Author Touche Posted June 25, 2007 Author Share Posted June 25, 2007 Actually, no. Neither one of you got it right. What pains me to say is that when I reveal the answer, one of you won't like what I have to say. Link to post Share on other sites
Storyrider Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Go for it, Touche. One of us is a bit of a masochist, and the other finds you very attractive, so either of us can take it. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 I'm just curious about this: 1. What was your last argument about? How to properly hang the 2 last cabinet doors I was in the middle of putting on in our new home office wall units we built. 2. When was it? Last night approx 11pm 3. How long did it last? 5 minutes 4. How was it resolved (if it was resolved.) By me stating "I am not a retard and this is not the first time I have done this, please quit looking over my shoulder...... go do something else" (still irritated as this is habitual for him to do this) BTW doors are just fine...... look great...... and no problems with my installation work. EVER. Link to post Share on other sites
dbtmarley Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 For the next 3 months I am forced to concede and let her win all arguements.. She's pregnant. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Very interesting, really! Anyone see a pattern here? So who has a guess as to the pattern here? Women don't like being told what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Aloros Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 I'm just curious about this: 1. What was your last argument about? 2. When was it? 3. How long did it last? 4. How was it resolved (if it was resolved.) 1. He was in a down-and-out mood, I tried to cheer him up, he gave me a little attitude, and I got pissed off and lost all understanding. 2. Couple weeks ago? 3. Ten minutes. 4. We agreed we were just having a fight, apologized, told one another "I love you" and moved on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Touche Posted June 25, 2007 Author Share Posted June 25, 2007 ha ha, story and a4a. You guys are funny with your answers. I'm not ready to reveal the pattern. Thanks everyone for your answers. I'd love to see some more. (Oh and by the way, it's ok to go a little off-topic on my thread. I won't consider it rude.) Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Ah, the blessing has come down from the OP: 1. We don't argue. The rest is driven by the first response. I'm just curious about this: 1. What was your last argument about? 2. When was it? 3. How long did it last? 4. How was it resolved (if it was resolved.) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Touche Posted June 25, 2007 Author Share Posted June 25, 2007 Ah, the blessing has come down from the OP: 1. We don't argue. The rest is driven by the first response. Oh be quiet you! You don't count. You only know each other for like two minutes! ha ha! Come back to me in about a month. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Oh be quiet you! You don't count. You only know each other for like two minutes! ha ha! Come back to me in about a month. Hence this emoticon. As if that was the truth. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 I'm just curious about this: 1. What was your last argument about? 2. When was it? 3. How long did it last? 4. How was it resolved (if it was resolved.) Mine is so stupid 1. ME and my bf are really indecisive about where/what to eat, especially when we're hungry. We're both also a bit grouchy when we're hungry. After running errands all day we were starving and exhausted. Since he payed for much of the errands I was going to take him out to a nice lunch, anywhere he wanted. I was driving and ask him where he wanted to go he said he didn't know. So I'm like "well which direction should I drive" He says he really didn't know and that I could pick, he was fine with anything. So I have no idea where to go and we're sitting in the car, in the parking lot pretty much going "Will you just please decide" "I don't know, just pick somewhere already" It wasn't anything big but we were both pretty annoyed. 2. A week ago 3. like 30 minutes 4. I just kept naming places till he picked one, we went, filled out bellies, grouchyness went away. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Touche Posted June 25, 2007 Author Share Posted June 25, 2007 Hence this emoticon. As if that was the truth. Oh so you've already had your first fight? Tell us about it! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Touche Posted June 25, 2007 Author Share Posted June 25, 2007 Mine is so stupid 1. ME and my bf are really indecisive about where/what to eat, especially when we're hungry. We're both also a bit grouchy when we're hungry. After running errands all day we were starving and exhausted. Since he payed for much of the errands I was going to take him out to a nice lunch, anywhere he wanted. I was driving and ask him where he wanted to go he said he didn't know. So I'm like "well which direction should I drive" He says he really didn't know and that I could pick, he was fine with anything. So I have no idea where to go and we're sitting in the car, in the parking lot pretty much going "Will you just please decide" "I don't know, just pick somewhere already" It wasn't anything big but we were both pretty annoyed. 2. A week ago 3. like 30 minutes 4. I just kept naming places till he picked one, we went, filled out bellies, grouchyness went away. ha ha! We have that same stupid argument too. What's funny is that sometimes the one who says they don't care shoots down the other one's suggestion, when they finally make one! That's pretty bad. So then we argue about that. "I thought you said anywhere and that you didn't care." And the other one will say "Well, anywhere but THERE. Pick someplace else." And on and on it can go! It's kind of funny actually. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 1. What was your last argument about? 2. When was it? 3. How long did it last? 4. How was it resolved (if it was resolved.) Haven't had one yet.. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 ha ha! We have that same stupid argument too. What's funny is that sometimes the one who says they don't care shoots down the other one's suggestion, when they finally make one! That's pretty bad. So then we argue about that. "I thought you said anywhere and that you didn't care." And the other one will say "Well, anywhere but THERE. Pick someplace else." And on and on it can go! It's kind of funny actually. Yes! That happened too I was listing things and he was shooting some down when he claimed he "didn't really care" I'm guilty of doing that in the past as well. It's like "well I said anywhere but you keep mentioning places I'm not in the mod for!" Link to post Share on other sites
Author Touche Posted June 25, 2007 Author Share Posted June 25, 2007 Yes! That happened too I was listing things and he was shooting some down when he claimed he "didn't really care" I'm guilty of doing that in the past as well. It's like "well I said anywhere but you keep mentioning places I'm not in the mod for!" I'm laughing! That's just like us too. That must be like THE universal think couples fight about. And yes, I'm quite guilty of shooting down his suggestions too after I've claimed that I REALLY don't care where we go! And AC, how long have you two been going out? I can't remember when H and I had our first fight. Too long ago to remeber now. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 And AC, how long have you two been going out? I can't remember when H and I had our first fight. Too long ago to remeber now. A little over 9 months.. I'm sure we will have a few .. We are both hard headed... When I was married the first argument didn't happen until almost 2 years into the marriage..they started after I put my foot down over money There isn't a power battle in the relationship with my GF right now.. now maybe if we get married.. then.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Touche Posted June 25, 2007 Author Share Posted June 25, 2007 A little over 9 months.. I'm sure we will have a few .. We are both hard headed... When I was married the first argument didn't happen until almost 2 years into the marriage.. There isn't a power battle in our relationship right now.. now maybe if we get married.. then.... Well, if you agree on most things then the fact that you're both hard headed shouldn't really be an issue. Wow, two years into the marriage before you had your first argument? Well, guess what? We had quite a big one on the DAY of our wedding. Whoo boy. I still bring that one up when I need to! (I'm bad.) He's been paying for that one for 12 years now. But I digress... I also wanted to say that if you don't have a power battle going on now, why do you think you would AFTER you get married? Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 I also wanted to say that if you don't have a power battle going on now, why do you think you would AFTER you get married? I don't really think we will.. She is a sweetheart and makes a good dent in my life not a bad one.. Right now though we are only BF/GF.. it can take on a new dynamic throwing together the households and responsibilities. But again.. I haven't seen any red flags and she is a sweetheart that cares about me.. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 I haven't seen any red flags and she is a sweetheart that cares about me.. Sounds good :) Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 Pattern: It is mostly women who like to regurgitate old arguments, with the exception of Curmudgeon, who is just one of the girls? Hmmm! Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing. But I ain't usin' the lady's room. No way! No how! And that's a fact, Jack! Link to post Share on other sites
milvushina Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 1. About sex baby. 2. This morning. It's been almost a week. I know it happens. I got up early, showered & got in bed. He asked for a back rub so I gave him one. Then I said I would like to make love, but "I'm too tired." So I leaned over, kissed his ears etc., and said are you sure? "Eh." So I rubbed his back for a sec and got up to do morning chores. Guess that was a bad move because then he got up and told me sarcastically not to try so hard next time, that he doesn't always wake up horny and needs convincing sometimes. But by then the mood was broken or some crap and he was no longer interested. He let me know he was upset by ragging on me about laundry, coffee mugs, and the like. It sucked... 3. Well as we were leaving for work he apologized so I guess about an hour. 4. I don't think it was resolved, I think I just have to put up with this. Not sure if it was really my inability to read signals or his deciding in advance that he was not going to be happy this morning. Either way destined to repeat. Link to post Share on other sites
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