rlskittles Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 I have a problem. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years now, on and off. Well, when he broke up with me about 7 months ago, i went and made out with another guy, twice, and failed to tell him about it. Well, he just recently found out about it and is so upset that i lied to him about it. I mean, i completely denied it ever happening until he had hard evidence to prove that i did it. I really was scared of losing him and didnt want him to know because i knew that he would be disgusted with me and i didnt want him to think that of me. He now tells me that i must do something to prove to him how much this relationship means to him and how i will change. What can i do to prove that to him? i mean, he wants something done within the next couple of hours. He tells me that actions speak louder than words, but what can i do to show him that i have changed? The problem is, is that it's not the first time that ive lied to him. Its actually like the third time, but ive never cheated on him or anything, its just always something stupid that i would lie about. So what can i do to prove to him that i have changed? Link to post Share on other sites
shadowofman Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 ****, I don't know. Why did you lie? You weren't dating at the time. Be yourself. Don't conform to what you think he wants you to be. If you made out with someone and you wanted to, tell him. Are you afraid that he will look down on your behavior? Or maybe your taste in make-out partners? If so tell him that you were embarassed. Apologize for lying, but don't apologies for having a good time and exploring people when your single. You have every right to. All anyone really wants is the truth, and we should all try to give it. Even if it hurts. Even if it's embarassing. Don't make any promises that you will be hard pressed to keep. I'm not sure what kind of proof he wants. I'm not sure there is such a thing except full, warts-and-all, discloser. Link to post Share on other sites
drake111 Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 If you kissed some guy when you were broke up, i dont see how thats cheating..and if hes asking you to prove your love for him somehow that just seems really weird to me..the only way you can do that is say, "Im sorry i kissed that guy. I really love you, will you please forgive me for that." Link to post Share on other sites
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