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Darth Vader
What a drama queen!!! (or king) See... I don't believe in Eternity...and if there is a God and all the tralala... I think (if I'm not mistaken) that he ALWAYS forgive... doesn't He? I was a 'saint' a hard-core catholic when I was younger... now 'religions' without much exceptions... revolt me.. just a bunch of hypocrits... and I don't believe in karma.

 

And the 'wife killing me' comment... I think you need to watch more chick flicks or porn... I think you watch too much of the 'Chainsaw Massacre' type.. LOL

 

And for your information, I DO take care of myself... and very well... thank you.

 

 

Like I said, you may not believe, but it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. As far as God forgiving, yes, but it doesn't mean a person/s can live in sin, if a person lives in sin and dies therein, they're lost forever. And the wife killing you comment I spoke of, It's a fact that it happens, do you really want to die like that? Never say that it can't happen to you, because it can. As far as you taking care of yourself, apparently you're not, if you're not even concerned about your life possibly being in danger. As you know, there are crazy OW/OM out there, there are also crazy BH/BW's out there who will stop at nothing to harm you. Go ahead, check out the forums about them, it's kinda crazy.

 

As far as me being a drama queen (or king), flattery will get you nowhere!:p

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Lizzie, Maybe you have me on ignore... not sure.

 

I think for me and others on this forum(can't speak for everyone)

 

have a hard time digesting your way of life, not saying it is right or wrong, but most OW are not sleeping with multiple men and calling herself the OW

 

I think that in your instance you should put yourself in a whole different category.

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Lizzie, Maybe you have me on ignore... not sure.

 

I think for me and others on this forum(can't speak for everyone)

 

have a hard time digesting your way of life, not saying it is right or wrong, but most OW are not sleeping with multiple men and calling herself the OW

 

I think that in your instance you should put yourself in a whole different category.

 

nope you're not on 'ignore' LOL

 

I think for me and others on this forum(can't speak for everyone)

have a hard time digesting your way of life

 

Well...I'm verrry sorry but this is not MY problem... if you have such a hard time 'digesting' my way of life...simply skip my posts... simple...

 

I think that in your instance you should put yourself in a whole different category.

 

I don't think so... For you information I am an OW... i can't see why I should be in a whole different category... it doesn't make sense.

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I'm verrry sorry but this is not MY problem... if you have such a hard time 'digesting' my way of life...simply skip my posts... simple...

 

I think that in your instance you should put yourself in a whole different category.

 

I don't think so... For you information I am an OW... i can't see why I should be in a whole different category... it doesn't make sense.

 

If people don't like your posts, you're right, they should just put you on ignore...However, I don't think that you'd like that, because you seem to like causing controversy...;)

 

And you know why someone would suggest that you be put in another category even though you protest the sense in it, because you don't love the "multiple" MM that you sleep with...And of all the OW here, you're the only one who doesn't, I think...

 

I find your posts are full of cliche's that people consider true of the OW...I think the rest of the forum realizes that the majority of OW are not like you...

 

And if you're happy, well that's all that matters...Right?

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I don't give a hoot whether they put me on 'ignore' or not... Firstly I wouldn't know... so... it wouldn't bother me... right?

 

I don't post to provoke... I post what I think, what I feel... what I live... just like everyone else on these forums...

 

I'm sure not ALL OW are head over heels in love with their MM...

 

I know I'm not.. and I really don't see what's the big deal of not being deeply in love with the MM... to each our own.

 

Yes, you're right about your last comment... I am happy... :bunny:

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Ok you are happy that is great..

 

However for you it is just sex, there is no intamacy involved and how can it be a relationship without the intamacy, to me you are more of a sexual therapist/confidant then a OW per say.

 

Plus you have several if I am not misaken 4 plus MM that you are servicing.

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Ok you are happy that is great..

 

However for you it is just sex, there is no intamacy involved and how can it be a relationship without the intamacy, to me you are more of a sexual therapist/confidant then a OW per say.

 

Plus you have several if I am not misaken 4 plus MM that you are servicing.

 

there is intimacy...but no love... there's a difference... IMO...you can be intimate without being 'in love'... I love all my MMs but I'm not 'in love' with any of them. There is a distinction IMO.

 

Yes I have many...but I will not disclose the amount...

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I post what I think, what I feel...

 

... just like everyone else on these forums...

 

I don't think you're capable of either UNLIKE almost everyone on these forums.

 

Nice new, provocative avatar. In your dreams!

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Yes I have many...but I will not disclose the amount...

 

Which amount. The number of MM or the amount they have to pay for your "favors?"

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Which amount. The number of MM or the amount they have to pay for your "favors?"

 

I've been asking myself this question about you: why don't you put me on 'ignore'...

 

I don't know what it is, with you, but you seem to be constantly trolling me... for some reason..

 

you seem to be obsessed with me... get a life ... because from what I can see here... you say you're married...ha-hem.. and living on the Net... wow... you are obsessing about me... but what about your wife all this time... I feel for her.

 

weird... weird

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im wondering where lizzie finds time for the multitude of married men she services in between posting

 

maybe it's all just a fantasy .. like her avatars

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I live alone, no children... nothing so I do have a lot of time.... plus my MMs don't spend the night here... in fact, they don't spend a lot of time with me... and that's the way I like it.

 

The most they spend is sometimes 3-4 hours... and that's quite unusual.

 

I can surf from work...all day when I'm not busy... which is most of the time...LOL

 

At least, I don't have a spouse that I neglect because of the Net.. do I?

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Havn_a_life
I don't give a hoot whether they put me on 'ignore' or not... Firstly I wouldn't know... so... it wouldn't bother me... right?

 

I don't post to provoke... I post what I think, what I feel... what I live... just like everyone else on these forums...

 

I'm sure not ALL OW are head over heels in love with their MM...

 

I know I'm not.. and I really don't see what's the big deal of not being deeply in love with the MM... to each our own.

 

Yes, you're right about your last comment... I am happy... :bunny:

 

Here's what I think:

 

delusions of grandeur

nouna delusion (common in paranoia) that you are much greater and more powerful and influential than you really are :rolleyes:

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you probably couldn't get a husband or anyone to put up with you for any length of time... so sleeping with x amount of womens' husbands, thereby helping ruin x amount of marriages, may compensate for your emptiness at not finding anyone who truly wanted you.

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there is intimacy...but no love... there's a difference... IMO...you can be intimate without being 'in love'... I love all my MMs but I'm not 'in love' with any of them. There is a distinction IMO.

 

Yes I have many...but I will not disclose the amount...

 

 

But you contradicted yourself Lizzie... you said there is intamacy but but no love but that you said that you can be intimate without being inlove

 

I think that is a scary thing for a person to do... lonely and empty

 

In my opinion what you are doing because of the number of different men no longer classifies this as a OW...MM relationship

 

Please stop fooling yourself

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I've been asking myself this question about you: why don't you put me on 'ignore'...

 

I don't know what it is, with you, but you seem to be constantly trolling me... for some reason..

 

you seem to be obsessed with me... get a life ... because from what I can see here... you say you're married...ha-hem.. and living on the Net... wow... you are obsessing about me... but what about your wife all this time... I feel for her.

 

weird... weird

 

Actually, Lizzie, my wife is right here five feet away studying for a state certification examination and we are constantly talking with one another. The only thing weird around here is you. Be assured, there's no obsessing. You're not all that much.

 

I doubt you can "feel" for anyone but yourself.

 

Is LittleLady your pregnant daughter? She's obviously cut from the same cloth.

 

I'm a former betrayed husband so creatures such as you deserve to be exposed, debunked and labeled for what they are. "Escort" is merely a euphemism for "call girl." How admirable! A true throw-away!

 

Why are you constantly posting your twisted perceptions on marriage-related boards? Is it because it's something you've never been able to achieve because no one ever wished to commit to the likes of you? Ha hem indeed! Talk about obsessing. You persist in commenting on something about which you haven't a clue.

 

In my former profession of law enforcement I ran across and arrested many like you but if it makes you feel any better, you take the cake in terms of being emotionally defective. Some of them I could respect. You? Never!

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Havn_a_life
But you contradicted yourself Lizzie... you said there is intamacy but but no love but that you said that you can be intimate without being inlove

 

I think that is a scary thing for a person to do... lonely and empty

 

In my opinion what you are doing because of the number of different men no longer classifies this as a OW...MM relationship

 

Please stop fooling yourself

 

I stopped classifying it as OW/MM when she stated she had several MMs and they paid her for her services. I'll be nice and not say what I call it. :laugh:

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I'll be nice and not say what I call it. :laugh:

 

Ah, go ahead. I certainly have. ;)

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Havn_a_life
Actually, Lizzie, my wife is right here five feet away studying for a state certification examination and we are constantly talking with one another. The only thing weird around here is you. Be assured, there's no obsessing. You're not all that much.

 

I doubt you can "feel" for anyone but yourself.

 

Is LittleLady your pregnant daughter? She's obviously cut from the same cloth.

 

I'm a former betrayed husband so creatures such as you deserve to be exposed, debunked and labeled for what they are. "Escort" is merely a euphemism for "call girl." How admirable! A true throw-away!

 

Why are you constantly posting your twisted perceptions on marriage-related boards? Is it because it's something you've never been able to achieve because no one ever wished to commit to the likes of you? Ha hem indeed! Talk about obsessing. You persist in commenting on something about which you haven't a clue.

 

In my former profession of law enforcement I ran across and arrested many like you but if it makes you feel any better, you take the cake in terms of being emotionally defective. Some of them I could respect. You? Never!

 

I'm wondering if she shouts about her relationships on the rooftops? She seems very proud of herslef and her lifestyle on an anonymous board, but were she to go out in public and tell all anyone who'd listen? :confused:

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I'm wondering if she shouts about her relationships on the rooftops? She seems very proud of herslef and her lifestyle on an anonymous board, but were she to go out in public and tell all anyone who'd listen? :confused:

 

I wonder if she brags about it to her children (poor things)!

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Havn_a_life
Ah, go ahead. I certainly have. ;)

 

I don't know if the rules would allow it. I might get kicked off. LOL

 

Besides, she knows deep down what she really is. ;)

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Havn_a_life
I wonder if she brags about it to her children (poor things)!

 

I believe one of her previous posts states her daughter is pregnant and has the same beliefs about M, etc as she does, so obviously the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

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I believe one of her previous posts states her daughter is pregnant and has the same beliefs about M, etc as she does, so obviously the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

 

Pity! Creatures such as them should not be permitted to spawn.

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Havn_a_life
Pity! Creatures such as them should not be permitted to spawn.

 

That's where sterilization is most needed and poorly used. ;)

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That's where sterilization is most needed and poorly used. ;)

 

They're both walking advertisements for it being mandatory for some.

 

Oops! I said, "walking." I meant "lying down."

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