Almost back together then BAM!!

[TravelFan07]

[FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]My ex and I have been together on and off for 5 plus. During that time we had our highs and lows. New people came in and out of our lives but we always worked things out. She actually had a new guy last for about 7 months. Anyway after that we worked things out but she still chilled with this guy as a “friend” Anyway I started to get fed up she didn’t want to be my GF so I started to look elsewhere and I told her that and she got all broken up over it but I stood my ground for a few months until she said it was to hard for to be in my life bc she wanted to be my girl for so long. But, only a few weeks after the break I missed her very badly and I gave her a call. We hung out like old times and things were going very well and she was so happy as was I. Then she got a call from a friend of a friend who was a guy they apparently mett a while back, and she decided to chill with him, any to make a long story short she ended up staying there the whole weekend until Monday and I found out she was doing all kinds of drugs and drinking. She ended having sex with this kid who just randomly called out of the blue. She said she blacked out and doesn’t even remember what happened and she only found out after the fact. But this isn’t the first time she has blacked out and did stuff like this. If she was so happy to be back in my life why the hell would she put our relationship jeopardy by doing this, I was supposed to hang out with her that weekend. We didn’t even have sex because she said she wanted to take things slow but she ends up doing some random kid she talked to like once months ago, I heard there were a lot of guys there I am wondering if she did more dudes than just him. I am so pissed because we could have had something special and now its gone to hell. But apart of me just wants to say its ok, what the hell is wrong with me, I think I blame her alcohol problem more than her, but if she really loved me she would have never drank with that guy bc she knows how she gets its so crazy. I should just tell her to f off but it will be very hard. Any advice as to what I should or what the hell is wrong with her not kicking her ass to the curb right now. Thanks[/sIZE][/FONT]

[Pixie-Minx]

be careful...

my ex split with me after i did drugs..he was aware i was gonna aswell.

you best bet so you dont regret it later is ask her to make a choice, drugs and alcohol or you..

 

her choice will give you the answer u need

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[FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]We hung out like old times and things were going very well and she was so happy as was I. Then she got a call from a friend of a friend who was a guy they apparently mett a while back, and she decided to chill with him, any to make a long story short she ended up staying there the whole weekend until Monday and I found out she was doing all kinds of drugs and drinking. She ended having sex with this kid who just randomly called out of the blue.

 

Boom...right there shows she isn't worth your time.

 

She said she blacked out and doesn’t even remember what happened and she only found out after the fact.

 

Ya right, and I have a brand new Bugatti for sale too.

 

But this isn’t the first time she has blacked out and did stuff like this. If she was so happy to be back in my life why the hell would she put our relationship jeopardy by doing this

 

Because she is a dog. I'll go you one further, and I'm sorry, but she is a little s!ut. Thats why.

 

I had a girl I was dating one time who went to see an ex-boyfriend over a weekend without telling me. When she got back she tried to act like it was no big deal. I told her I wasn't going to see her any longer. She told me I had no right because me and her were not exclusive. I told her that she was right, we were not exclusive and for that reason I wasn't mad. But I told her if she wanted a serious relationship with me, that wasn't the way to go about it. and then I just told her to leave.

 

I was supposed to hang out with her that weekend. We didn’t even have sex because she said she wanted to take things slow but she ends up doing some random kid she talked to like once months ago

 

No kidding. She wants to take it slow with you, but f#ck a guy after a quick booty call. Just drop this tramp man. she isn't worth your time or anyone elses for that matter.

 

I heard there were a lot of guys there I am wondering if she did more dudes than just him. I am so pissed because we could have had something special and now its gone to hell. But apart of me just wants to say its ok, what the hell is wrong with me, I think I blame her alcohol problem more than her, but if she really loved me she would have never drank with that guy bc she knows how she gets its so crazy.

 

Dude, all alcohol does is make people do what they would like to do in the first place, its just their shields are down when they are drunk.

Being drunk is not an excuse.

 

I should just tell her to f off but it will be very hard.

 

Thats exactly what you should tell her. Maybe if she loses you she might grow up...but I doubt it.

 

Any advice as to what I should or what the hell is wrong with her not kicking her ass to the curb right now. Thanks[/sIZE][/FONT]

 

You are wanting any kind of advice OTHER than kicking her to the curb?

 

Sorry man, I just can't do that. If you continue with this tramp, you will regret it. But ultimately you do what you want to do. But I've been there and done that, and I know based on what you have told me that you will be wasting your time with her.