Suspicious about "young" girl's phone number in B/F's cell phone.

[norajane]

i dont get your advice--are you saying you think he is cheating?

 

I dont see how telling him this lady called me is going to help..what if he really doesnt know what i am talking about or he knows her somehow and it was innocent and he didnt want me to get upset.

I dont think that idea would work...i open to others but i dont think this one will work.

 

As I said pages and pages ago, you could call the woman, and be honest with her: tell her you found her number in your bf's cell phone, and you are concerned he might be cheating and would like to know how they know each other.

 

But you really, really, reallly need to address this obsession you have with picking on tiny little things about your bf and jumping to conclusions that he's cheating. There is a reason you keeping doing this, and I have yet to hear why you are so suspicious of him...it's none of my business, but maybe a therapist can help you get to the root of your insecurities and help you get over them so you can ENJOY your bf instead of always being so anxious.

[BlueEyedSarah]

i dont get your advice--are you saying you think he is cheating?

 

I dont see how telling him this lady called me is going to help..what if he really doesnt know what i am talking about or he knows her somehow and it was innocent and he didnt want me to get upset.

I dont think that idea would work...i open to others but i dont think this one will work.

At least you would know the truth so that you wont need to be worrying anymore.

[LakesideDream]

The thread that never dies. Rose, you need to get some mental help. Yes I said it before, it becomes more obvious with each of your posts.

 

It's unbelievable that an adult (which presumably you are) are clutching together like middle schoolers conspiring to "find out" your boyfriend, making crank phone calls and reveling in the drama you are creating.

 

"Tommy" certainly deserves better. You have put his employment in jepordy, and showed a total lack of respect for him as a person.

 

This will never be over for you. Even if by chance you are able to discover "evidence" that Tommy is innocent, you will do this again. Additionally, it will stay in your "book" forever tainting your relationship.

 

It's time to move on.