Cioriel Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 I was just wondering if anyone had any examples of a couple getting back together after remaining friends after breaking up. I am having a really hard time between doing no contact or just remaining friends right now - we work together so that makes no contact not easy whatsoever and almost seems to create bad feelings because we are just ignoring each other at work. So if anyone has any examples of getting back together after being friends after a breakup please share Link to post Share on other sites
CJ77 Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 I can honestly say i know where your coming from...i too work with my ex and when u work together the no contact thing is difficult to stick to....i been trying this new thing where i just go about my business at work and just dont look at him but even that doesnt work...he still says hi/how are ya kinda stuff...he doesnt care that im flat out ignoring him lol....but i gotta say your better off just having as little contact as possible bc that is what will make the person want u back bc it will drive them nuts that u are going about your life without still hanging on to them...so if i were u i would just try to have as little contact as possible and if the person comes back then great, if not, then be happy that theres someone better waiting to find you... Link to post Share on other sites
prism23 Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 The best thing to do in this situation (in my actual experiance with this) is to do NC as best as possible - don't talk to him outside of work, and when you are at work, keep it business related and professional ONLY. "Hi how are you?" "I'm great thanks how are you?" - the type of hi you'd say in pasing to any coworker you saw. Would you talk to your boss about your feelings? Treat him as you would another employee you don't know very well! Link to post Share on other sites
ellastar Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 My (ex)bf and I also work together, but this place is huge so we never run into each other, maybe on the train platform to work or in the shuttle bus. But we still share a flat, so NC is impossible. I have been very neutral, treating him as if he were a simple roommate, but he wants to chat and bull****. I ran into him at work yesterday on the way to lunch and he smiled very warmly and said hello, I said hello back, but it was fake! I'll never give him the chance to miss me this way! Ugh, I just wish I could find a flat sooner. Link to post Share on other sites
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