I Love her but she hurts me

[jayandsad]

I have been in love with my best friend for 4 years, recently she broke up with her boyfriend and i told her how much i love her but she didnt love me back, but we remained friends, just like i hadnt told her anything then a month ago we were drunk and i told her again, but she didnt return the feelings, later that night i go down stairs to find her making out with a really drugged up random on my lounge. she didnt see me and the next day she didnt say anything, but i told her how much it hurt me. 2 weeks later we were getting along good she said that she might b falling for me and i was over the moon but then 3 days later she text me at 1.30 in the morning saying that she was making out with randoms and she didnt no which one she was going to sleep with, and she kept telling me she loved me as a friend then i tried to talk to her about how much she hurt me. but sonce then she has continued doing it, possibly on purpose. then this morning i did the hardest thing i have ever had to do in my life i told her that i couldnt b friends with her if she was acting like that, then she said that she was going to go sleep with some guy she just met and that she doesnt want to b my friend either. i know she does but we cant be friends again until i stop loving her, i really want to, i know how much she hurts me and that i get no benefit out of loving her but i just cant stop, what should i do?

[Yamaha]

You need to stay away from her and end the friendship. She is just taunting you with talk of random hook-ups with strangers because she thinks it's fun to tease you. Is this really the kind of behavior you want in a friend let alone a lover? If you continue to banter about with her she will just continue to belittle your feelings. As much as it hurts you you need to pull away and let her be. Letting her have her cake and eat it too will just keep you hurting and let her do as she pleases.

[Quinch]

I agree. She doesn't respect you or herself. Real friends don't behave like this.