passionpeach Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 I guess you already have a bright idea of what I am talking about just by reading the title of this thread. Yes, my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend of five years wants to make friends with me for reasons that I do not quite comprehend. She said that I am a nice person and that she thinks that I can be a very good friend. I know I am and I think we have the same personality but I just feel so awkward about the thought of being friends with her especially that just a few months ago (february), she tried to steal my guy back by offering him lots of wonderful things (she's rich) -- she gave him a laptop, money, inviting him to "accompany" her to different places, etc... What do you guys think? What will you do if you were in my shoes? Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 You know what they say... keep your friends close and your enemies closer. I would be icily polite to her when absolutely necessary, and ignore her all other times. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 Hey there, I don't know your story, but from the limited information posted, I would tread very carefully. She has made attempts to whoo him back before. Now after a few months she may be back again with a new plan. I agree with LB. If your paths should cross then be civil and not much more. I certainly wouldn't invite her into your life, nor allow her to wiggle in through manipulation. Is she friends with your boyfriend? How strong is your relationship with him, can you discuss this with him? I would be uncomfortable with a potential threat lurking around, especially one that just a few months prior made an attempt. Be careful, Unders Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted June 13, 2007 Share Posted June 13, 2007 Likely she will use this friendship as a source of info to get "her man" back. Of course in the end she will make you look like the one who is the bad guy. Tell her straight up you are not interested in being friends with a person that attempted to meddle in your relationship with this guy. A person of that character offers you nothing positive to add to your life. Link to post Share on other sites
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