MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 I can stay home, alone tonight. But it's been a hormonal week. I don't have my kids this weekend, and I had a really nice date last night with someone who has been a past lover but also a very good friend (we have not had sex yet in the 2 yrs I've known him). I had a few dates with another guy over the last month and we clicked but things seem to have slowed down (maybe he lost my #) probably more due to our busy schedules (he works alot). Tonight there is a big party nearby, a town celebration, live band, beer tent, etc and I will know several people there, mostly from work. I really would like to go but my dilemma's are: -I am shy and have a hard time just walking up to people and joining the party even if I know them -If I do see someone I know, I am worried I will latch on for the evening and they will think I'm clingy (male or female) -What would you think of a 40+ woman showing up at this type of event alone? -I don't have any friends in this town!!! I suck! Should I just go to the gym, then get a good chick movie? Should I stay on LS all night I bought a hot new outfit (shorts/tank) that look really good on me and it's a good hair day! Maybe I'll meet someone hot AND loaded who likes to drive! I'd be leaving in about 2 hrs if I go. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 Go, look nice, hang out for an hour or so. Sit somewhere and enjoy the music. If someone you know says hi, say hi back and that you wanted to come see the event, ask them to join you. If you still feel uncomfortable then you can always duck out and still rent a movie. I would at least go for a little while. Have fun. Unders Link to post Share on other sites
Author MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted June 24, 2007 Author Share Posted June 24, 2007 Yeah good plan for some reason I was thinking I HAD to make a night of it. I'd really like to hear the band because a couple of guys I work with is in it, and I've never heard them. I could go @9 or so, stay til 10 (or so) ... and you know, sometimes people you know see you leaving and they talk you into staying, and then they make it more fun for you. Well i won't expect anything much, but yeah I'll brave it out. I was going to go earlier today, watch some of the slo pitch but was too busy shopping haha Link to post Share on other sites
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