Singy Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 Hi there I broke up with my bfriend after dating almost 2 years.. He broke it off saying that he was too stressed with marital issues and he did not want commitment. It has been 7 months. He tells his friends we still love each other. We met twice in February nothing happened. We keep in touch on msn talking casually. We have a lot of respect for each other...Out of the blue he asked me out 2 days ago to have dinner with him and his mom as it was her birthday. I went. We had a good time, laughed a lot. His mom loves me a lot. I know he loves me too. I am not pressuring him at all about anything. I am waiting to hear from him again hopefully to go out again... Do you think it is possible to win him back? What must I do? How must I act around him? or on the msn? I am 36 he is 40. By the way he and I have been talking on msn for the past week.. I sort moved on and he knows it. I am not seeing anyone...I keep my mystery and never try and make him jealous... Link to post Share on other sites
Pixie-Minx Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 you say u have sort of moved on? in what way? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Singy Posted June 22, 2007 Author Share Posted June 22, 2007 you say u have sort of moved on? in what way? Meaning I go out, I have my own plans... And the other day I asked him to help me find a tutor for sailing as I went sailing with friends...I think it sort of hit him. He does not know with who. He helped me a lot. He is saying now if I have any questions I should contact him...Hell I even had a boyfriend for 3 months.. He will never know about it. I wont try and make him jealous. But I love him miss him want him back.. Link to post Share on other sites
VIP Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 I think he will be back in no time if you made him feel jealous. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 I think you're doing exactly the right thing by being independant and confident and strong. In fact, this is the best approach to have any man. Do you think it is possible to win him back? It's not guaranteed, but you're putting all the chances on your side. What must I do? Exactly what you're doing right now... don't wait for him... be independant, and if he asks you out and you already have plans...don't change them. How must I act around him? or on the msn? I am 36 he is 40. Be yourself.. why would you change? but don't let your 'secret' out...LOL By the way he and I have been talking on msn for the past week.. I sort moved on and he knows it. I am not seeing anyone...I keep my mystery and never try and make him jealous... You go girl! Keep up the good attitude! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Singy Posted June 26, 2007 Author Share Posted June 26, 2007 Hi , well we bumped into each other on Friday he was all flirty but nothing else... O saturday afternoon he sent me a message on msn asking me why I left early the previous night..I said I was tired.. That was the last I heard from him. We are both on line on msn but I will not start any conversation until he does... Wonder what is going on in his mind???????????? I love him too much... I keep thinking all positively... I think you're doing exactly the right thing by being independant and confident and strong. In fact, this is the best approach to have any man. Do you think it is possible to win him back? It's not guaranteed, but you're putting all the chances on your side. What must I do? Exactly what you're doing right now... don't wait for him... be independant, and if he asks you out and you already have plans...don't change them. How must I act around him? or on the msn? I am 36 he is 40. Be yourself.. why would you change? but don't let your 'secret' out...LOL By the way he and I have been talking on msn for the past week.. I sort moved on and he knows it. I am not seeing anyone...I keep my mystery and never try and make him jealous... You go girl! Keep up the good attitude! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Singy Posted June 26, 2007 Author Share Posted June 26, 2007 Hi , well we bumped into each other on Friday he was all flirty but nothing else... O saturday afternoon he sent me a message on msn asking me why I left early the previous night..I said I was tired..Then we talked briefly about this and that - nothing much important!!! That was the last I heard from him. We are both on line on msn but I will not start any conversation until he does... Wonder what is going on in his mind???????????? I love him too much... I keep thinking all positively... By the way, I asked him for a favour last week, I asked him to find me a good cheap instructor for sailing (he does sailing a lot) he worked his a.. off to get me the right guy... I took lessons last night.. I am still not saying anything about it to him - not until he initiates a conversation first!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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