Kyle323 Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 I got in touch with an ex I haven't seen her for about two years. In the last month since we gotten back in touch we talked a couple of times. I still have a flame for her and I would like to get back with her, so I suggested that we meet up for lunch which she agreed to. We're both invovled in relationships so this was just to be a friendly meet, see how we look now, nothing more. We meet up for lunch and she looked absolutely gorgeous! We had a slow talk at first but after five minutes it was good. She asked why I contacted ger after two years and I just said it seemed to be the right thing to do which for some reason seemed to impress her. Then she surprised me about asking about our past relationship, saying she thought we would've done better. I told her it was my fault. Then she said something that still doesn't make any sense, "I'll always wonder how it would've been with you" What does that mean? She's not married or engaged so it's not like we can't get back together in the future. Then we talked on some less serious issues and I thought it was going well. We go out to leave, say our good bye greetings, she gives me a hug, then as we break I looked into her eyes and the next thing I know we're kissing like crazy at the entrance of the resturant. Then she heads to her car saying she can't handle this now. I tried calling her but she didn't answer my call. It's been four days now, I think I'll just let her call me on her own time. If she calls me back should I say I'm sorry? What can I do is this circumstance? thanks Kyle Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 She met with you to get her closure.. She got it by sitting and eating lunch with you.. that is what she meant with her comment.. Don't contact her again.. if you are both in relationships then it isn't fair to the people you are bith dating.. Personally I don't think you will hear from her again.. You contacted her.. she didn't contact you Link to post Share on other sites
Living_For_Me Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 I agree with Art Critic As hard as it is i wouldn't try to read too much in to the kiss. Yes you had something special in the past, however if she hasn't contacted i would try as hard as possible to forget the whole thing (easier said than done i know) but the onus is now on her to make the next move. If she doesn't well, you can't do much about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Pixie-Minx Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 yup sounds like she was curious and needed clousure. same thing happened tome with my first love, he is now engaged but he came after me, and now have not heard from him since... but i dont mind, the chemistry will always be there but its set in the past now. x Link to post Share on other sites
McFadden Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 I don't think it sounds like there was closure. She's into you. I have no idea what you should do about it though. Link to post Share on other sites
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