Author Melovator Posted November 22, 2007 Author Share Posted November 22, 2007 Wanna kick something now... X to me: So you're now the proud owner of X amount of shares Baby! Huh????????????????????? When a man dumps your ass for another woman aren't they supposed to want to run off into the sunset with the merry bucketloads of cash? (So they can pay for her botox ) F**KTARD!!!! In unrelated Meloness I am thinking about all the things I want to do before I cark it. I wanna run in a marathon I decided. Link to post Share on other sites
T L Posted November 22, 2007 Share Posted November 22, 2007 Wanna kick something now... X to me: So you're now the proud owner of X amount of shares Baby! Huh????????????????????? When a man dumps your ass for another woman aren't they supposed to want to run off into the sunset with the merry bucketloads of cash? (So they can pay for her botox ) F**KTARD!!!! In unrelated Meloness I am thinking about all the things I want to do before I cark it. I wanna run in a marathon I decided. Running a marathon sounds like a good goal. Not sure if my knees would thank me for doing that myself . I am thinking of getting back in to training for some cycle races though. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Melovator Posted January 9, 2008 Author Share Posted January 9, 2008 X is still a f**ktard- decided to tell me on the weekend that he was going on holiday tomorrow he said "He didn't tell me because he didn't want to upset me over Christmas" I told him that kind of presumes he's still king of my universe, which he wasn't , and that he should go and consult the dictionary for the meaning of the word "RESPECT". He's a self-obsessed idiot. His stuff is still in the damn shed, we had this whole big drama with him pulling out every single tool of emotional manipulation he had. The high point was "Well if I have to get a storage unit for my stuff we're selling the block." To which my reply was "Fine I'll call a Real Estate Agent first thing and sell the whole house if that's what it takes to get your **** out of my home." He was all "You won't be able to afford as nice a place." to which I replied "I don't care, I'd rather live in a **** hole than live with your stuff." I was accused of being petty, vengeful, immature, illogical all because I put my bloody foot down and said "NO you're sh*t is not staying here!" In the end I solved the problem by organising a swap of storage space with his parents- his mother understood said she'd told him months ago to get his stuff out because it was disrespectful. So no big dramas now, part of me sometimes think it would be really nice if he got hit by a bus just so I'd never have to deal with him again, but then my son would miss him, and I'd really feel guilty if something like that did happen... So I TRIED celibacy.... but there's this drink called beer... and these places called pubs... so I picked up a 25 yr old brickies labourer (I thought he was older- all that sun!), he was crap, I was excellent so the whole thing was mediocre, but I realised I really could do just sex and that's it's alright. And so I've got myself a f**k buddy- 50 year old with a fantastic body (guy works out!), who has studied massage for twenty years, he's here working- all his ties are interstate, he doesn't want kids or relationship- just a semi regular root- which is prefect because right now that's all I really want. Though he works odd hours so catching up is difficult- though that's probably a good thing too. I'm thinking I'll just concentrate on all the areas of my life other than a relationship for the moment, seems the sensible thing to do. ANyway that's how I am in case anyone was even vaguely interested. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Melovator Posted January 12, 2008 Author Share Posted January 12, 2008 X's sh*t is now off the property! (except business related items which I deemed okay because the business pays my mortgage!) But all X's personal items are gone, books, comics, clothes, a thousand electrical cords, childhood toys etc etc. At last! Yes I did cry, but partly from relief. His sh*t is gone - he ain't coming back! I feel good about it. My two best friends are organising my "Freedom Housewarming Party." New Year's was a total bust because of 41C heat- everyone stayed at home under their air conditioners- pikers! And I've got quite a few friends of various backgrounds who can do cleansings, smudgings, smoke cermonies, bell ringing, psychic clearing- they're all coming over to give my property the once over! Feeling Free! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted January 13, 2008 Share Posted January 13, 2008 This is great! If there's anything you feel like burning, do it! Remove all energy of the ex OUT of the house! Have a fun time with your friends. You deserve it. Link to post Share on other sites
Gunny376 Posted January 13, 2008 Share Posted January 13, 2008 You should dance through the house, swirling and twirlling while singing (To the tune of the "Wicked Witch Is Dead" song from the "Wizard of Oz") "Ding-dong ~ the Hex is gone! "The Wicked Ex-Hex is gone!" People frequently come to LS and ask, "How do I get through this? How do I overcome this?" The answer? Its different to and for each and every single person? But, generally its one day at a time, and through small and otherwise insignificant mildstones such as this? Its called: "Getting a Life, Moving on with your Life, and Falling back into your Life." Link to post Share on other sites
Author Melovator Posted February 12, 2008 Author Share Posted February 12, 2008 So I should probably stick this under dating or something but I'm working on the theory that this is all part and parcel of the getting over the ex. Okay so I had a date on friday night... too much wine and off go Melo's knickers . It was great, best I've ever had, mindblowing... in fact we literally broke my bed (I fixed it myself the next day) only now he seems a lot more interested in me than I am in him and I'm kind of freaking out about it, I mean I like him (wouldn't have slept with him otherwise at least I hope I wouldn't have...), he's nice but he's coming on a bit too strong and never had to deal with this kind of thing EVER I have no idea what to do:confused::confused:. Any thoughts please???? Link to post Share on other sites
Missy27 Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 So I should probably stick this under dating or something but I'm working on the theory that this is all part and parcel of the getting over the ex. Okay so I had a date on friday night... too much wine and off go Melo's knickers . It was great, best I've ever had, mindblowing... in fact we literally broke my bed (I fixed it myself the next day) only now he seems a lot more interested in me than I am in him and I'm kind of freaking out about it, I mean I like him (wouldn't have slept with him otherwise at least I hope I wouldn't have...), he's nice but he's coming on a bit too strong and never had to deal with this kind of thing EVER I have no idea what to do:confused::confused:. Any thoughts please???? :lmao::laugh: I always look forward to your posts Mel ~ more oftenly than not you give me a laugh ! As for your "date :laugh:" ~ I shouldn't worry about bonking him ~ we all gotta live dangerously now and then ~ AND ~ if it was the best sex you've ever had then ~ well ~ bravo lady ~ I applaud your promiscuity ~ And I suppose how you deal with his now enthusiastic advances depends on whether you want a repeat session or not ~ :bunny: Good for you Mel ~ you sound like you're startin' over again. (Side note ~ You REALLY broke the bed ~ ?? !!! ) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Melovator Posted February 12, 2008 Author Share Posted February 12, 2008 :lmao::laugh: I always look forward to your posts Mel ~ more oftenly than not you give me a laugh ! As for your "date :laugh:" ~ I shouldn't worry about bonking him ~ we all gotta live dangerously now and then ~ AND ~ if it was the best sex you've ever had then ~ well ~ bravo lady ~ I applaud your promiscuity ~ And I suppose how you deal with his now enthusiastic advances depends on whether you want a repeat session or not ~ :bunny: Good for you Mel ~ you sound like you're startin' over again. (Side note ~ You REALLY broke the bed ~ ?? !!! ) I love your posts too Missy:love: I'm always like "Geez I wish I was that together..." getting there... Yes we REALLY REALLY broke the bed! :D He was quite embarrassed by it but I thought it was a laugh!:lmao: So I talked to him last night and basically I said I was going through a post- Clayton's Divorce (the divorce you're having when you didn't get married!) slut phase and would really just like to have his body whenever we both have some free time and that I was really too busy for anything more than that (back at uni in two weeks!). Said to him I was nowhere near over my ex which is the truth. I still have a ways to go before I'm ready for relationship. I'm not sure I'd want a relationship with this guy beyond sex anyway. He's smart but not intellectual... I like intellectual men... and he's nice but a bit insecure, and I like men with healthy well-earned egos. He smells really nice though! He was quite alright with that- getting over his own nasty divorce. Might see him again on the weekend.... I feel like I'm just starting, not starting over, I spent my whole adult life with my ex and I actually don't look that bad for 32- amazing what losing a lot of weight does! I don't want to jump straight back into another relationship, I don't need to be in one to feel good about myself and I certainly don't need a man to take care of me (Can fix my own bed thanks!:lmao:) Link to post Share on other sites
sumdude Posted February 13, 2008 Share Posted February 13, 2008 Put a smile on my face .... sometime ya just gotta say what the he** Mel.. Have your fun.. keep it real. Which it sounds like you're doing. Really... FWB relationship with another divorcee why not? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Melovator Posted March 25, 2008 Author Share Posted March 25, 2008 Maybe this should go on 'dating' but I thought you'd all at least be amused by my current antics. I am still renovating the house, have started my master's degree (brain is not impressed with the thinking hard at the moment its a bit rusty), am doing well at work and have been dating... hmmm how to begin... am dating three guys at once:o:confused:... all three know I am dating other people... I do not lie to them about that. I also maintain strict rules about when I do it and rule number one is: no blokes in the house when my son is home- simple as. All seem to understand and respect that and I've buggered off other guys who didn't understand that- besides what kind of idiot thinks I'm going to let him in my home near my child when I barely know him?!. I have some sense of propriety, though god knows what my happily married for 58 years neighbours across the road think! :lmao:! Okay so my ardour for No 1 has cooled somewhat from the last time I was here. But I've been busy;)! Alright number 2 has a geeky Gen X slacker look and my god the man rocks!! So naughty! And Number3 is totally, totally sweet and nice. Both numbers 2 and 3 are computer nerds oddly enough but then I guess a lot of guys who like the 'stuff' I like are nerds. Number 3 doesn't read much but Number 2 owns books that I thought I was the only person on the planet who had read them and told me he knew he wanted to meet me when I used big words in emails because it meant I wasn't a dumbass! Number 2 is much cooler about communication, Number 3 feels like an eager puppy dog that right this minute I don't know if I want to pat ever again for fear he will follow me home. I like him but I feel he's getting way too carried away- invitations to dinner for his birthday in a few weeks, aughh! It's freaking me out! He's so NICE! But its like he's looking at me and mentally dressing me in bridalwear . I've only had a few dates with this guy... Yes, yes, laugh at my dumbass! But some clue of what to do? Celibacy is not considered a viable option. Link to post Share on other sites
john30 Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 Wow, WTG Mel! Can I be number 4 please? Link to post Share on other sites
Gunny376 Posted March 26, 2008 Share Posted March 26, 2008 Actually Mel, dating a lot of different people is probally one of the best and quickest ways to get over an EXHEX! "As soon as I kiss the lips of another,.................I'll forget all about you!" I said date? LOL! And working your Masters? Another excellent move! Doesn't give the old brain housing group to say ~ "but,..........what,..........wait? What about? Link to post Share on other sites
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