confused mom Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Long story short, my husband and I have been apart for 1-year now and we have been talking. He has dated other people and so have I. The problem is the guy I dated lives in the same town and we will run in to each other at our children's sporting events, grocery store, etc...my ex don't think things will work out due to this reason. but the lady he seen works with him and he would see her 40+ hours per week. I have no problem with this and feel he should not either. He says that relationship is over with her and mine is over and I'm willing to try to work things out with him, but he does not know due to the fact we would still run into each other every now and then and he can not handle that. Should I keep trying to work things out or will it always be a battle. Confused and don't know what to do? Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Was this just a temporary separation to clear your heads? Were you still married? If so, why were you both seeing other people? When you do that, its a big killer to reconciliation. I'm afraid it will be an uphill battle from here on out because you both messed around. You had problems before, now you have added other people to the mix. Not exactly the way to go about reconciliation. If me and my wife separated for a while knowing we would get back together after a short period of time, I'd just file the divorce papers if I knew she was seeing someone else during that time. but to answer your question, I think you two will have worse problems than when you separated. Just my opinion, but I think by both of you seeing other people, you pretty much set the stage for the failure of your marriage. But for your sake I hope that isn't the case if you truly love each other. Link to post Share on other sites
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