sungrl Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 I'm a little hurt..but not sure if i should or if i am overreacting...i think i a more attached to my b/f than he is with me..sundays he is usually busy doing random things for family/house..and lately i have been spending some sundays keeping him company and even partaking in order for us to have more time together even if not spent going out or watching tv etc etc. Anyway--i said to my b.f it wouldnt bother you if you didnt see me on sunday and he said," what are you going somewhere? he is saying--its not like i am going anywhere(meaning like moving where he wouldnt see me) so because of that he is fine if we are apart..i kind of took it personally..and said so you are basically saying you are fine seeing me but also fine not seeing me..to me its a bad sign..i would think after 2 years the person would want to see you more or miss you if you didnt see the person basically because at that point you are at a routine of seeing the person(you know what i mean?)..and he says well we need a day apart too..which i said of course we do but dont you miss me? he says not every day we are apart(we see each other about 3-4 nights a week)..i know he doesnt have to miss me every second but to me..it seems he is completely fine if he doesnt see me..whereas it would bother me if i dont see him... isnt this a bad sign after 2 years?? Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted June 18, 2007 Share Posted June 18, 2007 Some people value Quality time others value the Quantity of time spent together. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sungrl Posted June 18, 2007 Author Share Posted June 18, 2007 alot of the times he is falling asleep which can get annoying but if i person tired i guess there is nothing to do..but i cant say the quality of it is always grand.. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedSarah Posted June 18, 2007 Share Posted June 18, 2007 Absence makes the heart grow fonder. When you have not seen your partner for a few days/weeks/months then usually you do start to miss them. If you see each other everyday then you don't really feel that so much as you are around them, there is no need to think about missing their company when you are in their company already. Also yes, I agree with your boyfriend, there should be at least one day or more where you do not see each other so you can both do other diffrent things such as see friends, family, go out, ect. It does not mean he love you any less. Link to post Share on other sites
zilverenvlinder Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 Sweetie, I've read both of your posts, and here's what it sounds like to me... This may sound mean, but it sounds like you're really young and this is one of your first real relationships, right? So this is what you do. Go to the library, and for God's sake, pick up "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." Read it. Link to post Share on other sites
doiask42much Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 Sungrl, maybe he has things he needs to do on Sunday, get his car washed, get his hair did, things of that sort that he doesn't have time for on weekdays, and if you're around, he feels obliged to hang out with you rather than get stuff done? I know I have this feeling sometimes with my bf, and I find I rarely get to do my errands and household chores because of it. Link to post Share on other sites
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