emotionsmessmeup Posted June 15, 2007 Share Posted June 15, 2007 how does a women give vibes that she is not interested in just sex but in companionship? all my male friends seem to think i give the vibe someone who would just want sex and i would like to chang that. i would like to give vibes that say i want companionship! Link to post Share on other sites
Kwo-ne'-she Posted June 15, 2007 Share Posted June 15, 2007 Some people are just more sensual than others. They give off a vibe that makes men sit up and take notice, even when she isn't trying. Attractiveness? Confidence? A way of interacting that the men view as flirtatious? I'm not sure what it is. Some have it, others don't. I'm not sure it is something that you can change. If you are a "toucher" don't do that. It can give off signals you aren't intending to give. Keep more personal space between you and the man you are talking to. Getting close to them implies a bit of intimacy, that may be misread. Other than that....I really have no idea. Some women just have that effect on men. Link to post Share on other sites
doiask42much Posted June 15, 2007 Share Posted June 15, 2007 Well, where are you hanging out with these men? And are you allowing them to pay when you go out? If they do things for you, do you do things for them in return? A lot of girls I know let men buy them drinks and dinners and perform favors for them without reciprocating. If you were of the same gender, you generally would be more give and take, no? When girls let guys do this, guys see it as her allowing them to court her. Another thing a lot of girls do is give off an ambiguously flirtatious vibe to keep the guy on the hook, because the sad fact is that a lot of men are not really that interested in platonic friendship. They have their guy friends and existing friends. Men are generally less interested in chat for its own sake. If he is new in your life, chances are it's because he is attracted on some level, and if there's no payoff, he's not going to stick around. I bet on some level you know that and probably act in ways to prolong his departure. Link to post Share on other sites
doiask42much Posted June 15, 2007 Share Posted June 15, 2007 Also, are you talking to them about sexually themed subjects? Sometimes even a general discussion of sexual histories, likes, dislikes can be misread as flirtation. Link to post Share on other sites
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