Strange feelings about wife's work colleagues strange behavior. What do you think?

[Deanster]

Glad to hear things have been smoother - good luck!

[InvisibleTouch]

This is one odd thread! Seems to have gone from something to nothing!

 

 

Great!

[Deanster]

Yep, it's strange.

 

I'm an understanding fellow, and I'm at the point in my marriage where anyone who wants to put a smile on my wife's face is more than welcome. I'll watch the kids (his too, for that matter), and buy him a beer afterwards, if he sends her home happy.

 

But still, I think I'd be upset by some of the behavior described above...

[Kenyth]

Want my opinion? It's simple. She's cheating on you, or has in the recent past. Probably still is. It's probably someone at work, probably the boss. The lack of traceable communication evidence means she doesn't need it. It's someone close.

 

Your best bet is to confront the women who know something bluntly and confidently. My feelings are they will spill the beans. They'll know who it is. They may even know some of the places they meet. If they are too terrified to say anything, you can bet it's the boss.

 

You can also offer a monetary incentive to someone who works there for information that leads to something. There's plenty of people under the radar that see things who need a little extra. Cleaning people, watchmen, security, disgruntled employees, etc. Try and analyze a pattern. Call her at work a couple times a day. See if she's missing in action on a regular basis or with a certain pattern. Take some time off work and stake her out with a rental or borrowed car. Use the GPS tracking and recording devices that can be hidden in so many places. NOTHING makes a point like showing up at the place the two meet up while they are there.