How did it happen?

[confused2007]

I was born a week (maybe 2?) ago on this site, and couldn't help myself from spending hours upon hours reading within all these wonderful resources LS has to offer. I really value all the wonderful opinions and advice.

 

So to my question. I'm 24 graduating college in December, and still living at home, unfortunately. Although, I have moved out for a few months. Anyway, I have so many unfulfilled questions about myself. I have found myself pondering the deep core of "who i am." I can't seem to find myself. It seems I'm not really passionate about anything. I can't find anything that truly makes me happy. Maybe depression? Maybe low self-esteem? Do I think too much? I don't know. Does everyone go through this?

 

For the people who have "found themselves," what the hell does that even mean? How did it happen?

[curiousnycgirl]

I'm 42, been living on my own since I was 19 and am considered to be quite successful at what I do - and I'm still trying to find myself - LOL.

 

Just keep living your life and it will come. Don't overthink it.

[whichwayisup]

I was born a week (maybe 2?) ago on this site

 

 

This is the best line ever! I love it! Born xx ago on this site...Cool!

 

Confused, everyone goes through what you're going through now. It kind of comes in waves...

 

First off, living at home is no big deal. Look at the positive - You're saving money! (And let's hope your parents are letting you live your life, in the sense that you don't need their permission to come and go...)

 

Second of all, it IS scary starting out life after finishing college! Part of it is fear of failure, and the other part is definately self confidence, but you can do this! BE excited, not scared of it all! Take chances and if it doesn't work out, big deal!! You'll learn and grow from these ups and downs.

 

As for finding yourself? Put yourself FIRST. Don't be afraid to speak your mind, don't let people intimidate you, try your best to let things just roll on by because people will do and think as they please, so if you have worries that others will judge you or think negatively, who cares?? WHat counts is what you feel and think. You can't control what everyone else thinks.

 

Be happy and take one day at a time. Find out what your passions are! Try new things, and if you think you drink too much, cut it down or just stop. Take up yoga, do exercise like walking daily and eat healthier. All the little things you do daily that make YOU feel good will improve your overall self image and help you feel more confident as well.