlfriend doing or staying the things the women in the porn do. Otherwise, I feel guilt.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

When my GF does dress sexy and act out scenes from the porn I watch, I throw a couple of them away! literally!

[Shan2k]

Shan2k, What is the point of asking for women's opinions and not reading them? She just wants to know if you would honestly not be offended if your girl was rubbing one out on a regular basis to guys who are way hotter than you and more well endowed. I think it's a legitimate question. Men aren't the only ones who fantasize and masturbate.

 

That would be insecurity on my behalf. I have enough trust within myself and her to be not jealous of a fantasy guy. I know she doesn't want a man-whore and if she seen a position on the porn that she wanted me to do, I'll do with with no problem!

 

That kinda of turns me on if she's fantasying about a man's private! That let's me know I'm guarantee get some tonight. and trust me, this has happened before!

 

Furthermore, If you're not going to give me any intimacy, I am going to revert back to the way I use to stimulate myself before you entered my life. Why should have twice as much restraint now because you're in it.

 

 

Part of me wanting to have a relationship was for you to help me release some of this restraint. LOL!

[doiask42much]

What if she was more into the guys in the porn than you though? i.e., after she was done spanking it to them she was kinda ho-hum with you? Or possibly spent and not interested in more sex? Men often pull that s*** on women from what I read on these boards. What if you know she's not thrilled with how you look these days and she's looking at guys who don't look anything like you? Young hardbodies and such? With huge dongs? A lot of men I have known are insecure about their size.

[doiask42much]

Also, you can't really trust anyone, I don't think. Look at how many love triangles are on these boards. Women now cheat just as much as men do and it's really easy to find someone to cheat with when you have a vagina. It may suit you to assume such things aren't possible and it probably makes life easier to bear, but it seems a bit naive to me. I've definitely lusted after other guys and even acted upon it.

[Shan2k]

Furthermore, if a good percentage in men didn’t see women as a sexual object, none of us would be here today. Men need to be AROUSED to give reproductive cells; women don’t. Your great personality alone is not going to get a man erect.

 

 

Yes, viewing pornography is considered cheating and a sin, but denying your spouse intimacy is considered a sin as well. If you believe in marriage, which is religion created, then you should know in the Bible it says you are not to deny your spouse of sexual intercourse for it’s a sin. Maybe he’ll stop watching porn if you give him more sex, dress sexy, and fulfill his sexual fantasies. If not, you’re copping out.

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A woman CAN'T just do it on command. Did you take Biology 101? She has to be physically aroused also in order for her body to be prepared to accept the man.

OK so you're so into the Bible. YOU'RE NOT MARRIED, SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE IS A SIN, ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE. SO DON'T GO PREACHING TO PEOPLEK AB OUT THE BIBLE AND SINNING AND STUFF, OK? YOU CAN'T PICK AND CHOOSE A LA CARTE TO YOUR ADVANTAGE WHICH PARTS OF THE BIBLE YOU ARE GOING TO FOLLOW AND PREACH IF YOU ARE BASING YOUR STANCES BASED ON THE BIBLE, WHICH YOU ARE DOING THROUGHOUT THIS THREAD AND OTHERS.

CASE CLOSED. NEXT!

 

 

No offense, but how do females get pregnant who are raped and molested? They're not physically aroused to accept the man... Sorry, I didn't want to take it to that level but what you are saying makes no sense?

 

Half of the women on here, who are complaining about porn, aren't married. I guess he's sinning for watch porn, your sinning for being jealous and wanting to have sex with him; if married, you sinning for denying him sex. (speaking in general). Well... We all sin, We sin when we're born for hurting our mothers. Carnal pleasures, eating pork, sex, fighting, (boxing/UFC) etc., are sins. No one can judge another but GOD.

 

CASE OPENED! WHOSE NEXT?

 

 

A claim down! You're taking this too personal!!

[Shan2k]

Also, you can't really trust anyone, I don't think. Look at how many love triangles are on these boards. Women now cheat just as much as men do and it's really easy to find someone to cheat with when you have a vagina. It may suit you to assume such things aren't possible and it probably makes life easier to bear, but it seems a bit naive to me. I've definitely lusted after other guys and even acted upon it.

 

Well if you go into a relationship with that attitude and insecurties, you don't need to be in one.

[doiask42much]

Maybe I was getting off track from your original post. Your question seems to display a lack of empathy for the fact that not everyone is as secure as you are. MOST women are insecure for various reasons both inherent to our gender and perhaps upbringing. Instead of asking why women freak out about stuff like that, men should concentrate on building their women's self-esteem in general. Women need positive feedback and often. It may sound tedious, but that is how it is for most women other than those who are totally confident. So much emphasis is placed on how we look that we cannot help but feel we are constantly being evaluated and the march of time doesn't help.

[doiask42much]

Au contraire, if I had a good attitude and were totally happy with myself I would be less in need of someone to make me feel loved. Heh. I realize I am more of a basketcase than most people (that's why I came on here). But I wonder, does the TYPE of pornography being watched matter? As I was saying earlier, some of it is really hardcore misogynistic and borderline violent. In your opinion, is a woman entitled to object to stuff like that? I saw one where he put both of his hands roughly into her vagina and she screamed and screamed, obviously not with pleasure. If a guy I was with found stuff like this appealing, I can't say I wouldn't wonder what is wrong with him.

[Shan2k]

What if she was more into the guys in the porn than you though? i.e., after she was done spanking it to them she was kinda ho-hum with you? Or possibly spent and not interested in more sex? Men often pull that s*** on women from what I read on these boards. What if you know she's not thrilled with how you look these days and she's looking at guys who don't look anything like you? Young hardbodies and such? With huge dongs? A lot of men I have known are insecure about their size.

 

I like I stated before. If he's zealously into the porn and extremely fantasizing about being with the females in them, he needs help. If my GF was don't the same thing I would question her!

 

The problem is women are too insecure!! Knowing their man even owns 1 porn that he watches rarely (once or maybe twice a month) floods insecurities through her vines, consuming her because she actually thinks he's thinking the girls in the porn look better than her; and that he wants them... Which is not always the case.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Originally Posted by Shan2k

Furthermore, If you're not going to give me any intimacy, I am going to revert back to the way I use to stimulate myself before you entered my life. Why should have twice as much restraint now because you're in it.

 

 

Part of me wanting to have a relationship was for you to help me release some of this restraint. LOL!

[Shan2k]

Originally Posted by dog lover

Yes, viewing pornography is considered cheating and a sin, but denying your spouse intimacy is considered a sin as well. If you believe in marriage, which is religion created, then you should know in the Bible it says you are not to deny your spouse of sexual intercourse for it’s a sin. Maybe he’ll stop watching porn if you give him more sex, dress sexy, and fulfill his sexual fantasies. If not, you’re copping out.

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A woman CAN'T just do it on command. Did you take Biology 101? She has to be physically aroused also in order for her body to be prepared to accept the man.

OK so you're so into the Bible. YOU'RE NOT MARRIED, SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE IS A SIN, ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE. SO DON'T GO PREACHING TO PEOPLEK AB OUT THE BIBLE AND SINNING AND STUFF, OK? YOU CAN'T PICK AND CHOOSE A LA CARTE TO YOUR ADVANTAGE WHICH PARTS OF THE BIBLE YOU ARE GOING TO FOLLOW AND PREACH IF YOU ARE BASING YOUR STANCES BASED ON THE BIBLE, WHICH YOU ARE DOING THROUGHOUT THIS THREAD AND OTHERS.

CASE CLOSED. NEXT!

 

 

No offense, but how do females get pregnant who are raped and molested? They're not physically aroused to accept the man... Sorry, I didn't want to take it to that level but what you are saying makes no sense?

 

Half of the women on here, who are complaining about porn, aren't married. I guess he's sinning for watch porn, your sinning for being jealous and wanting to have sex with him; if married, you sinning for denying him sex. (speaking in general). Well... We all sin, We sin when we're born for hurting our mothers. Carnal pleasures, eating pork, sex, fighting, (boxing/UFC) etc., are sins. No one can judge another but GOD.

 

CASE OPENED! WHOSE NEXT?

 

 

A claim down! You're taking this too personal!!